FH goes to EVERY appointment with me, and has a say on everything. We then either: Fall in love with the same thing (Fox Hollow) or compromise and move onto something we BOTH like... it seems to be working so far.
He started out as a mini-groomzilla, but isn't now...
barbtony
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FH has a say, don't get me wrong, but some things he just doesn't care about, flowers for instance. I go over everything with him prior to booking.
BluAngel93
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Posted by barbtony
Does he want to come to the car dealer with me?
I should probably have put a disclaimer on that to say that he's normally a good negotiator but since we haven't had any vendor appts yet, i have yet to see if those skills carry over...i really hope they do!
barbtony
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You learn as you go.
TessMike621
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fh and i go to every appointment together...we are the ones paying for all vendors (with the exception of the RH which my parents are helping us with, and of course he didn't come with me dress shopping, which my mom is helping me pay for...although, we both were tempted for him to come with me to try on dresses!) he's great, he's working SO hard to get me whatever i want for the wedding...we have the same taste in almost everyhing...also, we are probably going to book the same florist and dj that we had for our eparty
Nrauch8191
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My FH only wants input on the LImos...
barbtony
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BUMP FOR FUTURE MRS M
FutureMrs.M
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He is groomzilla about the church and the ceremony...he says since that is more of his thing he gets to make the choices and it has worked out well for the most part. For the rest he doesnt really care it has been like i have to twist his arm to get input...i want him to have a say so down the road i dont want to risk him saying he would have rather done something a different way
FutureMrs.M
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thanks for the bump...im a little out of it today
barbtony
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Welcome to my world
FutureMrs.M
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yeah thank god the week is over for me and I can relax and enjoy my birthday
barbtony
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
FutureMrs.M
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Thank you very much!
RedsBride
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Fh is pretty involved. He has been there for all the meetings with RHs, Bands, and Photographers. He says he likes being a part of it all, but he's no groomzilla!
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FH is there for all the appointments. He does have a say in everything because we are paying for everything. So I won't hear he didn't get want he wanted. He also wanted to take me dress shopping, and was going to sit in the car until I was finish. I said no thanks I can pay and do that on my own. His answer was what if you needed more money. I just walk away saying I have your credit card.
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FH has come with me to all the appointments except for the florist, he refused to come there.
he kind of has a say..it depends what it is, i would force him to at least give me some kind of opinion, after all this is OUR wedding not just mine
MrsL2010
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FH has come to all vendor appointments with me. He's definitely not a groomzilla, but he wants to know what is going on.
mosh424
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FH comes to all the appointments but always makes me make the decision.