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proper way to address the invites???

dangell427 Posted:

proper way to address the invites???

i am making a list now and i need to know do you do

Mr. & Mrs. XXXXXXXX
or
Mr. & Mrs. (Guys 1st name)XXXXXX

or???????


and i know the inner envelope gets the 7 family written on it or the & guest but what about when you know it`s only going to be one person like my great aunt anne she`s 80 something do you just put her first name or first and last or nothing at all??
smplynluv Posted:

Re: proper way to address the invites???

I've been putting 'Mr. & Mrs. John Smith' on my envelopes. And since I'm not bothering to write on my inner envelope I'll be writing '& Guest' or putting the children's names right below the parents' names on the outer envelope too. For those 'older' relatives, I don't remember if I put Ms. or Mrs. Anne Smith. I didn't write anything additional after their name. HTH

Dee0522 Posted:

Re: proper way to address the invites???

On the outers I just put Mr. & Mrs. Smitih, if it was a couple who lived together I put both their names, and on the inners I used first names.

missliss Posted:

Re: proper way to address the invites???

If you are doing inner and outer envelopes the proper way to do them (though you can in the end do it any you want) is:

Outer: Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
Inner: Mr. and Mrs. Smith

Outer: Mr. John Smith
Inner: Mr. Smith and Guest (preferably find out the guest's name and use that instead-but only on the inner)

Outer: Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
Inner: Mr. and Mrs. Smith
John Jr., Sally and Michael

Outer: Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe
Inner: Mr. Smith and Ms. Doe
Celest Posted:

Re: proper way to address the invites???


Posted by smplynluv

I've been putting 'Mr. & Mrs. John Smith' on my envelopes. And since I'm not bothering to write on my inner envelope I'll be writing '& Guest' or putting the children's names right below the parents' names on the outer envelope too. For those 'older' relatives, I don't remember if I put Ms. or Mrs. Anne Smith. I didn't write anything additional after their name. HTH



Oh good to know someone else that isn't doing the inner! I have a pocket fold & the outer, it was starting to be too many envelops!!

Good to know what someone else is doing in this situation!
JulyBride728 Posted:

Re: proper way to address the invites???


Posted by mRm2008

Here is a helpful site:

Address Wording



This was really helpful, thank you

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