Ok. I'm getting married on the exact same date as you, and my FH is from Chicago.. which means that half of our guests are also from OOT. Why are you stressing this so much? It's only beginning of July. It's not a big deal if you send them out in a week.. I wasn't planning to send mine out until last week of July. Did you send STD's to your OOT guests?
Also, I know that sometimes she doesn't respond right away, but she's usually really good with everything, I have zero complaints about her.. she's been great so far with everything. I'm sorry you're stressing so much, but you really shouldn't worry at all.
I am not the first person to have an issue with her. And I'm stressing because FH's family is notoriously difficult and also when someone promises something by an agreed upon date but then chooses not to respond to emails or provide actual answers it is infuriating, If she couldn't get them to me by this date she should have said something when I placed my order instead of just yessing me to death.
Have you been on her blog? She usually posts step by step instructions on what's going on with your order.
Also, what date did she put down on your contract? My contract date said July 10-20.
She's not using the same vendor as you.
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Ugh. I'm sorry! I'm going through something similar with a Etsy seller.
IS there anyway for you to leave feedback??
She's an LIW vendor so the only thing I could do is post on here but I know it'll just get pulled.
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She's an LIW vendor so the only thing I could do is post on here but I know it'll just get pulled.
Really? That's BS.
If she's not giving you your product by a agreed upon date you should be able to post on here and leave negative feedback. Is there a way you can write to LIW to complain?
Do LIW vendors pay a fee to the site or something??
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Ok. I'm getting married on the exact same date as you, and my FH is from Chicago.. which means that half of our guests are also from OOT. Why are you stressing this so much? It's only beginning of July. It's not a big deal if you send them out in a week.. I wasn't planning to send mine out until last week of July. Did you send STD's to your OOT guests?
Also, I know that sometimes she doesn't respond right away, but she's usually really good with everything, I have zero complaints about her.. she's been great so far with everything. I'm sorry you're stressing so much, but you really shouldn't worry at all.
I am not the first person to have an issue with her. And I'm stressing because FH's family is notoriously difficult and also when someone promises something by an agreed upon date but then chooses not to respond to emails or provide actual answers it is infuriating, If she couldn't get them to me by this date she should have said something when I placed my order instead of just yessing me to death.
Have you been on her blog? She usually posts step by step instructions on what's going on with your order.
Also, what date did she put down on your contract? My contract date said July 10-20.
I don't think we're using the same person. I'm not using Te ssa.
Ohhhhhhhhhh.. oops.. Whenever someone says 'her', I always assume it's HER lol Sorry
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No... I just can't use her name because she's a LIW vendor.
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The only thing I don't like about this site is the fact that we don't have 'freedom of speech' on here to express any negative opinions and post negative feedback about LIW vendors. I mean, honestly speaking.. if an LIW vendor screwed me over.. and I want to say something negative about them. I think I should be able to.. and let me handle what happens after that with me and vendor.. I don't know why it's such a big deal. Kind of annoying actually.
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The only thing I don't like about this site is the fact that we don't have 'freedom of speech' on here to express any negative opinions and post negative feedback about LIW vendors. I mean, honestly speaking.. if an LIW vendor screwed me over.. and I want to say something negative about them. I think I should be able to.. and let me handle what happens after that with me and vendor.. I don't know why it's such a big deal. Kind of annoying actually.
You know, I completely agree.
Is there actually an 'official rule' on this? Or just something that happens?
Vendors are people and people make mistakes. Just because a vendor is backed by a wedding site (or pay to advertise on here) doesn't mean they don't make mistakes.
If you're not allowed to post about negative experiences it ruins the integrity of the whole situation.
I say you should threaten to FM every single girl on here the name of this vendor and their horrible customer service thus far!
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oh gina, i'm so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense. i know you are probably done dealing with vendors, but rather than having to DIY, can you check another invite company, like william arthur? we ordered our TY notes through them, and they came in a week. so perhaps they can do a rush invite order or something...
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oh gina, i'm so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense. i know you are probably done dealing with vendors, but rather than having to DIY, can you check another invite company, like william arthur? we ordered our TY notes through them, and they came in a week. so perhaps they can do a rush invite order or something...
That is pretty quick. Thanks! I will look into it!!!
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Gina- I have her on facebook (long story) and saw her status that her and her family did a walk in the hamptons this weekend for something? so she HAS been online because she posted on facebook. I also may have her home office address somewhere and her cell phone number (i met with her in consideration fir my planner waaay back in the winter). let me know if any of this stuff could help you.
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Sorry... im sure it will be fine. I didnt send my invites out till about 5 weeks before my rsvp date and it worked out fine.
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Posted by Lisalana
oh gina, i'm so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense. i know you are probably done dealing with vendors, but rather than having to DIY, can you check another invite company, like william arthur? we ordered our TY notes through them, and they came in a week. so perhaps they can do a rush invite order or something...
That is pretty quick. Thanks! I will look into it!!!
and William Arthur has BEAUTIFUL stationary. Good luck gina! sorry you have to deal with this!
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Ugh! I am so sorry you're still dealing with this garbage!!!!! I hope she gets back to you, even though it really wouldn't make a huge difference at this point. Blah on her!!!!!!!
