putting together list of photographers/videographers.....

So I am putting together a list of photographers/videographers to meet with.. and I have been looking at all of their sites... reading reviews.. and I hear soo many great things about so many.. im at a loss....

So I figured,,,, let me tell my 09 gals what is important to my FH and I..

1. ALOT OF PROOFS.... we want to have tons and tons of proofs to keep and to pick from
2. We do want some black and white pics
3. We want our package to include engagement pics
4. would like to book the photographer/videographer together in same package
5. We want a photographer who really follows the shot-sheet and gets the shots that WE REALLY REALLY WANT


Can you ladies give me your TOP CHOICES for these??? i am trying to make a list of photographers and get some ideas of prices/packages.
Thanks