Q of the D.......family and your wedding

honestly the one person who would get really nuts is FH. For some reason at weddings he really goes nuts, even more so than when he is at a club and i dont know why hahahaha

At his friends weddings they loved it bc all they were concerned about was everybody having such a good time. Last wedding we went to fh did get on a chair to dance, and went nuts lol even had his shirt opened with a wife beater underneath. Of course depends where, we went to his co-workers wedding and he barely even danced.

At our wedding i have to remind him not to strip and dance on the chairs

i have a friend who is anorexic (long story, she wont admit it, we've tried to get her help, her mom refuses to believe it) and drinks to excess. she pukes, blacks out, and we're relieved if she only loses her keys by the end of the night. on NYE she spilled all over everyone while trying to dance with a martini and then got us kicked out early bc she was too drunk.

one of my BMs is closer to her than I am and usually ends up babysitting her -- she refuses to do that for my wedding. I don't know what to do.

FFIL at our engagement party got there earlier than FH and I did to make sure things were set up and ready. We were like huh!? It was weird because FH and I paid for it and all and he was there worrying about little things...it was kinda embarassing because he is a big romanian guy who well speaks his mouth and gets angry if things dont go his way.

So I am just worried at the wedding he will walk into the reception room before fh and I get to see it and complain about something or fix something


what can ya do...not going to let that ruin my day!!! but def have to warn my photographers that FFIL is definitely into picture taking and will probably be telling them what pics to take at certain times

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Posted by dangell427

Ohhh boy!! not so much embarassing as annoying but i`ll end up embarassing myself when they start annoying me because that days stress levels are going to be thru the roof so i wont be able to bite my tounge!

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sure you will..........you will be too busy having a good time!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by MrsK2008

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Posted by Kimbalina

I am worried not about my family just some Sllunts!!

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are you going to have a slIunt table?

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sllunts yup! There are a few bitchees that I wanna see get roudy!

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if ppl dont get roudy well roudy in a good way, then ill wonder why not i want ppl to have a great time and go nuts dancing. Hey things can be worse, they can just be sitting doing nothing, i'd rather them leave saying 'I had so much fun'

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i feel the same way...i want people's shoes coming off, ties and jackets coming off, dancing and gettign down on the dance floor- and my family is definitely rowdy and some of FH's cousins are as well so I am excited and can't wait to dance at our wedding

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Posted by MrsK2008

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Posted by Gigi08



at least you know she will have a good time, go mom

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I thought I did..still getting used to it.

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Posted by bluegreen08

i have a friend who is anorexic (long story, she wont admit it, we've tried to get her help, her mom refuses to believe it) and drinks to excess. she pukes, blacks out, and we're relieved if she only loses her keys by the end of the night. on NYE she spilled all over everyone while trying to dance with a martini and then got us kicked out early bc she was too drunk.

one of my BMs is closer to her than I am and usually ends up babysitting her -- she refuses to do that for my wedding. I don't know what to do.

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wrap her in bubble wrap!!!

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Posted by cbcf

FFIL at our engagement party got there earlier than FH and I did to make sure things were set up and ready. We were like huh!? It was weird because FH and I paid for it and all and he was there worrying about little things...it was kinda embarassing because he is a big romanian guy who well speaks his mouth and gets angry if things dont go his way.

So I am just worried at the wedding he will walk into the reception room before fh and I get to see it and complain about something or fix something


what can ya do...not going to let that ruin my day!!! but def have to warn my photographers that FFIL is definitely into picture taking and will probably be telling them what pics to take at certain times

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WOW the whole yelling and making sure things get done sounds very familiar thats how my dad is. I guess it is a romanian thing, loud and opinionated hahaha. I dont yell at vendors or other people though.

Dont worry, i think he will be too busy though doing other things so dont worry. He probably won't have time to make sure they are setting up your RH right.

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by MrsK2008

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Posted by Kimbalina

I am worried not about my family just some Sllunts!!

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are you going to have a slIunt table?

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sllunts yup! There are a few bitchees that I wanna see get roudy!

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if ppl dont get roudy well roudy in a good way, then ill wonder why not i want ppl to have a great time and go nuts dancing. Hey things can be worse, they can just be sitting doing nothing, i'd rather them leave saying 'I had so much fun'

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i feel the same way...i want people's shoes coming off, ties and jackets coming off, dancing and gettign down on the dance floor- and my family is definitely rowdy and some of FH's cousins are as well so I am excited and can't wait to dance at our wedding

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Thats what i want too. MOST important thing to me is that people are having the best time, more than anything else. If people are dancing all night and going nuts then i'll be happy. If ppl are dancing but kinda stiff then ill be sitting there like OMG people aren't having fun and ill have to do something to make sure they do. Like i said last wedding fh even had his wife beater on, i told him to put the shirt back on though but tie was loosened, and he was so sweaty from how much he danced. FH and the grooms brother were freaking the bride well they had her in the middle, he still talks about how much fun their wedding was and the couple love to hear how much fun we did have and how memorable it was.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

FFIL at our engagement party got there earlier than FH and I did to make sure things were set up and ready. We were like huh!? It was weird because FH and I paid for it and all and he was there worrying about little things...it was kinda embarassing because he is a big romanian guy who well speaks his mouth and gets angry if things dont go his way.

So I am just worried at the wedding he will walk into the reception room before fh and I get to see it and complain about something or fix something


what can ya do...not going to let that ruin my day!!! but def have to warn my photographers that FFIL is definitely into picture taking and will probably be telling them what pics to take at certain times

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WOW the whole yelling and making sure things get done sounds very familiar thats how my dad is. I guess it is a romanian thing, loud and opinionated hahaha. I dont yell at vendors or other people though.

Dont worry, i think he will be too busy though doing other things so dont worry. He probably won't have time to make sure they are setting up your RH right.

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haha yeah doesn't it sound familiar

yeah now that i remember correctly he was pretty good at FBIL's wedding...just the picture taking thing haha he will always have a camera to take pics!!!!

So DH goes up to her and says 'Hey what were you drinking you nut' and she was like 'Great wedding i was drinking slippery nipples the whole night but now its so cold out mine could cut glass' ((PS that was NOT what she was drinking but anyway ))

DH was like and ran away from her

Then she puked out the window the whole way home

So many people puked at my wedding, thankfully none of them at the actual hall unless they were in the bathroom

all class i tell you, i should have asked people not to puke

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That is too funny! Your poor husband. Too bad you didn't give out barf bags...you could've put them on each plate instead of menus.

By the way, you made a lovely bride...your pictures came out beautiful!

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Posted by Browneyesncute

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no fair!

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

FFIL at our engagement party got there earlier than FH and I did to make sure things were set up and ready. We were like huh!? It was weird because FH and I paid for it and all and he was there worrying about little things...it was kinda embarassing because he is a big romanian guy who well speaks his mouth and gets angry if things dont go his way.

So I am just worried at the wedding he will walk into the reception room before fh and I get to see it and complain about something or fix something


what can ya do...not going to let that ruin my day!!! but def have to warn my photographers that FFIL is definitely into picture taking and will probably be telling them what pics to take at certain times

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WOW the whole yelling and making sure things get done sounds very familiar thats how my dad is. I guess it is a romanian thing, loud and opinionated hahaha. I dont yell at vendors or other people though.

Dont worry, i think he will be too busy though doing other things so dont worry. He probably won't have time to make sure they are setting up your RH right.

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haha yeah doesn't it sound familiar

yeah now that i remember correctly he was pretty good at FBIL's wedding...just the picture taking thing haha he will always have a camera to take pics!!!!

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oh yeah my dad is extremely vocal hahahaha. My reaction when dealing with vendors or anything like that is to talk and handle it first not yell at first hahaha but yeah i can be pretty vocal. People always say they wonder who has a bigger mouth my dad or me lol

Make sure though that your Fh tells him, hey dad i want youto have a good time just relax. Well hey at least you know you'll have a ton of extra pics

not family. more like my friend's obnoxious husband.

if it were family I think it would be entertaining - as long as there is no fighting at my wedding I don't care what others do - get drunk, puke, dance nutty, whatever.

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Posted by Espo22

oh yeah my dad is extremely vocal hahahaha. My reaction when dealing with vendors or anything like that is to talk and handle it first not yell at first hahaha but yeah i can be pretty vocal. People always say they wonder who has a bigger mouth my dad or me lol

Make sure though that your Fh tells him, hey dad i want youto have a good time just relax. Well hey at least you know you'll have a ton of extra pics

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I try my best to deal with everyone courteously, especially vendors. I have found that I do not get the same courtesy in return most times.

I often have a hard time knowing when to pull out the big guns.

I feel like if I am paying for something, regardless of the amount spent, I should be respected. But people in general are not very nice, or reasonable. It is as if vendors are doing me a favor by accepting our money.

I would like suggestions on how to tactfully handle these meanies! I feel like I am trapped; like if I get frustrated the vendor is going to screw me over.



I have given advice to people about things I have had to handle and was successful at, but there are so manythings that have been really handled unsuccessfully for me.

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Posted by snwb08

not family. more like my friend's obnoxious husband.

if it were family I think it would be entertaining - as long as there is no fighting at my wedding I don't care what others do - get drunk, puke, dance nutty, whatever.

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lol, good times ahead!

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Posted by ant n tilde

i have a great story!

MILs friend who is in her 50s got DRUNK at the wedding. So she was sitting in a van they got to go home and she has her head btw her legs trying not to puke.

So DH goes up to her and says 'Hey what were you drinking you nut' and she was like 'Great wedding i was drinking slippery nipples the whole night but now its so cold out mine could cut glass' ((PS that was NOT what she was drinking but anyway ))

DH was like and ran away from her

Then she puked out the window the whole way home

So many people puked at my wedding, thankfully none of them at the actual hall unless they were in the bathroom

all class i tell you, i should have asked people not to puke

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oh my

ahhh top this.........
i have an uncle who gets drunk and pinched my ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!