PRAYERS!

ourwedding9510 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:02 PM

PRAYERS!

I could use all the prayers right now. I know it's selfish to ask because nothing is bad with my health or anything but for some reason it's gang up on Linda day with my friends and since January of LAST YEAR everyone has made my life MISERABLE surrounding this wedding and I actually just asked FH to cancel the whole thing and him and I just go and get married (I ask him this all the time)! I want my friends to get so mad they stop talking to me and I want to cancel this whole thing and never have to deal with this because I just don't have the strength. I can't do this for another 4 months, it's been almost 15 and I can't do it anymore! So prayers to either give me some strength or FH to consider canceling would be much appreciated! Thanks girls!

AngnShaun Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:03 PM

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StaceyWill Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:04 PM

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SummerBride10 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:04 PM

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GiannisWifey Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:04 PM

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well, it sounds like they aren't friends at all then..........maybe they don't know how stressful and time consuming planning a wedding can be......that, or they are just JEALOUS.

I hope everything works out

latinaj Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:05 PM

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Sweetie51804 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:06 PM

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ourwedding9510 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:07 PM

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Posted by GiannisWifey

well, it sounds like they aren't friends at all then..........maybe they don't know how stressful and time consuming planning a wedding can be......that, or they are just JEALOUS.

I hope everything works out

Thanks, you would think that except 1 got married this month and another one is getting married in June.

Clover23 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:07 PM

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ourwedding9510 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:08 PM

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Thanks girls! I'm sitting here crying at work and all I want to do is go home and lay in bed!!!!

Future Mrs H Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:12 PM

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First of all your not being selfish to ask for prayers.

Also- I know exactly what you are going though- but with me its my family. Jerry and I have talked numerous times about cancelling everything- get married and just go on our HM.

I hope things get better

gravemiss Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:13 PM

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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:15 PM

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Oh no!!! It will be worth it! Hang in there!!

ourwedding9510 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 01:33 PM

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You girls truly are a great support system! If FH would agree I would have neve had this wedding. To me nothing is worth this. BUT at the same time while it's only a 5 hour party it's a lifetime of memories. At this point I want everyone to go srcew themselves and hope everyone hates me and I get kicked out of the June wedding and I can save money on the 9 people that wouldn't come to the wedding! (Ones single and P*ssed she's not invited to the wedding with a guest...even after explaining that would make our guest list 350 people but she thinks she should bring a guest - btw she's meeting her guest for the first time at one of the other weddings shes going to - because she lives so far away and she's the only single one in our friends). UGH! That's just the start of it all!

marinai7 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 02:56 PM

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mariedsgn Posted: Apr 28, 2010 02:57 PM

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Jna2010 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 02:59 PM

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dont let your friends ruin this for you!!

chrisandjeanne Posted: Apr 28, 2010 03:02 PM

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Be strong...i know it's easier said than done but don't let others bring you down. It's not fair to your FH and it's not fair to yourself to be so distraught that it is effecting your work. I always try to think of something that makes me happy( e.g. Sunny weather for the weekend, or a dinner date with the FH). You should do the same, because honestly, I am a firm believer that life is way to short to not enjoy every minute. I'll pray for you, but I know without any prayers, you'll be fine. We are definitely here to be your support.