we all love our fhs very much.......if we didnt we wouldnt be marrying them, right? but as much as we love them im sure there are things about them we just cant STAND!!! which brings me to my question......
since being engaged is there anything about fh that makes you think OMG i dont know how im going to put up with this for the rest of my life?
the man has a temper. which i cant stand!!!! i will give him this. it has gotten better over the years but when he starts acting like this i hate it. ive even broken up with him over it. just last month i had to tell him that i rather call off the wedding and move out then deal with this. it really doesnt happen much but when it does it really makes me think about the future especially since the guy wants to have a kid
luvly73
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I'd have to say the one thing though, that I'm not sure how I'll deal with (but will learn to) is his arguing style. He just walks away, ignores me, and disappears. And I DESPISE that. I prefer to fight it out and get it over with. He will disappear for hours at a time
This! I hate that he would rather prolong it than just dealing with it!!!!!
MikesBride2B
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These days its mostly wondering how I am going to deal with his psycho family the rest of my life...actually its something I worry about on a daily basis now
MrsCM
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I guess being together for 9 years before you get engaged kind of helps get rid of (or learn to tolerate) all of those annoying quirks, lol. I haven't really noticed anything since we got engaged, since for the past few years (since we moved in together) I kind of always figured we'd get married.
I'd have to say the one thing though, that I'm not sure how I'll deal with (but will learn to) is his arguing style. He just walks away, ignores me, and disappears. And I DESPISE that. I prefer to fight it out and get it over with. He will disappear for hours at a time
OMG I would FLIP out. As it is I can't stand it when I explain something and ask how he feels and I get this blank stare. Nothing going on upstairs just staring. I have to keep asking 'how do you feel' and 'can you talk to me' and I get a shrug. If he walked away I think I'd lose it.
EDA: Because if I'm going to comment on Laura's post I may as well answer. He's a serious slob and it drives me nuts to feel like I follow him around picking up after him. And the actual stupid peeve is that he says every food item is 'little.' 'I only had this little bit' when it was like 4 servings. I keep trying to get him into a better mentality with nutrition rather than just expecting me to count his calories so he loses weight but that's just a little neurotic nothing really. If I could change one thing it would be the messiness.
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I'd list the things FH does that annoys me but I'm afraid he'd find this thread and get angry about it..He already knows the things he does that piss me off, and unfortunately they are a lot more personal than the ones mentioned above already. Finances and sleeping habits are the big ones, and we're still ironing those out.
No one is perfect and just as there are things that these FH's do that annoy each of us, there are things that we as FW's do that annoy THEM.
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YES!!
1. He doesn't take his shoes off when he comes in the house. Even after working a day of construction and has freaking CEMENT on his shoes... (grinding my teeth at the thought of this right now!!)
2. he always wants to 'fix' everything... he is very handy and I love that... but some things don't need FIXING.... leave them alone!!!
3. He never wakes up to his alarm in the morning. It wakes me and I wake him... we're goona have to work on this if I ever want to sleep in... (in his defense he is deaf in his right ear, so if he is sleepin on his left he can't hear it) Still LETTA WOMAN SLEEP!
haha this is fun
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1) He is a slow starter in the morning and it drives me nuts. I like to get moving and get the day going and he likes to take his time and just relax. 2) Unless it is for something really important, he is never on time. He'll say he'll be over at 2 and he won't get here til 2:30. But, once we get married and live together I know I will be able to be on top of that more and keep an eye on the clock. I have to admit though...these two things are pretty minor compared to stories I hear about other people.
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1) his love for video games. he swears that he will always love them and play them! 2) instead of resolving things immediately he likes to sleep on it or have his space 3) he is usually pretty calm and rarely freaks out about anything.. but when he does flip out it is usually over something so stupid like accidentally ordering the wrong number of items off line or something..lol
needless to say this should be interesting. for better or worse..right?
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Oh girl please! lol
I come to find that his mother did his laundry and ironed his shirts...ummmm...you can either live with her the rest of your life or ****** it up and do those things and live with me! lol
I will say though that since we got engaged (we've been together for 10 years now) he is more considerate of my feelings and when he sees I'm frustrated he knows to quickly help me out.
