I'll be the one to be so bold to ask about this. Go ahead and dish it- do you have one? Did you want one? How do you feel about it? Protect your assets and your ***? Yes it infers the marriage could end- yes it's taboo... but it's real.
AwaitingAugust
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it's the least sexy & romantic thing to do when you're about to get married but i think it's extremely important.
we don't have one yet, but we will before the wedding!
StaceyWill
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It was not even an issue for us, just because we both have diddly squat
DreamyD
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It can also protect you in the event of a tragedy from your FH's debt, school loans, credit card bills.... things of that nature- it's not only to protect your money... so I hear?
allornil
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I have a house but it's in my name only. I pay the mortgage out of my account and only my name is on the deed.
If we move, we'll sell and buy another house together. I may make him sign something about that when we do. yes, I know it;s not romantic but trust me, Ive been divorced. It cost me 12k and I learned better to be safe than sorry.
MrsC2010
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neither of us have any real assets so we didnt do one.
canmigs
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I think it's a great idea. I have been divorced and it cost me 7 years and $30,000+. We are definitely getting one.
AngnShaun
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Posted by StaceyWill
It was not even an issue for us, just because we both have diddly squat
Same here..
but that being said... i am not against them..
GracieJMay2010
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Super cool question.
My husbands family has money. Not a great deal but they do ok
My husband also has a business. In real life he (and his partners) are still building it, but on paper its worth a good sum.
He didnt ask me to sign one, and never brought it up. I was happy he didn't, but like would not have blamed if he did.
Im really glad he didn't. But I would have so signed it. I dont want anything except to share our lives.
I don't ever see us ending. We have a good relationship. If we ever did, even if he cheated, or did bad things I would take the high road and walk away. (within reason of years, kids etc) I would even give him the rings back. They are both family heirlooms.
JBC12510
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I dont think we'd do one. I have nothing to lose but debt.
wenR
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Same here. We both have no individual assets except for what we own jointly.
itbroi805
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haha, i have nothing for him, but if it would protect him from paying my debt as a just in case, id be willing to do it.
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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Surely id do it! He's told me, 'u want one? We can sign it! U can take my mortgage debt!' Hahaha. We bought the house when I was still young and in school, so its in his name only.
MrsTarricone2B
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We don't have one because we are both broke as a joke! haha
I wouldn't be opposed to signing one if he was rich before we met but if he came into money while we were already dating and then asked me to sign one I think I would be a little insulted. JMO
jackieee
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it's not for us. We don't have any money hahaha plus we really dont believe in divorce. This is for life.
For some people, I could understand the need,...for us, no need.
Future Mrs H
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I have nothing but FH has 2 house and quite a few investments. I wanted to sign a prenup- but he didnt want it. He was actually insulted that I brought it up.
SoontobeRoma15
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I own an apartment and My mother is all over me about doing this. I have discussed it with him and he understands. You don't want to ever think about things ending but you gotta do whatcha gotta do
SoonToBeMrsONeill
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Divorce is not an option for us, and we don't have any monies... soo no
I understand why it's there and why some couples do sign one together... it's just not for us :)
FutureMrsGTL
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It was not even an issue for us, just because we both have diddly squat
that's hysterical but i'm in the same boat.. however if FH asked me to sign one I would definately NOT marry him, I think its so incredibly insulting and basically dooming your marriage before it starts.. so i guess its a good thing we have diddly squat haha
cmwals01
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Unless the rights to the Xbox are in the prenup, we're good. I got jack.
