Post-Wedding Vent! (a bit long)

I want to get my rant post out of the way so I can focus on my advice and reviews.

I came home from my honeymoon, to be picked up by my Momzilla who immediately made me cry by yelling at me and telling me how pissed my aunt (her sister) (aka auntzilla) was about her seating arrangements at the wedding and demanding I call her and apologize. She claims she is insulted and felt like a seat filler. The whole thing is ridiculous on many levels. For one, they were only sitting in that arrangement for 3-3.5 hours (and many of those involved getting up and dancing and walking around). #2, She got my mom so upset that now my mom has now turned around to say that she didn’t want to sit with my husbands parents or her own son (my brother) and that she wished she was with my aunt and that my seating arrangements were terrible. We had less than 50 people at our wedding. There wasn't much I could do considering we didn’t want the young people mixed in with the very old and we wanted our parents and siblings to be seated together. We put a lot of thought into it and had good reasons for placing them where we did. #3, it is our day. Not theirs and they should suck it up considering I already took one seating request from them. Am I wrong to be offended that they are so pissed and offended? I don’t want to have to apologize or explain myself. It seems embarrassing and belittling and I hate that all they had to say was how they hated their seats rather than anything positive about the amazing day we had set up. How can anyone hold a grudge about their seating arrangements??

I would like to also mention that during the reception she complained that the entrees were awful and gave me attitude on my day regarding my photographer not getting photographs of us together.

I cried all the way from the airport back to my apartment. Which took about 2 hours. And then cried more.

I guess I have to suck it up and call because I don’t know how else to proceed.