Psycho ex-BM rsvp's 'no' to my wedding and then...
EJSD2006
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emails me today to say hi. what the hell is that? she never called to explain why she couldnt come, no note with the rsvp, nothing. i thought we had worked everything out about her not being a BM anymore because she was too busy since she moved out of state and then she rsvp's that she's not coming, so i thought she was still pissed about not being in the BP anymore. But then today i get this email out of the blue! what the f%^*? do i email her back and ask her why she's not coming????
bride2b24
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i would def confront her......i remember all your posts about her and she does seem like a real psycho......did you expect that she wouldnt come?
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haha that is random ... honestly, is it possible to just move on? I dont know your situation with your friend at all but maybe you can just let it be and say 'hi' back. Awkward situation but just a thought. Some people are just weird. Keep us posted!
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Just e-mail her back and say hi back and ask her how she is and don't bring up the rsvp card or the bp thing - see what she wants first and if she's just trying to stir things up in the pot again - just say senora!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i would def confront her......i remember all your posts about her and she does seem like a real psycho......did you expect that she wouldnt come?
before we spoke and 'ironed everything out' i thought she wasnt gonna come. but last time i saw her she said that she couldnt wait to see me at my wedding! and then she rsvp's no so i was confused! now i'm even more confused!!! FH said to delete the email and move on with life. he hasn't liked her since all this started and he thinks she's just trying to drive me crazy.
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i would def confront her......i remember all your posts about her and she does seem like a real psycho......did you expect that she wouldnt come?
before we spoke and 'ironed everything out' i thought she wasnt gonna come. but last time i saw her she said that she couldnt wait to see me at my wedding! and then she rsvp's no so i was confused! now i'm even more confused!!! FH said to delete the email and move on with life. he hasn't liked her since all this started and he thinks she's just trying to drive me crazy.
well maybe he is right.....i have a few ppl like that in my life right now that i just want to FORGET abouit......sometimes its not as easy as just deleting an email
kara10152006
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These are stressful days and I don't think you need the added stress of dealing with this strange-bag-of-tricks friend. E-mail her back AFTER the wedding and be sure to tell her what a great time everyone had!
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yes...definetely find out what the issue is. You will be more stressed not knowing and wondering.
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ya ever see the Friends episodes with Eddie the Psycho Roommate? That's TOTALLY what I'm picturing... only the FEMALE version! lol...
Was there anything else BESIDES the 'hi'... or just the 'hi'? Some people are SO weird!!!
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Posted by sarahradio5
ya ever see the Friends episodes with Eddie the Psycho Roommate? That's TOTALLY what I'm picturing... only the FEMALE version! lol...
Was there anything else BESIDES the 'hi'... or just the 'hi'? Some people are SO weird!!!
LOL that episode was just on!!! That is great!!!
I would see what she wants, and if she plays it like nothing happened, then confront her.
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I think you should ask her why she isn't coming. You seem hurt and I would explain to her your feelings.
EJSD2006
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Posted by kara10152006
These are stressful days and I don't think you need the added stress of dealing with this strange-bag-of-tricks friend. E-mail her back AFTER the wedding and be sure to tell her what a great time everyone had!
i LOVE this idea! i've got enough on my plate without having to think about this garbage. i'll email her when i get back from my HM. thanx!!!!
EJSD2006
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Posted by sarahradio5
ya ever see the Friends episodes with Eddie the Psycho Roommate? That's TOTALLY what I'm picturing... only the FEMALE version! lol...
Was there anything else BESIDES the 'hi'... or just the 'hi'? Some people are SO weird!!!
on top of the 'hi', she asked how the planning was going, where i was going on my HM, etc. then she adds at the end 'email me back if you have the time' and 'email me some pictures from the wedding'. i think she has truly lost her mind...which is sad because we used to be pretty good friends. i dont think she'll ever get over the fact that i'm getting married first....
