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Pre-marital libido

OctGroom Posted:

Pre-marital libido

OK.. in all seriousness.. all kidding aside.. have any of you noticed a change in libido as the wedding approaches/approached...

for me, I feel 16 again (which ain't too bad because I know how to handle it now.. LOL Stop. Get your minds outta the gutter!) .. and this is in spite of much stress... LOL

FW has been more nervous and probably handling this different from me.

Is it a common thing for guys to have a renaissance of the teenage years.. and women to be a bit more focused on the date and what needs to be done than the nookie?

Thoughts?...



btrflygrl Posted:

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actually my DH was the opposite...as the stress sets in (in any situation, not just the wedding) his libido DROPS....he gets pre-occupied with what hes' stressing about.

ETA: the re-emergence of those teenage years came on the HM!!! With nothing to worry about except beach or pool everyday....
OctGroom Posted:

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Posted by btrflygrl

actually my DH was the opposite...as the stress sets in (in any situation, not just the wedding) his libido DROPS....he gets pre-occupied with what hes' stressing about.

ETA: the re-emergence of those teenage years came on the HM!!! With nothing to worry about except beach or pool everyday....





I can't wait to have those worries.. LOL
Beach or pool.. hmmmm....
dm24angel Posted:

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Mine is opposite....
MrsK-in-June05 Posted:

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Your suppoised to have sex with your FI??? Damn, I knew I was missing out something!!!

I think when I talk about the wedding he loses all interest in sex. He just worries about how is going to pay for his share of the big day, lol.
jessnjoey Posted:

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It's normal to have highs and lows....Dr. Phil says so LOL

OctGroom Posted:

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Posted by jessnjoey

It's normal to have highs and lows....Dr. Phil says so LOL





of course.. just as long as one makes sure that up's and downs don't completely stop!

Sorry.. I'm terrible!
LovelyL Posted:

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Me & FH have been umm......as willing as ever. We both have recently had good things happening for us though. I think when either party is really stressing though...the sex life slows down.

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