Awww I'm so sorry you are feeling this way! But, what a great day you had...and those pictures!! They came out awesome...you will always have those memories, and you have the rest of your married lives to look forward to now!!
I am actually depressed before the wedding!?!?! Is that weird?? Not because I'm second-guessing anything, but just because this whole process has been very overwhelming for me. Learned some things about people really close to me (good and bad) and hoping that I don't let petty things get to me at the wedding
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Aw, thanks Christine. You are absolutely right, it was a beautiful day and I got some great memories, and I have a lot to look forward to between making the albums, getting the rest of my video footage and heck, I still get to plan and go on a honeymoon!! Just can't believe the day has actually come and gone.
I think it's perfectly normal to feel that a little bit a few days before. And trust me, we had some pre-wedding drama with some family and a big issue with numerous cancellations, so I had my fair share. The whole process IS very overwhelming and draining. Its funny because at a certain point maybe 3-4days before the wedding, I said I can't wait for it to be OVER. But I think I was really just looking forward to all the last minute planning things to be over, because the day before once I dropped off my box and final payment I felt a big weight off my shoulders and a felt a great calm and excitement for the evening and day to come!!
So don't worry another day or so and I am SURE you will find that same calm and excitement for your big day!!!!
GOOD LUCK!! :)
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Thanks so much -- good to hear I think you are right, it's the last minute details you just want over, it's draining after awhile! I'm sure we will be super excited by Friday!
Oh wow... that's awesome that you have a honeymoon to look forward to now!!
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I have pre-wedding depression!!! Help!! I am an emotional eater...
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I figured with such a big high and excitement leading up to the wedding there may be slump afterwards! I'll get it I know that. hahaha
I loved your wedding pictures! So happy and cheerful looking!!! You've got great material to make a nice albume with.
I know I'm going to be like.... all that money gone and that's it?? couldn't it be longer? Well I hope anyway that its not a disaster!!! and that I feel like I wish it was longer!!
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aww i can only imagine..my shower was this sunday and i feel like it went by soo fast! at least u have ur pictures and memories :)
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lol yea i agree with the money comment.........also what to do with all the free time now.. that's why i been trying hard to keep a 'normal' life while planning.
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I have a feeling I will be the same way because I had a blast planning my wedding.
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i totally agree!!! i was so NOT into planning until close to the end. and then on the day everything was so wonderful and now i'm like boo- want to do it again. my DH asked if we can do one every year...
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Posted by cdh2672
Awww I'm so sorry you are feeling this way! But, what a great day you had...and those pictures!! They came out awesome...you will always have those memories, and you have the rest of your married lives to look forward to now!!
I am actually depressed before the wedding!?!?! Is that weird?? Not because I'm second-guessing anything, but just because this whole process has been very overwhelming for me. Learned some things about people really close to me (good and bad) and hoping that I don't let petty things get to me at the wedding
I'm having some Pre wedding depression too, i hope it goes away, I have my 1st fitting & make-up & hair trials tomorrow, florist saturday, bakery sunday, AH
