*****QOTD 10.12.10 *****

Its Tuesday!!! For those of you who had a day off yesterday I hope you enjoyed it For those of you who didn't were almost at hump day I hope your workdays go quickly

TODAYS Question(s)


What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?

I know we're not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?


Hope you don't mind my more than one question QOTDS.


ENJOY YOUR DAY GIRLS!!!!

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?

I have cards and cute things he's bought me. FH is a pack rat so he has everything I've ever given him lol

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?

I have tons of ticket stubs, cards photos..seriously..TONS.

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?

hmm is it bad I don't remember?

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?

no I think we'll just celebrate our wedding anniv and we'll prob have 2 of those since we're getting married civilly 1st. I told hm we're celebrating the actual wedding day and NOT the town hall day lol

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?

hmmm id love to go away on vacation :)

What have I saved? I keep a lot of things, in a box I can probably find old movie stubs, yankee tix stubs, pics, etc.

I still have the post it with the phone number he left at my desk at work telling me to call him...lol. I have the teddy bear he gave me for our first valentines day. I have tons of pictures. I used to have the old voice mails saved on my phone so I can listen to them when I was feeling down, but I have changed phones like 3 times already...lol.

Our first date? Well we went out to lunch since we worked together so I have nothing from that :( I do have the tickets from our first Yankee Game together. I have pics of us in Ponchos since it rained like crazy!

On our first anniversary, he took me to dinner and got me flowers (roses) and perfume.

I think I would like to celebrate our dating anniversary since it was a step to the future for us :)

First wedding anniversary...I would like Jewelry :) or maybe a second honeymoon:)

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
I actually have a box with all of the cards he has gotten me, movie tickets, show stubs..I also have the bouquet I caught at his best friends wedding <3 I caught it and it just so happens that out of our group of friends we were the next to get engaged and to be married. Guess it downs work! LoL

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.? I have a movie ticket from the first movie we went to see together!

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together? We went out to dinner and I made him a scrap book of our first year together <3

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married? No, we will celebrate our wedding date each year. But we will always remember the date we got together!

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?
Hmmm... Dinner and a nice night out or a cozy night in... Maybe some flowers.. Im easy to please haha

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?

Honestly, I'm not the sentimental knick nack saving type. I've only saved letters from boyfriends and unfortunately, FH isn't the letter writing type . I've saved cards from him mostly.

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?

Nah, I had the reciept for dinner rolling in my bag for a while but that got chucked. I didn't know he'd be my husband at the time, maybe I would've planned better!

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?

Our anniversary is in december which is also when my birthday and christmas is so honestly, I don't even remember. FH did get me my pomeranian that december for a christmas/birthday/anniversary present.

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?

Probably not...we hardly celebrate it now since it's in the same week as my birthday. That is one reason I wanted the wedding FARRRRR from December since I always get shafted with rolled into one presents/dinners/parties!!

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?

I really want a new laptop or a professional camera. I don't think I can ask for it this year (for birthday, christmas etc) since we are saving for the wedding. Maybe I'll ask for one of those...not very romantic but I want it


First wedding anniversary I want a professional camera or new laptop. I've already decided I'm going to get him his dream wedding band if I can't afford it for the actual wedding.

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?

I tried to save the flowers he got me by doing that hairspray thing but I never works, so i just take a pictures of them and put them in the 'scrapbook' I made. I have a million ticket stubs from movies, baseball games, hockey ect. cards he gives me and i am a photo junkie i have over 6,000 photos on my computer (not all of FH and I dont worry i am not too much of a creeper)

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?

a photo of the flowers he brought to my job

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?

Flowers and egg sandwich

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?

probably just the wedding anniversary, but ill remind him when its our dating anniversary

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?

Vacation!!! but if i cant have that ill take some jewelery

Love the multiple questions! It's like taking a survey! LOL


What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
I had this day to day calendar on my desk and everytime something speical happened on a certain day, I would rip it off and write on the back what happened that day (first date, first kiss, first time we said 'I Love You' etc). I have them all saved in a box on my dresser along with any tickets to things we've done or places we've gone to.

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?
just the calendar page I mentioned above.

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?
for our first anniversary, FH cooked me dinner (which he knows that the way to my heart is through food LOL), flowers, and a bracelet from Tiffanys.

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?
Not with gifts or anything but we'll probably just go out to dinner or something.

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?
To go away somewhere - I don't care where or how long (can just be a weekend trip) but I would like to have that be our gift to each other.

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Posted by FutureJOC

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
I had this day to day calendar on my desk and everytime something speical happened on a certain day, I would rip it off and write on the back what happened that day (first date, first kiss, first time we said 'I Love You' etc). I have them all saved in a box on my dresser along with any tickets to things we've done or places we've gone to.

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that is cute!!!

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Posted by xoabxo

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Posted by FutureJOC

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
I had this day to day calendar on my desk and everytime something speical happened on a certain day, I would rip it off and write on the back what happened that day (first date, first kiss, first time we said 'I Love You' etc). I have them all saved in a box on my dresser along with any tickets to things we've done or places we've gone to.

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that is cute!!!

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That is such a cute idea. I may steal it :)

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?

I am saving EVERYTHING i get (except flowers...)... I have ALL cards, letters, teddy bears... anything i always get i save it!... I still get them...


Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?

Yes... I have a King Kong Teddy bear he got me at the Empire State Buildin!!!! I also have all photos..... and a Condom Rose we purchase in the Sex Museum.

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?
Earings, Roses, Dinner...

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?
Yes... Fh and I always celebrate it.... LOL....

we did semi-long distance and only saw each other on weekends for the 1st few month

so we had a notebook and we switched off every week and would write letters and questions and thoughts and pictures

we have tickets and cards and comic strips and pictures in the notebook. stuff from dates and trips
ticket stubs and such

we still use it only every few months instead of every week.

our 1st anniversary he got me a heart from KAY - i wear it every day

we will change our celebration to wedding date when we marry.

for our 1st year anniversary we hope to go to Cali cause we have never been

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
Lots of stuff! We once made rings out of electric tape that say 'mine' on them. I forget why, I think it was before a party or something. I also have a couple of those paper jumping frogs, and some other silly stuff. It's all in a box with our pic on it in the living room.

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?
I have the ticket stub from our first date. We saw Bad Santa. LOL. It's in a scrapbook.

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?
We bought each other promise rings. He still wears his, but it no longer fits his ring finger.

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?
Probably not. It's the day after my birthday. I think we will both be happy to be rid of the nearness!

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?
Hmmm. No clue! We will have moved by then to another state and I have no clue what our financial status will be! We will probably still be saving for a house. Maybe we could come back to LI for a long weekend and stay out on the north fork. Or go to wine country in NC.

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Posted by smilesjc81

we did semi-long distance and only saw each other on weekends for the 1st few month

so we had a notebook and we switched off every week and would write letters and questions and thoughts and pictures

we have tickets and cards and comic strips and pictures in the notebook. stuff from dates and trips
ticket stubs and such

we still use it only every few months instead of every week.

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Posted by xoabxo

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Posted by smilesjc81

we did semi-long distance and only saw each other on weekends for the 1st few month

so we had a notebook and we switched off every week and would write letters and questions and thoughts and pictures

we have tickets and cards and comic strips and pictures in the notebook. stuff from dates and trips
ticket stubs and such

we still use it only every few months instead of every week.

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that is really sweet

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Posted by Lana and Johan

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Posted by xoabxo

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Posted by FutureJOC

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
I had this day to day calendar on my desk and everytime something speical happened on a certain day, I would rip it off and write on the back what happened that day (first date, first kiss, first time we said 'I Love You' etc). I have them all saved in a box on my dresser along with any tickets to things we've done or places we've gone to.

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that is cute!!!

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That is such a cute idea. I may steal it :)

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love that

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?
i save almost everything! anything that we do together, like hot air balloon ride we took in downtown disney on vacation, broday plays we've attended, other events, stuff like that. not like movie stubs or anything, but ido have the first few movie stubs that we went to go see together

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?
i had the first flower that he gave me pressed and dried, and i did that for the flowers he gave me on anniversarys and birthdays and put them all in a shadow box i made. i also kept out first movie stub tix

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?
he got me diamond earrings and a card. then we went out to dinner and spent the weekend away in Philly

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?
probably not, although i will probably mention that oh, honey, do you remember? we started dating 14 years ago today! he already told me that he is going to remember a new date so it will take over the 'dating' date in his mind. LOL!

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?
hopefully either anxiously awaiting the birth of our first child or enjoying every minnute of it!

I have saved all the cards and printed emails that he has ever sent me (its amazing how many you accumulate in 9 years!)

We went to the city for our anniversary (I think~ its been too damn long for me to remeber! )

I have a hard time getting him to rememeber one anniversary let alone two! I think we will just do our wedding anniversary (but maybe for the first couple years I will still drag him around for our dating one~ any excuse for a present!)

What have you saved (if anything) from your relationship with FH?

I have all the cards FH gave me over the years. I love when he writes things in them....it's so much better than just a plain old card.

Do you have anything from your first date like pressed flowers, ticket stubs, card, photos ect.?

Not from our first date, no.

What did FH get you (if anything) for your first anniversary together?

Our first anniverary, I believe was my Tiffany's bracelet <3

Are you still going to celebrate your dating anniversary once you're married?

FH prob will. He alwasy buys me flowers on our dating anniversary, and even though I've asked him to stop, he still does.

I know were not married yet....but what would you like for your first wedding anniversary?

A baby?! haha

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Posted by Burhart1111

would you like for your first wedding anniversary?

A baby?! haha

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so cute- me too- but it aint happening lol