How much input does your FH have in your wedding plans? Does he have the possibiility of becoming a 'Groomzilla'?
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All he wanted input on was the DJ - so far. Does a lot of question asking, but that's about it. Slow and steady so far.
JenBill61210
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FH doesn't care about the details, just the price. For instance, i went to our florist appointment, got the prices for highs, mixed, and low cps, and once i told him the prices hes like 'ok we're going w/ the lows' lol.
Kimmypie143
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FH has been helping with everything but lets me make the final decision! I love it! he's the best! He likes checking out the vendors and hes done a good job so far
T E R I
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FH has no imput, he just wants to know how much vendors are before i officially sign contracts and make sure i'm not going over our budget. He trusts me to plan everything and just tell him where and what to do
stinenandy2010
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He wants to know whats going on if we are paying for it. He offers his opinions...sometimes there bad but sometimes he's so creative it surprises me. The most important thing to him was the band and RH.
Dazzlin217
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fh is suprisingly involved. he comes with me to all the appointments,and we both have a say in the final decision.
FallBride2010
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He has been pretty involved...but I think he might be a bit sick of vendor meetings right now. He wants to be a part of final decisions, but I think he wants me to narrow down the vendors at this point : ) Unfortunately, he doesnt care about the money...and i wish he did...b/c i need someone to talk me down from all my crazy ideas. Thankfully I have met with some great vendors who have talked me into more sensible things! : )
RitasEngaged
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He could care less. The only thing he really cares about is the DJ and Photog. He knows that I will have the final say anyway.
rocketsummer17
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he keeps telling me whatever I want let him know and he will find a way to pay for it. He does have input though, like what kinds of invitations he likes, rings he likes, dj, food choices, limo, photog, honeymoon, things like that. He is surprsingly involved and laid back about it.
eternitybride
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All he has cared about (supposedly) is the photographer, but he gets picky at the strangest times.
Now he has input on the Save the Date cards, invitations, DJs, Favors. He says he has no say on Flowers, then shows an interest in certain styles... so he is frustrating
amandah75
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He started out not caring until i actually started doing research. first it was the photog (thankfully we both fell in love with the same person) then it was the RH before i knew it, he had a say on everything. it's been somewhat of a struggle but it's getting better. he has a vision and i can't fault him on that. think i've finally gotten it through to him that his vision is not always my vision and there must be compromise.
yes, i can see him becoming a groomzilla without a doubt. I've been told what I can walk down the aisle to, dress style....you name it i've heard it. we'll just see if i listen lol
grrulz
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FH give a great input i should say he's a perfectionist he asks most of the questions when we are meeting with vendors and does tell me when my taste is kind of tacky! i love him and i trust his taste that's why i love the ring he bought me
barbtony
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I forgot - the RH was another thing he took an interest in. And had a lot to say about that. Not so much the price, but where and what it looked like. I was a little surprised, but he really hasn't had too much else to say. A couple of things here and there, but nothing I can't handle.
Amanda -
On a side note, I have absolute confidence that you will wear what you want and what you will walk down the aisle too.
Goldie39
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FH has accompanied me to every vendor appoitment except the florist. He's not very vocal when it comes to decision making but he's supportive so I am content with that. The only time he had a groomzilla moment was when it came to limos. Now that we're done booking all our major vendors, he is glad to have his old fiance back!
amandah75
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Posted by barbtony
I forgot - the RH was another thing he took an interest in. And had a lot to say about that. Not so much the price, but where and what it looked like. I was a little surprised, but he really hasn't had too much else to say. A couple of things here and there, but nothing I can't handle.
Amanda -
On a side note, I have absolute confidence that you will wear what you want and what you will walk down the aisle too.
Thanks sweetie. I'll give him the aisle though....he wants me to walk down the aisle to here comes the bride....said he can't imagine me walking down to anything else. Now what we walk back up the aisle to is a different story. I'm still working on that one.
barbtony
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You're waaaaaaaaay ahead of me on that one. Haven't given it a thought yet.
Nurse12985
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My FH is Groomzilla!! He wants input on colors, chair covers, vendors, even BM dresses..everything!
Reymiliz
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hes a minnie grownzilla but IM THE BOSS
Opera_Ghost
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FH wants to go to almost every appointment for anything with me.. althogh I don't know why cause I never get input of what he wants. It's always 'if that's what you want'.
He's sorta upset now cause he may not be able to go to a DJ appointment I made for tomorrow... but I told him I'm just going to see what they offer & prices... he can go back with me when we decide and want to book.
BluAngel93
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No sign of a groomzilla here, he's def way too laid back for that type of thing. As long as i'm the one doing all the research (partially his stipulation, partially my ocd personality), i just show him what i like and he helps me decide from there...so ideally we both get a say, though he has suddenly gotten weird at times in terms of caring about certain things (i.e. like trying to veto having a photographer/videographer/florist w/out seeing any prices b/c he automatically thinks they'll be too expensive...as though it will be a flowerless, pictureless wedding...b/c that'll happen).
For the most part though, we're like a tag team: i find vendors and get us in the door with appointments and then he works his negotiating magic so that this wedding won't cost us our first born...works for us
