QOTD 10/16/12

On a scale from 1 to 10, how involved has your FH been in the wedding planning process?

1 - Not involved at all
10 - Groomzilla

I give mine about a 6. I've been making most of the decisions and handling most of the details. But, he is always happy to help when I ask for it.

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FH is about a five. I ask for his input to make him feel like I dont have all the say and most of the time we agree 100% but on things like video, photo ect I research tell him what I like and he usually says whatever you want lol

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Eh, I'd say FH is about a 3. He asks to help sometimes but he's mostly uninvolved. ;D

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I would say a 5. I show him what I like and ask for his opinions. For 99% of the time his answer is sure if thats what you want lol Hes one of those just tell me what I have to wear and where I got to be lol

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I'd say about a 5. Ive done all the research, phone calls, setting up appts and so on but hes been with me to every appt and whenever I show him things or ask his opinion he always gives it. We also always make a decision together b4 booking anything.

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I would say it depends on what it is. Flowers a 2, picking out the reception hall a 10, most other things a 5 or 6... I assign him things and he tries to help/ care, ill average him out to an overall 6 lol

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Mmmmm I'd say like a 5 I guess. He's there with me for every appointment and always there to suggest things, but he isn't at a level where he's trying to dispute ideas that I have or trying to sway me to do something he wants. We've been on the same page the whole process.

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It depends on what it is. He cared more about certain things than I thought he would! I'd give him 7-8 for most things... a 10 for DJ and Video.

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Uggh, he's quickly becoming a groomzilla! I would say like a 7 for now. We'll see how it goes as time progresses!

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I would say a 6-He def. wants to be more involved but I am a bridezilla and want to take control over everything! lol

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I'd give him a 5-6. He likes to see a few different options for each thing but ultimately I make final decisions.

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I would give him 4-5. He does not attend all appointments but he does give his opinion on things that he feels strongly about. And for the appointments that he did attend he was involved. On things that he feells strongly about I let him make the decision but usually goes with whatever I want.

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I would say an 8! He is totally into it and wants a say in every little detail. Fortunately, he usually has good input and brings me back around to always considering the fun and comfort of our guests first. So, I guess thats a good thing... even it means I dont get my way all the time!

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3-4. FH is helpful when I need to to be. He lets me take the lead on almost everything. He helps when I ask him to, and I'm always surprised with how much he pays attention.

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Overall I would say hes a 4-5. Hes been there with plenty of opinions and suggestions for all the big things but there is also a lot of stuff he has zero interest in (Flowers!). I must say though I am kind of surprised how passionate he was about some of the things I thought he wouldn't care one way or another about. I had an idea for our table numbers and he told me it was tacky!!! Still cracks me up every time I think about it.

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I would say an 8... My FH is very involved and we always make descions together. But I wouldn't call him a groomzilla... More like a wedding diva but I like him being so involved.

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I give mine a 6...I initiate what we have to do and he comes with me to help make a decision.

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Overall I would say hes a 4-5. Hes been there with plenty of opinions and suggestions for all the big things but there is also a lot of stuff he has zero interest in (Flowers!). I must say though I am kind of surprised how passionate he was about some of the things I thought he wouldn't care one way or another about. I had an idea for our table numbers and he told me it was tacky!!! Still cracks me up every time I think about it.

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FH fell asleep at one florist lol