I'd go for a medium amount because I know there's no way I could find 300 people to invite. But right now we're trying really hard to keep it at 120 (a number picked by my mom) and it is impossible. We have too many people we HAVE to invite and that means that a lot of our friends are getting B listed.
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We have our guest list just teetering under 200 people which is why i picked small. I dont think that for me, that i would be comfortable with over 300 people, I would probably feel like I neglected to talk to people..
ladybengal
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small, very small and intimate on a remote island. A girl can dream lol!
redvelvet
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my min is abt 150 now but i voted to have it bigger if money were no object.
VickiR510
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Im already having a medium sized wedding 250 people. FH & I both have very large families & so that would be the amount we wold have to have. But i wouldnt want it anybigger. Ims o shappy with everyting we have & are doing! I LOVE EVERYTHING! I WOULDNT CHANGE A THING!
fiore76
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I would still want what we're having, inviting everyone we want to.
Jsquared279
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We are keeping it to about 120. I think that is the perfect size. I don't want an overwhelming amount of distant relatives that I need to spend time going around too. It is just too much ya know? I just want to dance and look in my FH's eyes and know that our wedding day will be the best day of our lives!!!!!!!
Ann 52409
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probably about 50 more than we are having now, but then I would need another reception hall to hold all those people
he gives me butterflies
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same as what i am having now, maybe a few more 'freinds' and some of my parents friends, but definitely under 200 people.
NickandTara426
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Medium amount, I'm having conflict with FH about the guest list, he wants to invite the world LOL. We're having 100-150 people I think it's going to be more on the 150 side. I like small intimate personally. But if money were no object I would go for just a little more.
GiantsBride
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The more the merrier!
MrsInglima
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Posted by NickandTara426
Medium amount, I'm having conflict with FH about the guest list, he wants to invite the world LOL. We're having 100-150 people I think it's going to be more on the 150 side. I like small intimate personally. But if money were no object I would go for just a little more.
I wish we could invite more people, but because my mom is being really strict I constantly fight with FH to try to keep him from inviting people. He always wants to invite friends or relatives he used to be friends with. I keept telling him 'If you haven't spoke with them since we started dating you are not inviting them.' We've probably cut 15 people off the list just with that rule. And another 10-15 with the 'If they don't have a significant other, or aren't in a serious long term relationship, they're not getting a +1.'
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I'd have the wedding that I'm having now, 250+, but, I would have it on a grander scale. I would have all of the extras that I really want, etc.
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def. between 100-200 which is what by wedding size is now. i want both sides of the fam to invite who they want and not feel bad for inviting too many but i also don't want people there that we nor they have seen for 100 years and will probably never see again.
tinadansr
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probably the same amount we are having this time
Kristina2009
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FH and I are already having about 250 people. We both have been in NY/NJ all our lives and have many friends here. If money were no object I would maybe invite a few more coworkers and invite some second cousins (which are mostly children). But overall I am happy with our size and do not think I would ever want a 300+ wedding.
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I would want it small and intimate, but I would spend the money to fly everyone out to disney and get married in the castle haha And then have a second beach wedding in aruba. LMAO. I have dreams<3
so_in_love630
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we both have pretty small families... and prefer to keep our wedding intimate with only our close friends and family... if it was up to us we would only have about 90... but the minimum for the hall is 115
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We're trying to keep our wedding around 180 at the most but that means cutting a bunch of people... if money were no object and we could invite everyone we REALLY wanted there it would probably be closer to 250.
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Were having a small wedding, less than 20 people as we are only having our immediate family and close friends there. We are both too shy to have a huge wedding!
