Maybe it's TMI...I feel like maybe it's just me because of my birth control, or wedding stress, or laziness or whatever. I feel like I have no sex drive at all lately.... Am I the only one who feels this way??
How do you girls keep things poppin when going through a rut??
AdriandSteve
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oh lord. FH complains about this all the time. lol
halfbaked
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Well I know whenever I'm not feeling sexy (when I've gained weight so my clothes don't fit right, my roots are showing, my hairs a mess) then I'm not in the mood. So I try to go out and get a cute new outfit, exercise, and get my hair did. Then I come home looking all sexy and I'm ready to jump his bones again!
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I go to one of my favorite stores, Toys in Babeland, and pick out something fun!
I've never really been in a rut with FH. But I go to Babeland to keep things interesting!
RGEC47
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I was feeling that way......until last night!
Seriously though, I think it is natural for your drive to be down. They say that for women (some) se* is more mental than physical.
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We watch porn together, or I watch myself...
Sometimes if its been a while we assign a naked day and just go from there.
Rarely I'll just force myself and once I've started out I get in the mood.
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Posted by RGEC47
They say that for women (some) se* is more mental than physical.
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JennandAnthony
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we have the opposite issue...he has no se* drive. I complain about it but I dont do anything about bc Im either to tired or lazy lol......
latinaj
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oh god...my drive has been on mega low for weeks
jackieee
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I agree with jilliibabii
rdubs
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Our problem isn't that we aren't ever in the mood, we're both just so tired at night that we always says, 'tomorrow we'll do it.' Tomorrow comes and we're more tired.
We make scheduled times on the weekend to get it on. Sadly, this is the only thing that works these days.
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Posted by rdubs
Our problem isn't that we aren't ever in the mood, we're both just so tired at night that we always says, 'tomorrow we'll do it.' Tomorrow comes and we're more tired.
We make scheduled times on the weekend to get it on. Sadly, this is the only thing that works these days.
thats our problem a lot... or I get caught up doing school work... or his brother and 4 other 13 year olds are in my very small apartment playing video games...
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Posted by AngnShaun
Posted by rdubs
Our problem isn't that we aren't ever in the mood, we're both just so tired at night that we always says, 'tomorrow we'll do it.' Tomorrow comes and we're more tired.
We make scheduled times on the weekend to get it on. Sadly, this is the only thing that works these days.
thats our problem a lot... or I get caught up doing school work... or his brother and 4 other 13 year olds are in my very small apartment playing video games...
We joke about if we're this tired pre-kids, what will it be like after them? WE'RE OLD!
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We have this problem all the time!! I'm always tired, he comes to bed late and expects me to be all into it, and then in the middle of the day (when we're BOTh supposed to be working from home) he all of a sudden decides that he wants to shower together or 'play'...
It's a constant struggle because the more he pushes for it, the more I feel like it's only about HIM and not about US which is what it should be (most of the time anyway, right?) SO usually I just 'tolerate it' and sometimes it gets me going too...
I like the idea of a 'naked day' (although I'm freezing right now so I can't imagine it at the moment). Sometimes I'll just surprise him by being all naked in bed and that will help...
Relish21
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Awww glad to know i'm not alone!!!
::whew::
flibbertigibbet
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not alone. sometimes we're just like 'oh man we better just start and GET in the mood or we'll never get around to it'
and then you know, we get into the mood and we're like 'see, glad we did it!' LOL
errhm. something about women hitting peak at 35 years old? so i'm looking fwd to that.
any ladies that age want to confirm that theory? plz god confirm it.
Alexandra17
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It comes in waves..like sometimes I will really rather close my eyes and sleep..sometimes I read something and I am like hello...let's get going! ugh after the wedding I am hoping for some fun
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Posted by weddingbees
errhm. something about women hitting peak at 35 years old? so i'm looking fwd to that.
any ladies that age want to confirm that theory? plz god confirm it.
I'm almost 32 and i'm also waiting for that peak!!! (I know FH is also because he's 28 and ther'es nothing stopping his drive!!!)
