my question today is about plans for children. I know we have had ppl ask when you are planning to start having kids so I won't ask that. My questions are:
1. do you and fh/fw already have children together? 2. how many children, if any, do you plan to have? do you and fh/fw agree on this number? 3. do you have a preference about having boys/girls?
fh and i don't have any children. we both agree that we most likely want 2 children, but def no more than 3. In all reality I don't have a preference about gender bc I just want to have healthy babies but it would be cute to have one of each
Chelechel1
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I want 2 and it doesn't matter if they are boys or girls. Def more than 1 child cuz I grew up an only child and it wasn't the best.
CloudNine
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FH and i do not have children together but FH does have 2 boys from a previous relationship (3 & 5) we want more kids...1 or 2 but thats it. i dont have a preference to gender. FH insists he only produces boys...we'll see what happens
Future Mrs H
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We spoke about this when we first started dating and we both agreed that at our age we are not going to start a family. I have a great niece and nephew that i can spoil!!
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FH and I do not have any children together. FH wants 4 but I really only want 2 or 3. Dave wants to have all boys but I would really like a mix but whatever God gives us that we will love no matter what.
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No kiddies together (yet)
Plan on having 4 (yes we agree on the number)
I would like to have a boy first, after that they can pop out any which way they want (as long as i get 1 girlie )
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Posted by CloudNine
FH and i do not have children together but FH does have 2 boys from a previous relationship (3 & 5) we want more kids...1 or 2 but thats it. i dont have a preference to gender. FH insists he only produces boys...we'll see what happens
i would love to have a baby girl... but there's something about my insides that dont allow it. i am only allowed to procreate strapping young boys!!!
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we don't have children together. eventually we'd like at least 2.... (FH wants no more than 2 but i kinda want 3)... FH wants only boys but i want at least 1 girl!
little j
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no children yet.
we talked about having 2 or 3.
i would love to have twins (1 boy and 1 girl), but that is highly unlikely.
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no kids yet, probably not for at least 5 years, we want to travel and fix up our home and just get financially secure.
we definitely will have 2, at most 4.....FH has to have a boy, he has 5 nephews so he thinks his family will only ever have boys....but I would really like at least one girl!
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no kids yet but want to have atleast one a year after we are married. i want to have 2. if we have both at the same time that would be wonderful. i would like a boy & a girl. FH says we will keep having kids until we have a boy.
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FH insists he only produces boys...we'll see what happens
My FH says the same thing! We don't have any children yet, and will probably plan on 2 or 3. I would love a mix of boys and girls, but FH says that he's not having girls......as if he can stop that. He says if he has girls, he's going to put them back until they're done developing
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Posted by Chelechel1
I want 2 and it doesn't matter if they are boys or girls. Def more than 1 child cuz I grew up an only child and it wasn't the best.
I am an only child as well and I couldnt agree more. FH and I both want 2, and would like them to be a boy and a girl - but as long as they are healthy and happy - thats the important thing!
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fh and i don't have any kids yet. we will start a family. hoping to have a noneymoon baby. i wanted 4 kids, but being arouond my 2 neices and my nephew makes me not want any(they r sooooo bad.) so maybe i will be lucky to have 2. it don't matter the sex. fh wants 5 but i don't want 5 kids.
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do not have kids yet, we plan on having two. No preference on sex.
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Posted by CloudNine
FH and i do not have children together but FH does have 2 boys from a previous relationship (3 & 5) we want more kids...1 or 2 but thats it. i dont have a preference to gender. FH insists he only produces boys...we'll see what happens
i would love to have a baby girl... but there's something about my insides that dont allow it. i am only allowed to procreate strapping young boys!!!
RIIIIIGGGGGHHHHTTTTTT!!!!!
No children yet, but we want two. FH actually would love to have a girl!!
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Posted by Chelechel1
I want 2 and it doesn't matter if they are boys or girls. Def more than 1 child cuz I grew up an only child and it wasn't the best.
I am an only child as well and I couldnt agree more. FH and I both want 2, and would like them to be a boy and a girl - but as long as they are healthy and happy - thats the important thing!
I agree too!
I think i'd like to have 2 or 3. Pref a boy first also but my mom really wants me to have a girl first lol.
We'll see.....
Oh, no kids yet, and plan on being married for 2 years still we start trying
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we don't have any children, we don't really plan on having any either, but if it happens, then it happens
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we don't have children at the moment but i would like to have 2 in the future FH wants 3 but i want 2 so i think someone will have to compromise there!
CloudNine
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FH insists he only produces boys...we'll see what happens
My FH says the same thing! We don't have any children yet, and will probably plan on 2 or 3. I would love a mix of boys and girls, but FH says that he's not having girls......as if he can stop that. He says if he has girls, he's going to put them back until they're done developing