<<<QOTD 12/22>>>

es2189 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 09:54 AM

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My friend just had twins and I got pictures this morning...adorable!! So on that note, today's question is about kids (and has multiple parts)...

***Do you want to have kids? If so, how many? What traits do you want your kids to get from you and what traits do you want them to get from FH?***

AdriandSteve Posted: Dec 22, 2009 09:56 AM

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I would like 2-3 kids. 2 bio and 1 adopted if finances are available.

i'd like for the children to have my hair (dark brown) but FH's eyes (grey, blue-ish). They'll be very athletic since FH and I both are.
I hope they get FH's humor and my quirky-ness. I hope they DO NOT get FH's ocd tendencies lol.

I hope they get my easy going nature but I hope they aren't as stubborn as me.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 09:58 AM

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i want ZERO kids!!

miamimerger Posted: Dec 22, 2009 09:59 AM

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I would like one kid. Still not sure if I want to give birth or adopt. One of my sisters was adopted and it was the best experience ever.

ETA: just realized I didn't answer the whole question! I am the LEAST athletic person in the world, and unfortunately, so is FH. I hope our kids somehow avoid that . FH is a brainy scientist and I am very creative (I went to undergrad for creative writing and music), so who knows what will happen. Either way, our child will probably have a strange sense of humor

AngnShaun Posted: Dec 22, 2009 09:59 AM

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definitely want kids...

I would like 3... hopefully all boys

that have FH's work ethic, and athletic ability, so they can all be left handed pitchers and take care of me and FH... and not for nothing but if they have his looks im ok with that too...

I hope they tan like me... lol... and have my patience and personality...

soontobecruz Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:01 AM

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1 or 2

I hope they get FH's nose.. and my light brown eyes...My lips and well I want boys so obviously I hope they are built like FH. I would like them to have his easy going-ness with my spunk.

Future Mrs P Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:04 AM

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I would like 3...2 boys and 1 girl. FH and I both have dark hair so theres not many options there, but I do hope they have FH eyes. They're a grayish blue but change depending on what color he wears. We are both super stubborn, but hopefully they can somehow avoid this trait!!

MrsC2010 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:05 AM

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i want 2 kids...maybe 3 but that would be the max.

we used to say we wanted to wait til we were 30 (so like 4 years after the wedding) but lately I think we have felt like we might start at like 28...so 2 years after the wedding. We just wanna have a house and stuff first.

from FH...I want his outgoingness and his laidbackness (if those are words ) and his thick hair!

jcreilly Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:08 AM

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I would love to have 3 children!

AngnShaun Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:08 AM

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Posted by MrsC2010

i want 2 kids...maybe 3 but that would be the max.

we used to say we wanted to wait til we were 30 (so like 4 years after the wedding) but lately I think we have felt like we might start at like 28...so 2 years after the wedding. We just wanna have a house and stuff first.

from FH...I want his outgoingness and his laidbackness (if those are words ) and his thick hair!

LOL... good call... my gpa, dad, and bro were/are all bald... so i hope they get their hair from FH and his dad... both full heads of hair with no sign of loosing it... lol

StaceyWill Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:10 AM

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I would love to have two boys. I would like for them to have FH’s patience and calmness (he is always cool and relaxed) and I would like for them to have my humor (I can find the humor in just about any situation, bad or good) and ability to not hold grudges (I get over things really quickly, which I think is a good thing).

es2189 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:11 AM

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i want kids immediately, but i don't know how many yet. i want them to have my skin, fh's athletic ability, my ability to do well in school, fh's spatial understanding, and NEITHER or our tendencies to get overly anxious (not gonna happen!!!)

FutureCap Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:12 AM

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I would love 3 kids, but they are expensive and FH and I will both be working do day care and after care will be alot to, so we may stop at 2!

halfbaked Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:14 AM

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I definitely want kids. I'd like to have two, a boy and a girl, but who knows how that will work out. If it were up to FH we'd breed our own little army but I don't think I'm up for all that. LOL!

As for traits, I just hope they don't get my asthma or my height. FH would be so depressed. LOL. He thinks he's going to have all athletes. I keep telling him no, but he doesn't believe me.

Golden Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:15 AM

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My dream is to have twins at 30.
I would want my kids to be laid back and patient like FH and socially outgoing like me. I think they should have both our smarts but as long as they're healthy and happy I won't complain.

christine2010 Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:16 AM

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ideally we would like to have two. 1 & 1 . FH says we keep going until we have a .

i used to want to start trying as soon as the wedding was over, however, thinking that means we would have a kid within the next year, freaks me out so we are going to wait a little while. by time the wedding comes FH will be 27 & i will be 26 so i think we still have enough time to have a family.

as for traits:
i want our kids to have my hair (brown) but FHs eyes (blue & green, they change color) & my skin tone (olive).

i would love for them to have my work ethic but FHs ability to do well in school without even trying. (very annoying when i went to class the entire semester & he barely ever want & got an A & i only got a B )

i also would love for our kids to be a little more laid back then i am but not as laid back as FH is.

joctorre Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:22 AM

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I definitely want kids. Maybe 3-4? I don't think that can happen though bc I don't want to be too old by the time i have the last...

I'd like boys, bc I think they're easier in a lot of ways, but girls are so sweet and it would be nice to have a daughter to bond with, too!!

From FH, they definitely need his eyes. I hope they get my feet, though (his are funny-lookin' )

I'd like them to have his patience, though, bc mine doesn't last very long. but they need my spunk...

no momma's boys either -- i guess that would be my doing, though, right??? If that is something you can inherit though, they would definitely get it from FH, his 3 brothers, AND his mom!!!!

JAAMS Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:24 AM

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I don't know how many we want... at least 3...maybe more. I'd love to adopt a child as well..

I want them to inherit my free spirit, my compassion, and my intelligence. I want them to inherit FH's selflessness, his drive to always work hard, and his athletic ability.

Lsorrent Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:25 AM

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2-3. I would like them to have FH's sense of humor and patience, but my 'don't take sh!t from anyone' attitude.

jackieee Posted: Dec 22, 2009 10:27 AM

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YES!! I want kids now :)

We both want to start trying right away. I used to always want 5, but now I think probably 3. Maybe 4. I always thought I'd have all my kids by 30, but now I'm 25 so I don't know. I want them close together, so I guess we can have 3 kids in the next 5 years hahaha He wants a lot of kids too, so it's good.

Traits from FH: beautiful green eyes, sense of humor, intelligence, creativity with music and writing, open-minded, loyal

Traits from me: patience, intelligence, organized, good money skills, very caring