Pregnant BM Question...

My Future-stepdaughter whom is suppose to be in the wedding, just found out that she's pregnant.
She asked if she could still be in the wedding (she's due Sept 21, mu wedding is Sept 3)
I told her I don't think it would be a great idea, she understood. It's her first baby, so that mean it could come two weeks before or two weeks after, so there's a chance she would even be able to come to the wedding.

do you WANT her to be in the wedding? or are you trying to nix her because she is pregnant in a nice way?

If you want her to still be in the wedding then just let her know ... Tell her, 'I just want to tell you that I absolutely want you to be apart of the wedding and in the bridal party but if it will make you feel uncomfortable please know that I wont be offended.'

In my opinion, I dont think its the best thing to get ride of a BM just because they are pregnant. I dont really understand that UNLESS the preganant BM feels that way.

Good luck