Q of the D.......family and your wedding

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Posted by MrsK2008

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Posted by Espo22

oh yeah my dad is extremely vocal hahahaha. My reaction when dealing with vendors or anything like that is to talk and handle it first not yell at first hahaha but yeah i can be pretty vocal. People always say they wonder who has a bigger mouth my dad or me lol

Make sure though that your Fh tells him, hey dad i want youto have a good time just relax. Well hey at least you know you'll have a ton of extra pics

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I try my best to deal with everyone courteously, especially vendors. I have found that I do not get the same courtesy in return most times.

I often have a hard time knowing when to pull out the big guns.

I feel like if I am paying for something, regardless of the amount spent, I should be respected. But people in general are not very nice, or reasonable. It is as if vendors are doing me a favor by accepting our money.

I would like suggestions on how to tactfully handle these meanies! I feel like I am trapped; like if I get frustrated the vendor is going to screw me over.



I have given advice to people about things I have had to handle and was successful at, but there are so manythings that have been really handled unsuccessfully for me.

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Isn't that the kicker? It's sad when some vendors act like they are doing you a favor, especially once they have most of your money. Knowing the wedding business, you'd think the least they could do is try and put your mind at ease knowing everything couples deal with planning a wedding. It's a crumby feeling worrying if you're going to get screwed over, especially for your wedding.

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Posted by jcslady

ahhh top this.........
i have an uncle who gets drunk and pinched my ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Gigi08
Isn't that the kicker? It's sad when some vendors act like they are doing you a favor, especially once they have most of your money. Knowing the wedding business, you'd think the least they could do is try and put your mind at ease knowing everything couples deal with planning a wedding. It's a crumby feeling worrying if you're going to get screwed over, especially for your wedding.

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it's awful, i feel like a hostage sometimes!

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Posted by kristin597

FH's brother pulled his pants (and underwear) down to his ankles at my engagement party. Needless to say, Im a bit worried.

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I hear ya on that one. My FH's good friend has a tendancy to pull his pants down at weddings. And he doesn't wear undies!

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Posted by MrsK2008

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Posted by Gigi08
Isn't that the kicker? It's sad when some vendors act like they are doing you a favor, especially once they have most of your money. Knowing the wedding business, you'd think the least they could do is try and put your mind at ease knowing everything couples deal with planning a wedding. It's a crumby feeling worrying if you're going to get screwed over, especially for your wedding.

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it's awful, i feel like a hostage sometimes!

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Ha...that's probably a good way to describe it. Well, in a way, once these vendors have most of your money, you kind of have to kiss some butt...unless you're fortunate to be dealing with some nice people.

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Posted by ttw910

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Posted by kristin597

FH's brother pulled his pants (and underwear) down to his ankles at my engagement party. Needless to say, Im a bit worried.

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I hear ya on that one. My FH's good friend has a tendancy to pull his pants down at weddings. And he doesn't wear undies!

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I don't know what is worse, hairy a$$ or holy underwear!

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Posted by MrsK2008

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Posted by ttw910

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Posted by kristin597

FH's brother pulled his pants (and underwear) down to his ankles at my engagement party. Needless to say, Im a bit worried.

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I hear ya on that one. My FH's good friend has a tendancy to pull his pants down at weddings. And he doesn't wear undies!

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I don't know what is worse, hairy a$$ or holy underwear!

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Both are gross, but I'm thinking holy undies are worse...at least the fur bikini can shadow the naughty areas.

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Posted by jcslady

ahhh top this.........
i have an uncle who gets drunk and pinched my ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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yiiikkkeess!

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Posted by kristin597
Both are gross, but I'm thinking holy undies are worse...at least the fur bikini can shadow the naughty areas.

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fur bikini

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Posted by Mimacat

No, but I hope my whole BP gets schnockered and someone moons my Aunt Louise.

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Do you have enough people in your BP so that they can spell 'louise' on their hieneys?

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Posted by kristin597

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Posted by Mimacat

No, but I hope my whole BP gets schnockered and someone moons my Aunt Louise.

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Do you have enough people in your BP so that they can spell 'louise' on their hieneys?

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Hm... I do... Thank you for this idea!

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by kristin597

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Posted by Mimacat

No, but I hope my whole BP gets schnockered and someone moons my Aunt Louise.

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Do you have enough people in your BP so that they can spell 'louise' on their hieneys?

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Hm... I do... Thank you for this idea!

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No prob , I enjoy a good butt serenade..

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by cbcf

FFIL at our engagement party got there earlier than FH and I did to make sure things were set up and ready. We were like huh!? It was weird because FH and I paid for it and all and he was there worrying about little things...it was kinda embarassing because he is a big romanian guy who well speaks his mouth and gets angry if things dont go his way.

So I am just worried at the wedding he will walk into the reception room before fh and I get to see it and complain about something or fix something


what can ya do...not going to let that ruin my day!!! but def have to warn my photographers that FFIL is definitely into picture taking and will probably be telling them what pics to take at certain times

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WOW the whole yelling and making sure things get done sounds very familiar thats how my dad is. I guess it is a romanian thing, loud and opinionated hahaha. I dont yell at vendors or other people though.

Dont worry, i think he will be too busy though doing other things so dont worry. He probably won't have time to make sure they are setting up your RH right.

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haha yeah doesn't it sound familiar

yeah now that i remember correctly he was pretty good at FBIL's wedding...just the picture taking thing haha he will always have a camera to take pics!!!!

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oh yeah my dad is extremely vocal hahahaha. My reaction when dealing with vendors or anything like that is to talk and handle it first not yell at first hahaha but yeah i can be pretty vocal. People always say they wonder who has a bigger mouth my dad or me lol

Make sure though that your Fh tells him, hey dad i want youto have a good time just relax. Well hey at least you know you'll have a ton of extra pics

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haha yeah i will definitely have to tell FH to tell him that!!! But yea he definitely is very vocal...and me I am so NOT vocal haha so we are a funny combo when he gets vocal around me....i blush and get embarrased ebcause i am not like that. But I love the man he is such a great guy. I want him to enjoy himself!!!!

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Posted by Mimacat

No, but I hope my whole BP gets schnockered and someone moons my Aunt Louise.

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well remember i am wearing a white dress with holes in the @$$ so my cheeks hang out!!!

I guess I will be in line for the duty of mooning your Aunt.

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Posted by jaep129

Not my family but his. His moms whole side are alcholics and they all hate their step mom. His mom and aunts all told me not to sit themby her. Also, they keeps saying how much fun its gonna be b/c of open bar all night (they are from usptate NY). I am so scared!!!!

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barf bags on the table and a 'nod' cut off to the bar tender!