PRAYERS!

For whatever it's worth do not make anyone ruin what should be the most exciting and important time in your life. If you want to cancel the wedding it should be because YOU want to not because stress from other people is driving you to do it! No one needs associate with people like that they definitely don't sound like friends. GL hun

why do you have such terrible 'friends'?!?!

do what is best for you, sweetie... whether it be eloping or telling your 'friends' to get out of your life so you can be happy. it seems like they are jealous of your happiness so canceling your wedding may be what they WANT. so try to stick it out and just live your life... and tell those b!tches to get the hell outttttttt!!!!

Thanks girls! FH and I spoke last night. He's had it with these girls. I've been friends with them since I'm 4 years old, 2 of them being bridesmaids (I was a BM in one and I'm a BM in another in June). I was talking to FSIL/MOH and she made it clear to me that they are ruining this for me and FH. I had to stop FH from emailing them all. I didn't want to start trouble because they already paid for their dresses and I feel bad but realized at the end of the day this is supposed to be about what would make me happy. I'm not walking on eggshells anymore. I'm usually the first person to run and help my friends and I'm usually the one to try to smooth things out with everyone so that it doesn't effect the weddings and the friendships. HOWEVER, why am I doing that? I decided I don't care if they pay for their dresses or I spent all this money on their gifts even though they don't deserve them. If they want to treat me like cr*p then they can move on to something else.

This is all of course easier said then done but me being upset is making FH upset. Family and friends have ruined the last 15 months of our engagement and I'm not going to try for them not to ruin the last 4 months!!!

Thanks girls! I really appreciate the advise and prayers! Now, lets just hope I can stick to what I said!

I don't ususally say this... but it sounds like they are SUPER JEALOUS! They are not friends and you and FH should have your amazing day without them! No need to cancel the wedding of your dreams bc of your friends BS.

Prayers for you anyway, hang in there.... it will all be worth it in the end