So, no matter what they say, guys look at porn. Some more than others.
Do you put your foot down and say no porn ever? Do you kinda just and have an 'out of sight out of mind' attitude? Are you in denial that FH even likes porn?
FH and I were friends for years before dating and people always joked that he was the porn king because someone was once snooping on his computer and found a file. Poor guy. Im pretty sure it could happen to any guy in his situation
I honestly dont know where I stand on the issue. Im SURE he looks at it while Im not around, but how can I put my foot down on something I have no control over? I did ask, that if he does look at porn that he not pay for it. That money is for taking me out on dates not looking at hos on the internet.
Anyone have any thoughts on the issue?
lilqtpie2181
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Posted by brittny817
My FH swears up and down that he is totally not into porn. Even his friends say that he thinks porn chicks and strippers are nasty. Not sure if I completely buy it.
Personally I have no problem if he looks here and there. I don't think it's a big deal.
I would have a problem if he were more interested in looking at porn and diddling himself than me.
My man swears the same... He says that he would rather be doing then watching... WHy get all excited if im not around to 'help'. There is none on his comp and afer his bro moved out.. there is none in his room either... Atleast none that i know of. I dont really care. Boys will be Boys!!! But there is a limit. U know there is a problem when he starts leavingmy bed to go watch porn. Unfortunatly, I know a couple who is going through this and the girls self steem is just to the ground by now... I feel bad butim thanful that Im not in that situation.
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After being told that I'm soo beautiful, and such, I had a hard time with busting his a$$ one night when he thought I was asleep. I'm sorry, but what does looking a smut do for you, when you have a perfectly capable woman who loves you in the next room, or same room for that matter? Listen, I just had a baby, and at the time I was pregnant( but didn't know it ). Even still....better that he look at home..... YES! But why not act out what you see and like with your partner, as opposed to just looking at someone else do it? Maybe I'm wrong! Or maybe not.......we did just have a baby Definately no on his part.
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Posted by mskittynj
I could care less if he looks at porn, hopefully he will share it with me....lololol XOXOXO Kitty
I so agree with you. I wished he watched them more, I love watching them.
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We watch it together if anything! We love making fun of these people!-
i second that. the porn movies often do provide some extreme entertainment value! they are quite funny.
charliesbride
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FH isnt into all that kind of stuff...so i dont even need to think aobut 'rules'
ncd623
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boys will be boys and they are gonna watch it. If it ends there and doesn't affect your relationship, you can't get crazy over it. He going to bed with you at night, thats what counts.
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I have only 1 rule when it comes to porn. I want to watch it as well. There is no need to hide it under a floor board, under the bed, etc. To me there is nothing wrong with porn it's human nature and it's funny as hell. I gotta admit there are times I'm not into doing it and I'm tired. I dont feel bad if he goes and 'handles his business'.
olivia30
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As long as we watch together
Love4Eva
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FH swears that its nasty and disgusting to watch, and that he is not interested. Im not sure if I buy it, bc I told him that I have an older brother and I did 'catch' him more than one time looking and hiding porn - so its normal for me to think that all guys are like that.
I know that he SCEEVES Strippers bc he doesnt know where the've been and what they have done - so he doesnt want to go near them - I cant complain abt that - lol
If he does watch it, and doesnt want to tell me - thats fine - I dont care. I think its normal, as long as it doesnt affect our relationship
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Posted by prettyprincess07
I have only 1 rule when it comes to porn. I want to watch it as well. There is no need to hide it under a floor board, under the bed, etc. To me there is nothing wrong with porn it's human nature and it's funny as hell. I gotta admit there are times I'm not into doing it and I'm tired. I dont feel bad if he goes and 'handles his business'.
