proper attire....

so i just looked at my friend's brothers wedding pics from last night, congrats to them!! And there was a guest in a white dress.... r u kidding me?? Almost evertime I look wedding pics I see someone in a white dress or a dress with just wayyyy to much white to be acceptable....did they miss the memo??

I will be peeved if someone shows up to my wedding in a a white dress...

I am wondering if thats just me being old school....

How to people feel about this??

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Posted by peaches42587

I would kill who ever wore white to my wedding lol

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lol, i agree!

If it was someone in my family id be so disappointed that they didn't know thats a no no

Hard as someone tries... no one can upstage a bride. If they try... it's only that person who ends up looking like an assh*le.

So, I say if you want to wear white to my wedding, bring it on *****

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Hard as someone tries... no one can upstage a bride. If they try... it's only that person who ends up looking like an assh*le.

So, I say if you want to wear white to my wedding, bring it on *****

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lol

funny u mention this, I was talking to FH about this recently. I told him that I hope that his side knows that to wear white to MY wedding is signing a death sentence to themselves cause my side is up to date on proper dress etiquette
its a big no no. there is only one person in white and that's the bride.
I agree that whoever wears white will just look silly

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Posted by regy_k

funny u mention this, I was talking to FH about this recently. I told him that I hope that his side knows that to wear white to MY wedding is signing a death sentence to themselves cause my side is up to date on proper dress etiquette
its a big no no. there is only one person in white and that's the bride.
I agree that whoever wears white will just look silly

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yeah i never thought to mention this to FH, but I will now...lol

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Hard as someone tries... no one can upstage a bride. If they try... it's only that person who ends up looking like an assh*le.

So, I say if you want to wear white to my wedding, bring it on *****

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ITA!

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

Hard as someone tries... no one can upstage a bride. If they try... it's only that person who ends up looking like an assh*le.

So, I say if you want to wear white to my wedding, bring it on *****

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very well stated!

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Posted by seawedding

OMG my mom told me she's thinking about wearing an ivory gown to my wedding and I was like WHAT?! That's not good etiquette! And she says 'the mother of the bride can wear whatever she wants' and I said yeah except white or ivory mom!!! and she said 'what do you care your dress is white' I feel like it's totally inappropriate.

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yeah this goes for moms and fmils too!!!

i went to a wedding recently where a guest wore a white dress as well.... i thought it was strange but the bride did not care, she was too busy enjoying herself!

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Posted by JenBill61210

i went to a wedding recently where a guest wore a white dress as well.... i thought it was strange but the bride did not care, she was too busy enjoying herself!

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I think I would not care as much if it was a guest than if it's someone you are going to be taking photos with as the bride!

we went to a wedding about a month ago...there were 3 people in alll white dresses, two in the more than acdeptable white dresses with some flowers and then there was the girl in a light gold (soo light) that it was the same color as the brides dress....

i dont get it....

I would def be irritated with it. I get mad when it happens at other peoples weddings.