Well listen you ladies who live with FH - I am a horny Biatch and so is my FH we both agreed that if our sex life changes we will be getting a divorce - I know sad but true!!!
And Amanda you are no virgin
hey i was the same way but sh*t happens
yea so was i. its alot easier said then done. im gonna ask all you girls this same question about 3-4 months after you;re living together and see if you have the same answers
exactly, if you asked me this two years ago, i would have the same response as you rita....but as alyssa said $hit happens!
RitasEngaged
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you people are scaring me - maybe I will just get married and live seperately
angelatp
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Posted by Alyssa79
don't want to burst your bubble, but a lot of us girls that do live with FH all agreed it has gotten less once we lived with them
Ain't that the truth!!!
deanna225
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i think it will change for the better. right now i live with my mom and sister and he lives with his parents and brother. so when we move in together it will just be us. so we can do it anytime and anyplace in the house we want to.
JC297
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Sex? what's sex?
My sex life is practically non existant. We used to do it alllllll the time...but we've been living together for a few years and after a long day at work I'm sleepy, he's sleepy....and sleep seems more important.
It's very sad in comparassion to what it used to be
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Posted by Sora777
Sex? what's sex?
My sex life is practically non existant. We used to do it alllllll the time...but we've been living together for a few years and after a long day at work I'm sleepy, he's sleepy....and sleep seems more important.
It's very sad in comparassion to what it used to be
At least I am not the only one!
christine2010
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i believe it will be more at first, because we will be married and it will be something new. (like right after engagement) but then it will decrease.
lori7570
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I have to agree with everyone who already lives together...it does decrease. BUT the quality thing definitely applies...it may be less but quality seems to stay the same.
There are so many great things about living together so it all balances out
I also agree with the exhaustion thing....FH and I work totally different hours so it's hard to connect...the times we do get together its more about talking and going places....wwhile sex is VERY important others things are too that can still make you feel as connected
marrymybestfriend
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once you move in together... you see each otehr EVERY DAY. thats a good thing, but because you do infact see each other everyday, it kinda loses its luster.
also, it used to be (before we lived together)... that the second she walked in the door, you go into attack mode... but now it's like... you come home from work... and even though that passion might still be there... you know that there are things that need to be done... so it can wait until later... when it's bed time.... but by then... you're tired and you say 'ehhh... tomorrow'. I HATE THAT!!!!
Jackie knows that i want it 24/7... but i cant always have it my way. living together definitely kills your sex life. i'm not saying it will be bad... just saying that it will NEVER be as good as it was before you lived together. all my friends are older and married... and they all say the same. it's an exact science.
for all of you thinking/saying that i'm wrong....you'll see. thats all i can say
