I havr found that I have a few friends who just seem to want to make me miserable.....and then there are two of them who apparently have nothing to do but knock me and the wedding.....when Im not there........I dont understand why they cant be happy for me ..........and its not like I had to stop going out etc....I have two kids so Im not exactly a party animal,,,ex.....I was asked if we are doing a VH and I said yes.....' why would you do that? no one eats it ...my mother and I think its a waste of $$.....Im sorry but did I ask what you thought??????????? or lying and telling people she was in my bridal party and I was crying that my family is horrible ( never happend and makes my family look bad) I want to scream arent your friends supposed to be happy fo ryou????
oboediva31
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I feel your pain. I'm not even asking any of my friends to be involved at all. No BM's for me just my sister.
My best friend since 3rd grade can't manage to answer her phone. I'm sure school is so demanding....I work full time and go to school full time. She's obviously too busy taking 9 credits a semester and not working.
Jealous bitches all of them!
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I even got told that its dumb to have my kids there ...that they shouldnt be involved it dosent concern them.....again her and her mom think its dumb.....um Im not jost getting a husband out of the deal they are getting a step parent DUH........Fh asked them before he asked me if it was ok to marry mommy lol...........I feel like people just stink.....these girls arent even in my wedding but they ask I answer they got nasty
That's the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. How dare someone say that to you? It's like saying your kids aren't important. I'd punch whomever said that in the face. What a miserable b1tch. (I'm sorry this is your friend, but, that's just so incredibly rude I am mad FOR you.)
Honestly, I wouldn't invite them. They are obviously so unbelievably jealous.
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sorry to hear that your friend is being a pita- we all have that one friend that acts like that- i just chalk it up to jealousy and just hope that after everything is over her and i can be civil because these days i want to knock her out lol
hang in there
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I even got told that its dumb to have my kids there ...that they shouldnt be involved it dosent concern them.....again her and her mom think its dumb.....um Im not jost getting a husband out of the deal they are getting a step parent DUH........Fh asked them before he asked me if it was ok to marry mommy lol...........I feel like people just stink.....these girls arent even in my wedding but they ask I answer they got nasty
HUH! That is ridiculous, OF COURSE your kids should be there. You are a family and it would be very very strange for them not to be involved.
Besides, Im sure they want to see their mom (the princess) in the castle..haha
Everyone has their 2 cents to throw in and its always the people who have no business throwing it in.
What do they care about your VH, you are paying and if they are not hungry- then dont eat
People are just jealous. If they re good friends, I would tell them that their input is a little off-putting and non necessary if it is bashing your and your wedding. And the lying is just ridiculous! Are these friends married. They seem jealous. Im sorry they are being pains, but you know whats important to you and your family- dont let them ket to you.
kellybean
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they def are not coming to the wedding !!! it is just so annoying....I dont know why people feel the need to behave like animals
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they def are not coming to the wedding !!! it is just so annoying....I dont know why people feel the need to behave like animals
I re-read my post, and, I didn't address something. It just S*CKS to have someone make you feel bad about your decisions, which are completely NORMAL. And, even though it is completely ridiculous and unfounded, it still makes you question the things you are doing, and hurts your feelings, which, IMO, is worse than p*ssing you off.
It's just crappy, and it stinks.
kellybean
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I can tolerate alot but to make my kids seem unimportant.....I dont care what day it is they are always my top priority ......PEOPLE JUST SUCK!!!!
klanghan
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I feel so bad for you, I guess i am lucky my friends are the opposite, but i am the last in the group to get married. i think they like reliving their day through me!
lilangel369
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these are your friends?!
megzzie
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They're definitely jealous - if friends are happy for you they would never pull the crap these girls are pulling. Try to distance yourself. Feel better
