I'm envious of all you decisive brides! I've been pretty good about the choices we've made. I haven't second guessed any of my vendors. The darn bridesmaid dresses are the only thing i can't seem to commit to! I can't wait till they've bought their dresses, then i can't change my mind
Posted by Kroedel87
I have a rule, I have to meet with at least three vendors before booking with one. And once I meet the right one, I'm decisive and we book. I'm a pretty decisive person, so I haven't been torn on many things. I can't even think of anything! LOL I'm a pretty decisive person.
I always know exactly what I want. I have my own unique style and very much know what I like and what I don't. I have been firm and decisive as well as very easy going about everything except photo. Photo nearly killed me and we went like 6 months over this. I thought fh was going to scream at me but he was so good about it and we are so happy with our decision. I think the reason behind the indecisiveness was because I like taking photos as a hobby. I have a professional camera a few lenses the whole 9 so I really am very involved with pictures and I think I couldn't find someone with my same style but we found the perfect photographer and couldn't be happier.
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Posted by MsA2MrsA
I've actually been pretty decisive on everything. I know what I want - and my fiance usually agrees with me (probably because he knows I care about the details more).
totally agree about knowing what i want. i have had a vision of my wedding for a long time now, so it's just about finding vendors who understand. i have very strong feelings about what i like and what i don't like, which makes decision making much easier for me.
This too...I know what I want and what I don't like so it's either yes or no, nothing in between! My whole family is surprised how smooth everything has been...I am a brat and they assumed i'd be a bridezilla. I am happy with all of the decisions I've made there was nothing yet that I had to have and couldn't get.
I am definitely struggling with wether or not I should get a videographer... I really think I would love to have a video of the day, but I also feel like it is an insane amount of money. I shouldn't be paying the price that my photographer is charging me, but I don't want it to be cheap and stupid. I want quality film making so I am back and forth on this decision and know if I keep waiting I will run out of time! Ugh!
The big decisions all came pretty easy for me. But, boy, am I sweating all the small stuff!! I can't seem to commit to any of the little things and it's giving me nothing but anxiety lately. I want to enjoy this part of the planning, but so far it's been the most stressful for me.
