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QOTD 10-17

soonT0beMrsD Posted:

QOTD 10-17

TGIF Ladies !!!!!


What does everyone think they want to do for their bachelorette party? Are you allowing your fh to go to a strip club? Is he allowing you to go ?













For my party I think I'll want to get all my girls together and take a limo into the city for the night or possibly atlantic city for an overnight trip. I do not want to go to any strip clubs. I would prefer if FH didnt as well but who knows. I think we both agreed that neither of us will be going to a strip club.
JenBill61210 Posted:

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i want something very low key. in fact i think i would just like to take a cooking class w/ my sister who is the MOH. thats just me though!

ETA: FH will def be going to a strip club, but i don't really care and i'm not going to ruin his plans.. i trust him
Ray8183 Posted:

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I'm having two bachelorette parties. One for the nice sweet friends who are tight with a dollar. lol. The other one for my wild and crazy friends who cannot believe I am really do this. Yes, I will have strippers and all kind of crazy toys and decorations. As for my FH he can go to a strip club, but knowing he would want me there since I am the one who tip well. lol.

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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For FH - I am allowing him to go to a strip club. I 100% trust him and he knows the rules. Its a guy thing and at first I had a real issue with it, but now I have come to realized its a dumb tradition and I know he will be on his best behavior.

For Me - Since FH gets to have fun...well me and my girls are going all out. I am going to every strip club and bar in NYC. My sister (MOH) is the party queen so I know she will plan the best bachelorette party.
christine2010 Posted:

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i will probally go to AC for the weekend. no there will be no strippers. i went to a strip club once & its just not my style. i had a horrible time. if FH wants to go to a strip club i don't care. however knowing his friends, i hope one of them can come up with something nice for him.

Dazzlin217 Posted:

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i really would just like to go the wineries out east and do something like that. but i am really up for anything. the only thing that i would not like to do is go to a strip club or have strippers come anywhere. That is not me at all.

as far as FH goes, he can go to a strip club i trust him. but i dont even think that is his style either. but if thats what he wants to do then go right ahead
T E R I Posted:

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As of now my sister-MOH-is planning more than one, one will be with the whole BP which will probably be going out and partying or AC and the other with be with all of my guy friends

for FH-i don't really care what he does, i 100% trust him in whatever he does
kater08 Posted:

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Mine will probably be low-key...I'm not the partying type and since I'm one of the last of my friends to get married, everyone is pretty much over it!! Maybe a trip out to the wineries and a nice brunch...

As for FH...he has been to one strip club in his life and felt very uncomfortable...and he doesn't really drink...so he'll probably spend a day at Foxwoods with his brothers and friends!!!
Opera_Ghost Posted:

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FH can do whatever he likes with his friends. I trust him.

Me: I was thinking going to see Phantom with some of my girlies and then hitting a bar(s) after for some drinks and fun.
RitasEngaged Posted:

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My girls are planning that so I know they are going to plan something crazy. I have already picked out the stripper I want!!

I don't know what FH wants to do for his. He is not into strippers but he has mentioned that he wants beetlejuice from the Howard Stern show to make and appearance at his.
DnT2010 Posted:

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my FH actually doesnt like the idea of strippers at all.. he says he has no reason to look at another womans nakedness and he actually feels bad that they have to strip to make money... i him.
BUT with that said.. its up to his groomsmen.. they know how we both feel about strippers but if they get them, they get them.. i really dont care but im not going advertise the fact that i dont care either.

i will probably have 2 bachelorette parties.
1 with my cousins who are all in my bridal party (will be ages 14,16,18,20) and one with all the older girls (not in bridal party)
for the youngins i would like to go away to montauk for the night and just hang with the girls.. maybe manicures dinner on the beach.. (and the older cousins can have a few cocktails. hehe)

and for the other one... WHO KNOWS.. my MOH and older bridesmaids are in charge of that.. but they know i am grossed out my male strippers so i think they know better than to get one.
Kimmypie143 Posted:

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FH hates strip clubs/ strippers but his BM and Gm are stripper obsessed so i know he has no choice. I just hope they dont put him in a bad stop they can be real raunchy a holes.

As for me I'd like to goto AC or somthing for the night as well as take a stripper pole class i herd theyre fun./ I'll wear all the crazy b-party stuff its fun! I can't wait I hope my moh doesnt go too crazy!!! jk
Its2Snappy Posted:

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I told all my girls the following, 'I know the wedding is alot of money, so I don't want to put the burden on anyone, BUT I'm going to Cancun. Whose comin' with me?' LOL. I have always wanted to go to Cancun so my close friends and I will be going for the bachelorette party. They were REALLY excited and they wanted to pay for me. But, I told them absolutely not, they are doing more than enough by just agreeing to go! That being said, I'm sure some people will not be able to go and will do something low key for them.

FallBride2010 Posted:

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Not sure what FH will do...I am fine with whatever his decision is.

I dont want any strippers at mine. My friends got me one for my 26th bday and that was more than enough for a lifetime.

I actually want to go to New Orleans for my bachelorette. I love it there! I'd also like one in CA since I lived there for a few yrs and a lot of my friends are still there. But I'm probably pushing my luck for 2 : )
JoanneAndJustin Posted:

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FH wants to go on a party boat or a midnight fishing trip or something. If he changes his mind and there are strippers, that's good too. I have no worries.

I want a spa day with my girls and then a nice dinner out with cocktails. I don't want strippers... it's not my thing.
grrulz Posted:

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i don't know what i want yet but nor fh tells me what to do and nor do i care where he goes he could do a strip club! lol he has to enjoy the last night out as a single man!!!

grkbarbie Posted:

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i dont think we will be havingb-parties.. fh thinks its stupid. and he refuses to go to a strip club..he went once and was so embarassed..

as for me..i go out often without him (he doesnt dance and hates 'my scene'(greek)) so he stays home or does his own thing..

we mite just do a jack n jill..who knows
Goldie39 Posted:

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I want to have a whole day of stuff and my MOH and sister already knows, so they better make it happen! lol j/k

I want to go to the shooting range, eat, take a pole dancing class, and get pampered. maybe not in that particular order, but definitely all of those!!!

I don't know what FH is gonna do but we have a no stripper policy. He doesn't want me to have one and I damn sure don't want another girl popping her cheeks in my mans face, so i dunno!
Opera_Ghost Posted:

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I think I'm gonna up my grand party.

I think me & my few close girls should go to Vegas for a weekend.. and see Phantom there!! I hear it's amazing!
RedsBride Posted:

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I don't like the idea of him going to a strip club but i'm not gonna make a big deal if he does. I warned him though...no touching or talking dirty or anything lol. For me, I don't think I wanna go to a strip club of any sort. I wanna drink and party and have a crazy time

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