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Post wedding depression

Original post by conigs25

Anyone think they will have this? I certainly will.

I have loved every single second of planning my wedding to this amazing man and although i al SO happy to start my life, I will be sad that this part is over.

This wkd is my one yr engaged mark and im sad bc i wanna do it all over again. I can only imagine how the wedding will feel
sr081906 Posted:

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Posted by SweetCin704

I truly had that the first time around, to be honest that was part of the reason things didn't work out....I was so concerned w/ the wedding planning & neither of us discussed our expectations for the marriage, etc. It was all kind of a letdown afterwards & at the time neither of us had ever lived away from home. It was a huge adjustment & a reality check.

This time around however, I'll be sad that the wedding is over, but hopefully have wonderful memories of the day & will then look forward to the baby planning!!!!



I second that!
alioop4282 Posted:

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I really cannot wait till it's over.
Planning has not been fun for me. FH has no opinions/no ideas/no suggestions and I'm tired of doing everything!
angnick Posted:

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A lot of my girlfriends have been telling me how depressing it is that it is all over. I actually think some of them are a bit self centered and maybe why this is why they feel this way. However I can't wait to be married. Every night my fiance comes to my house, i kiss him goodnight and we both say, how much we can't wait to be married and wake up next to each other.

I'm sick of spending all this money.. I just want to finish planning and get married. enjoythe day, and reminisce about it for the rest of our lives!
krispyc Posted:

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Oh god.. I cant wait until this planning is over & done with.. I have had just about enough of the planning, the stress & anticipation. I have been engaged since March 2004, so I have been through the highs & lows of this whole wedding planning process for quite a while now. Im tired of it- tired of the drama.. tired of trying to make everything perfect-make sure every single detail is covered. I knew that wedding planning is stressful, but, seriously, Im just tired of it.. Im done with this chapter of my life.. Im ready to move on & just be married already. Maybe it is because it seems like everywhere I go someone I know is engaged & planning a wedding, & no matter what I just cant get a break from it!


I couldn't have said it any better myself. That's EXACTLY how I feel right now.
CJStein Posted:

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Yes, I already look at pics and am a little sad it's over.....and I haven't been married a month yet!

JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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I didn't think I'd feel sad but I was during the first month. I certainly didn't miss the stress but I did miss the anticipation; the week of the wedding was such a heady experience and I could certainly relive those feelings again and again.
However, now that I'm nearly three months out of it, I'm just glad to have those memories and to be living my life with DH.

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