**QOTD: 10.14.11**

Today's question is:

What is something that really annoys you about your FH?

I'm asking this as I sit in the car en route to Maryland for a conference. FH is SO annoying whenever we have to travel anywhere (even just to NJ). He has no patience to wait for me to get ready and wants to leave before I have a chance to make sure I have everything! So annoying.

everyday when i come home from work there is half a glass of water NEXT to the sink.... it just annoys me that you cannot put that glass INTO the sink lol

i know its the stupidest thing but it just drives me nuts since usually the drive home from work just makes me angry once i see that i just wanna yell, i usually growl at it or something. last week i said i wouldnt clean them up, and that lazy bum had 5 glasses sitting next to the sink and i snapped!

FH's closet is in the hallway near the kitchen and the living room and now our living room looks like his closet has exploded. There are shorts, pants and shirts EVERYWHERE.

He also loves to leave soda bottles next to his side of the couch. He has quite a collection going. I've at least got him to quit drinking out of a 2 liter bottle like an animal and down to using a glass or a smaller bottle.

It drives me nuts that he NEVER puts a new garbage bag in, he takes the garbage out which I appreciate but a new bag never manages to make it into the can.

Newly formed is he leaves empty plastic cups on the couch... it would bother me less if it was left on the coffee table, but instead nope on the actual couch

He thinks its okay to fart & burp in front of me!!!

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Posted by irisheyezrsmilen

everyday when i come home from work there is half a glass of water NEXT to the sink.... it just annoys me that you cannot put that glass INTO the sink lol

i know its the stupidest thing but it just drives me nuts since usually the drive home from work just makes me angry once i see that i just wanna yell, i usually growl at it or something. last week i said i wouldnt clean them up, and that lazy bum had 5 glasses sitting next to the sink and i snapped!

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OMG stuff like this!! Or he will put the dishes in the sink instead of in the dishwasher .. IT TAKES THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME AND ENERGY!!

Ohh this is a terrible QOTD for me today - it's FH's birthday so I shouldn't bash him!!!

Oh well, he won't see!

FH really doesn't annoy me too much at all. The biggest thing is when he's either on the computer (working or playing) it's as though I don't exist. I could be sitting right next to him and say something and he won't hear me!!

The way he yells at the TV when the Giants are playing...drives me up a wall. I dont know when he is going to realize that the Giants dont hear only only I DO

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Posted by nilla24

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Posted by irisheyezrsmilen

everyday when i come home from work there is half a glass of water NEXT to the sink.... it just annoys me that you cannot put that glass INTO the sink lol

i know its the stupidest thing but it just drives me nuts since usually the drive home from work just makes me angry once i see that i just wanna yell, i usually growl at it or something. last week i said i wouldnt clean them up, and that lazy bum had 5 glasses sitting next to the sink and i snapped!

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OMG stuff like this!! Or he will put the dishes in the sink instead of in the dishwasher .. IT TAKES THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME AND ENERGY!!

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YES!!!! thank you - i needed that to know im not 100% crazy lol

i even showed him once when i flipped out i wasn't yelling but i talking VERY loudly to him and showing him how easy it was to put the dishes and extra 6''

One thing is when we're in bed sleeping and he's tossing and turning, instead of lifting himself and shifting, he flips and flops from laying on one side to the other so the whole bed shakes!!

Normally it wouldn't bother me but all of a sudden I've become a very light sleeper and it wakes me up.

Think we need one of those memory foam mattresses where the kid is jumping on one side and there's a glass of wine on the other.. lol

I LOVE ALL OF YOU SO VERY MUCH RIGHT NOW!!! Because it's nice to know someone else feels my insanity.
FH does a lot of these things himself... farting like it's funny, glasses NEXT to instead of in the sink, dirty socks on the living room floor. I'm not even sure how he manages this but he leaves the recliners OPEN, how the hell do you get up off the couch with the recliner still up?

It's mostly just a picking up after himself thing, his mom was an OCD stay at home mom he never really had to do any of it for himself and I'm to OCD to leave it long enough for him to notice he does it.

Im dying laughing at some of these bc I completely identify. A lot of it doesn't bother me bc I lived with my dad and my brother for a while. One of the things that does annoy me is that he hasn't dated many ppl so he often does realize how lucky he is.

Ex: He complains about how long I take to get ready- plenty of girls take longer and if im not going anywhere special I take a couple mins and im out the door.

Football Sunday. Now that he does multiple fantasy leagues he feels the need to sit with his laptop and watch every moment of every game. Some I'll watch with him, friends will come over and I'll make snacks, etc. Pumpkin picking on a Sunday you ask?? HAHAHAHAHA, a joke. So, if Im easy with that then he needs to compromise and give me something. He thinks every female would LOVE his excessive football behavior.

I could go on and on, but long story short is I wish he had dated a few more monsters before we met so he realizes that not everyone is as easy going!

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Posted by christinajimmy06



One thing is when we're in bed sleeping and he's tossing and turning, instead of lifting himself and shifting, he flips and flops from laying on one side to the other so the whole bed shakes!!

Normally it wouldn't bother me but all of a sudden I've become a very light sleeper and it wakes me up.

Think we need one of those memory foam mattresses where the kid is jumping on one side and there's a glass of wine on the other.. lol

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We have one of those beds and it makes a HUGE difference, now if I can get him to stop cocooning himself in the blanket, the hog! LOL