Good morning! We just got our invitations so I'm in a very good mood haha I hope everyone's day is going well so far also :)
So my question for the day...Obviously, you have plenty of things in common with your FH seeing that you are marrying him lol but what is something that is just soooo different that you will just never understand it??
My FH is such a tv head and it literally blows my mind. I watch tv when there's nothing else to do, or at night just to relax. He can actually spend an entire day watching movie after movie and it drives me CRAZY haha gotta love him though, right?!
futuremap
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My FH tends to be super optimistic- when there is a problem or issue he always tends to see the good in people, the positive outcome that COULD be how it will always work out. I tend to be more of a pessimist... I always think the worst, and I have trouble trusting that all will be ok.
Although this is something that we differ on, this doesn't really make me crazy. I think it helps us balance each other out. When I'm being a crazy negative nancy, he helps me see the bright side of things and when he is being overly positive I remind him that not EVERYONE is good and that it is in fact, OK, to stand up for yourself!
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Posted by futuremap
My FH tends to be super optimistic- when there is a problem or issue he always tends to see the good in people, the positive outcome that COULD be how it will always work out. I tend to be more of a pessimist... I always think the worst, and I have trouble trusting that all will be ok.
Although this is something that we differ on, this doesn't really make me crazy. I think it helps us balance each other out. When I'm being a crazy negative nancy, he helps me see the bright side of things and when he is being overly positive I remind him that not EVERYONE is good and that it is in fact, OK, to stand up for yourself!
Aww I love that!
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I can think of plenty of things that drive me crazy but nothing in particular that I just can't understand., It's more like why does he squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, leave glasses half full on the counter instead of putting them in the sink, etc.
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Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango
I can think of plenty of things that drive me crazy but nothing in particular that I just can't understand., It's more like why does he squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, leave glasses half full on the counter instead of putting them in the sink, etc.
This!
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Oh god - I made him go to the MD for his asthma, sleep apnea and chronic GERD. He took the prescribed medications for 1 month, noticed how much they helped him. Suddenly, he STOPPED taking them or forgets. I don't get it! I take medications that help conditions of mine and I feel so guilty if I miss a day. I don't get how someone can forget to take something that helps them immensely!
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Hmm....this is a good question. I really can't think of anything other than his tendency of buying DVDs and not opening them. He's still sitting on some unopened movies from yearsss ago! In later years. he's gotten better at this though.
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Our main personality differences (which is a positive, generally speaking) is that 1) I am usually VERY outspoken, loud, talkative, opinionated (total sagittarius) and FH is the textbook definition of the strong, silent male. Its like pulling teeth sometimes, honestly, but if we both had my personality that would likely be worse. 2) If I like something a lot and its fits all criteria that I had (whether it be an apt, a wedding vendor/venue, etc) I have no problems saying 'its a go' or 'I'll take it' right then. FH is the KING of 'yea, its exactly what I/we wanted, but lets keep looking because there may be something even better.'
The odd ideosyncracy that I just don't understand? Why FH hates trying things on so much. He will purchase 10 shirts at once, knowing full well he only wants 2-3. Tries them on in the comfort of our apt and then returns the ones he doesn't want. I find it so odd. So odd.
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Posted by RoandJoe
Oh god - I made him go to the MD for his asthma, sleep apnea and chronic GERD. He took the prescribed medications for 1 month, noticed how much they helped him. Suddenly, he STOPPED taking them or forgets. I don't get it! I take medications that help conditions of mine and I feel so guilty if I miss a day. I don't get how someone can forget to take something that helps them immensely!
Omg!! That's like my FH. He had a severe pain in his leg, we went to the doctor and he said he actually doesn't have good blood flow in one part of his leg so to wear these circulation socks while he's at work standing all day. He did for like two weeks and was like omg I feel so much better! Then he stopped wearing them. And he stopped taking medication for acid reflux that ended us up in th ER!!
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Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango
I can think of plenty of things that drive me crazy but nothing in particular that I just can't understand., It's more like why does he squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, leave glasses half full on the counter instead of putting them in the sink, etc.
100% this!!
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I can think of plenty of things that drive me crazy but nothing in particular that I just can't understand., It's more like why does he squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, leave glasses half full on the counter instead of putting them in the sink, etc.
I would say the only thing that makes me a little crazy with FH is his overwhelming need to fix things. Be it when our dishwasher broke and he insisted on fixing it himself (until it broke again and he decided to get a new one... but HAD to install it himself lol) or if i come home upset and ranting about something and he comes up with 20 different solutions. I have to remind him frequently that i dont always want him to fix my problem, just listen to me complain about it for a little while
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I would say the only thing that makes me a little crazy with FH is his overwhelming need to fix things. Be it when our dishwasher broke and he insisted on fixing it himself (until it broke again and he decided to get a new one... but HAD to install it himself lol) or if i come home upset and ranting about something and he comes up with 20 different solutions. I have to remind him frequently that i dont always want him to fix my problem, just listen to me complain about it for a little while
I would say the only thing that makes me a little crazy with FH is his overwhelming need to fix things. Be it when our dishwasher broke and he insisted on fixing it himself (until it broke again and he decided to get a new one... but HAD to install it himself lol) or if i come home upset and ranting about something and he comes up with 20 different solutions. I have to remind him frequently that i dont always want him to fix my problem, just listen to me complain about it for a little while
OMG I can so relate to this!
Men have some kind of weird 'fix it' chromosome lol
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I'm the TV junkie in my relationship. I'm sure it drives my FH nuts. But football has ruled my life for the last 5 months so I think it's only fair lol. We can't do anything on Sundays because that's football day, oy vey!
Star625
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My FW is just super nice to everyone - even when they have screwed her over. She gives people the benefit of the doubt. I can't wrap my head around that. Once I can't trust someone they are dead to me. I'm all about loyalty. I just figure I'll at least be around when the scum back does something douchy again to either rip in to them or comfort my girl when they show their true colors...again.
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Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango
I can think of plenty of things that drive me crazy but nothing in particular that I just can't understand., It's more like why does he squeeze the toothpaste from the middle, leave glasses half full on the counter instead of putting them in the sink, etc.
