Postponing?

The FH and I (mostly FH) were thinking about postponing the wedding. Oddly enough 2 weeks ago we were thinking about moving it up. There is just so much going on and we are both stressing. Our wedding is supposed to be right when we both finish graduate school and we don't really have any money. We just got engaged and moved to NJ this summer and now he thinks that everything is going too fast....AHHHHHH
But now I feel like it is too far away already. I don't know what to do. We already put the deposit down at MG and the next payment is due in a few weeks. Now I am thinking should I just cancel the MG wedding and when he is ready we go looking again? At more places? Did we just pick MG because we were rushing...ahhhhhhhh. He just said that he wants me to stop talking about the wedding for awhile, but how can I ? HELP!!!

kelly i swear i just wrote about this on thursday were going through the same thing funny how were RH twins. it is alot of money and i feel like its way to far away as it is i cant imagine postponing but its the $$$$ that we dont have.. were going to give it a few months and see how we feel we already finished all our payments so i feel like we passed the speed bump. Do whats best for you guys i know its upsetting and hard and totally stressfull... please feel free to FM me if u want to talk one on one i get it really i do! im still a student and will be for another year the wedding is 3months after graduation and FH just started working and i dont work full time so theres not alot of $ right now hence why we dont live together. i hope everything works out for you i know its hard! here are some

Thanks for the hugs.... it is so hard we are getting a little help from the Fam but not enought o pay for the whole wedding. I understand him wanting to wait but I have just been ready for so long and since we already booked I feel like we are taking a step backwards!

Ya know, you could always just call me. Anytime. I am only sitting here, typing away to this computer and relentlessly pursuing my tshirt.