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Completely agree--this is how we handled it-- whoevers guest it was-- happened to be my Fi co-worker(thought his whole family was invited--crazy) and his cousin
Laura
If not, then it will not hurt to have these uninvited guest attend. If you are at your max then call them and politily explain. Some people just have no CLUE about these things and some people have too much nerve.
I would be careful, even if you don't have your guarantee number. Because you don't want to invite those guests and then have other friends and family wondering why they could't bring a date.
It is a sticky situation, that I already ran into once, before we even sent out invites. One of my bridesmaids just assumed she could bring a date -- I had to tell her that we weren't invited dates of guests (just significant others). And you know what? She understood perfectly, and said it was wrong of her to assume that she could. Some people just don't understand, especially if they haven't been to a lot of weddings.
GOOD LUCK! It will all work out.
I believe it should be the person who invited them--
think if you were invited to your friends wedding and did the same thing but her grnadmother called to tell you that you couldnt bring a guest--wouldnt you be annoyed at your friend for not calling?
Just my opinion
it is def not an easy call to make but you will feel so much better after you do
