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GR2010 Posted:

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Thanks girls.... I feel better after venting a little bit.

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Jna2010 Posted:

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can you go down to her place of business? if so thatd be where id be going right now!!!!!!!!

im so angry for you, if you cant get the job done then dont agree to do it damn it!!
Jenna_and_John Posted:

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StaceyWill Posted:

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Holy cr@p~that's crazy!! I'm so sorry
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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good luck

it shouldn't take more than a couple of hours to stuff them ... especially if you have help!
Clover23 Posted:

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i can't believe this is still a mess!!!
mariedsgn Posted:

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Sorry you have to deal with this!
Take a deep breath and relax, if they go out a week later it won't be the worst thing. . . believe me people still wont send the response cards back in time. stamping and stuffing and adding the rhinestone goes pretty quickly - you will get it done.

But it is totally unacceptable that she has not contacted you

GR2010 Posted:

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Posted by Jna2010

can you go down to her place of business? if so thatd be where id be going right now!!!!!!!!

im so angry for you, if you cant get the job done then dont agree to do it damn it!!



She's not always there. I think she works from home a lot too and I have no idea where that is... If I don't hear back from her today I am definitely going to try going there.

How do you run a friggin business this way??????
jennybee Posted:

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That stinks, but I'm sure things will work out. I know you're on a schedule, but as your wedding is in October pushing back your mailing date a few days wouldn't be horrible, would it?
GR2010 Posted:

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Posted by jennybee

That stinks, but I'm sure things will work out. I know you're on a schedule, but as your wedding is in October pushing back your mailing date a few days wouldn't be horrible, would it?



No... it is just that all of FH's guests (about half of our list) are all OOT and we wanted to give them more time to make arrangements, books flights etc. If everyone was local I wouldn't be sending them out until August 2nd.
GR2010 Posted:

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Posted by mariedsgn

Sorry you have to deal with this!
Take a deep breath and relax, if they go out a week later it won't be the worst thing. . . believe me people still wont send the response cards back in time. stamping and stuffing and adding the rhinestone goes pretty quickly - you will get it done.

But it is totally unacceptable that she has not contacted you




That is my biggest issue. JUST FRIGGIN RESPOND TO MY DAMN EMAILS!!!!
jennybee Posted:

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Posted by jennybee

That stinks, but I'm sure things will work out. I know you're on a schedule, but as your wedding is in October pushing back your mailing date a few days wouldn't be horrible, would it?



No... it is just that all of FH's guests (about half of our list) are all OOT and we wanted to give them more time to make arrangements, books flights etc. If everyone was local I wouldn't be sending them out until August 2nd.



I'm guessing she took time for the holiday weekend, but she definitely should have let you know or taken care of your order before...Did you at least send a STD? Maybe you could call or email a couple of them to 'remind them' and spread the word. I'd rather you have the invites go out as your dream invites and you not regret not 'finishing' them later.
Bride825 Posted:

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GINA Im so sorry you have to deal with this!!
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Ugh - Im sorry. You still have some time - hopefully you get this this week and you can still do what you want with the rhinestone - stuffing shouldnt take too long ..
IrinaBNY Posted:

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Ok. I'm getting married on the exact same date as you, and my FH is from Chicago.. which means that half of our guests are also from OOT. Why are you stressing this so much? It's only beginning of July. It's not a big deal if you send them out in a week.. I wasn't planning to send mine out until last week of July. Did you send STD's to your OOT guests?

Also, I know that sometimes she doesn't respond right away, but she's usually really good with everything, I have zero complaints about her.. she's been great so far with everything. I'm sorry you're stressing so much, but you really shouldn't worry at all.
canmigs Posted:

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I am sorry this is causing you so much stress. Honestly I wouldn't worry just yet. It was a holiday weekend and you have time. I would e-mail her again and if she doesn't respond I would try to go and see her.
GR2010 Posted:

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Posted by IrinaBNY

Ok. I'm getting married on the exact same date as you, and my FH is from Chicago.. which means that half of our guests are also from OOT. Why are you stressing this so much? It's only beginning of July. It's not a big deal if you send them out in a week.. I wasn't planning to send mine out until last week of July. Did you send STD's to your OOT guests?

Also, I know that sometimes she doesn't respond right away, but she's usually really good with everything, I have zero complaints about her.. she's been great so far with everything. I'm sorry you're stressing so much, but you really shouldn't worry at all.



I am not the first person to have an issue with her. And I'm stressing because FH's family is notoriously difficult and also when someone promises something by an agreed upon date but then chooses not to respond to emails or provide actual answers it is infuriating, If she couldn't get them to me by this date she should have said something when I placed my order instead of just yessing me to death.
IrinaBNY Posted:

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Posted by GR2010


Posted by IrinaBNY

Ok. I'm getting married on the exact same date as you, and my FH is from Chicago.. which means that half of our guests are also from OOT. Why are you stressing this so much? It's only beginning of July. It's not a big deal if you send them out in a week.. I wasn't planning to send mine out until last week of July. Did you send STD's to your OOT guests?

Also, I know that sometimes she doesn't respond right away, but she's usually really good with everything, I have zero complaints about her.. she's been great so far with everything. I'm sorry you're stressing so much, but you really shouldn't worry at all.



I am not the first person to have an issue with her. And I'm stressing because FH's family is notoriously difficult and also when someone promises something by an agreed upon date but then chooses not to respond to emails or provide actual answers it is infuriating, If she couldn't get them to me by this date she should have said something when I placed my order instead of just yessing me to death.



Have you been on her blog? She usually posts step by step instructions on what's going on with your order.

Also, what date did she put down on your contract? My contract date said July 10-20.
Gerbera Posted:

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Ugh. I'm sorry! I'm going through something similar with a Etsy seller.

IS there anyway for you to leave feedback??
GR2010 Posted:

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Posted by IrinaBNY


Posted by GR2010


Posted by IrinaBNY

Ok. I'm getting married on the exact same date as you, and my FH is from Chicago.. which means that half of our guests are also from OOT. Why are you stressing this so much? It's only beginning of July. It's not a big deal if you send them out in a week.. I wasn't planning to send mine out until last week of July. Did you send STD's to your OOT guests?

Also, I know that sometimes she doesn't respond right away, but she's usually really good with everything, I have zero complaints about her.. she's been great so far with everything. I'm sorry you're stressing so much, but you really shouldn't worry at all.



I am not the first person to have an issue with her. And I'm stressing because FH's family is notoriously difficult and also when someone promises something by an agreed upon date but then chooses not to respond to emails or provide actual answers it is infuriating, If she couldn't get them to me by this date she should have said something when I placed my order instead of just yessing me to death.



Have you been on her blog? She usually posts step by step instructions on what's going on with your order.

Also, what date did she put down on your contract? My contract date said July 10-20.



I don't think we're using the same person. I'm not using Te ssa.

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