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*QOTD 2/12*
Soon2BeMrsMango
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 07:58 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 07:58 AM
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We all know how great our FHs are (otherwise we wouldn't be marrying them
) but.....What is one thing your FH does that annoys you/drives you crazy?
And if anyone says nothing, I know your lying!!
Well I am sure I could name a few
but one thing that annoys me is that sometimes he will ask me a question then ten minutes later ask me again. And I know it's because he didn't listen to the answer. So I refuse to answer and I make him sit there and try to think of what I said
It drive me nuts. All I say is 'SERIOUSLY?!' And he goes, 'oh you already told me didn't you?'
Thank god he's cute Oh and he never uses the tooth paste from the bottom, like he squeezes it from the middle and it gets all crink-a-ly. Like why can you squeeze it from the bottom and neatly move the tooth paste up?! Lol
chinadoll11550
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 08:15 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 08:15 AM
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My FH does do things that annoy me but I honestly am having a hard time thinking of what it is.Guess it really is small things that I will have to learn to let go.
MissToMrs
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 08:16 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 08:16 AM
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There are definitely a few things about FH that make me want to slam my head into a wall!!!!For one he snores- badly!!! He is a horrible sleeper, up all night- but in a weird way, he will be up
One minute, wake me up and by the time I finish answering him he's back fast asleep while I'm up all night!!! I told him he better fix his sleeping issues before we live together or he's sleeping on the couch!!!!
and he needs to go for a sleep study!! I cannot stand the snoring!!!!Fh also needs to stop smoking! He has until 12/6/14 at 3pm to quit lol or else I won't walk down that isle!
Lastly, when I ask him a question his usual response is idk well see!!! He has such commitment issues I'm surprised we are getting married!!! Well I guess after all it did take him 9 years to decide to propose!!!!!! Hahhaha
I also think fh is slightly cheap!! (Shhhhhh this upsets him)!!! However I know his money saving skills will keep us debt free!!!

While all these things drive me absolutely insane, fh is so good to me and I know there is not another man on this planet that could be more perfect for me!!
Alyssa M
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 08:19 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 08:19 AM
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OK I have a really weird one...My FH hums A LOT! And really really loud. He doesn't even notice he's doing it! And it's not even like he's humming a song he's just making really loud humming sounds
it's SO annoying. I constantly have to yell at him to stop humming and joke about getting him a shock collar LOL
RoandJoe
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 09:07 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 09:07 AM
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He gets like...REALLY annoyed when he asks me what I want to eat and I say 'I don't know, what do you want?' And it annoys me how mad he gets.Lately, he's been like really crazy with the wedding, he made a spread sheet to see individually what his parents, my mom, my dad, myself and him have each put towards our wedding. It's okay to keep a running tab, but he's always like..'your mom is in the lead.' Not necessary to me. Also, he called all of his friends who did not yet RSVP to our engagement party to see if they were coming. The RSVP date isn't until this Saturday. To me that's rude and kind of embarassing.
Soon2BeMrsPy
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 09:16 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 09:16 AM
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Hmmm... FH will crack his ankle and the sound of it makes me want to vomit. It immediately makes me super angry haha. It is SO weird I know because its just a crack but something about it just gives me chills. My biggest peeve is how he just falls asleep anywhere, anytime. I just look at him and go 'REALLY?!' I get he works hard and is up early but I swear he has narcolepsy. hahaha
ladygoodman
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 09:36 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 09:36 AM
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Leaving plates and cups everywhere. At his house there arec plates in the basement 2 weeks after he eats what's on them. When he leaves my house there is stuff all over my room.I told him when we move in to our house that's going to stop. Don't wanna wash them? Fine you don't have to but they better be put into the sink or we're going to have a problem.
NIKOLE
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 10:15 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 10:15 AM
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BAHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHJust ONE!? FH is wonderful but man does he drive me INSANE sometimes!!! He's so messy, like SO messy, like plates all over the house, socks under the couch, pants wherever he feels like dropping them and toothpaste streaks on the top of the mirror messy! He doesn't listen, I have to tell him things 2billion times! And he constantly needs to have the tv AND radio on...Drives me insane!! But I've trained him well over the years and it's getting better and he does pitch in with the cleaning so it's all good!
MrsMango!! http://www.dollartree.com/EZ-Squeeze-Toothpaste-Tube-Squeezers/p296494/index.pro
No joke, saved us!!
Soon2BeMrsMango
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 10:32 AM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 10:32 AM
Re: *QOTD 2/12*
Posted by NIKOLE
BAHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAH
Just ONE!? FH is wonderful but man does he drive me INSANE sometimes!!! He's so messy, like SO messy, like plates all over the house, socks under the couch, pants wherever he feels like dropping them and toothpaste streaks on the top of the mirror messy! He doesn't listen, I have to tell him things 2billion times! And he constantly needs to have the tv AND radio on...Drives me insane!! But I've trained him well over the years and it's getting better and he does pitch in with the cleaning so it's all good!
MrsMango!! http://www.dollartree.com/EZ-Squeeze-Toothpaste-Tube-Squeezers/p296494/index.pro
No joke, saved us!!
Haha I may have to go check that out. It dives me nuts!!
katielynn
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 12:00 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 12:00 PM
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FH taps his feet. LOUDLY. I know its weird.. but the dude has HUGE feet. Size 15-16 shoe. He's also flatfooted so its a loud tap. He used to play drums so I think thats why he does it a lot.He also leaves his socks EVERYWHERE. And no matter WHAT... even though I put a towel down... the bathroom floor always ends up with PUDDLES after he gets out of the shower. Without fail. Its like a freakin' slip and slide.
Theres also more things but they're so little that I only realize they annoy me when he's doing it LOL
I love him.. but he drives me nuts. But I'm sure there are things I do that drives him crazy. He just won't ever tell me what that is.
sgf2
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 12:01 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 12:01 PM
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Omg I was just talking about this last night!! FH snores, and it sounds like a symphony of bulldozers with a pinch of nails on a chalkboard and forks scratching plates!! LolI love the man, so I deal with it, but sometimes while he's sleeping, I put a breathe right strip on his nose and force him to roll over. He wakes up confused, which is funny!!
Luckily we have a king size bed so he doesn't sleep next to my ear!!! When I used to sleep over his moms house, we were squished in a twin size bed!! Oh, the horror! Lol
bridejackson22
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:04 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:04 PM
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I love this question.FH procrastinates majorly. He gets very deffensive when I just tell him we have a task that he already know we or he has to do but has not done it and running out of time to do it. Like he was supposed to do a consolidqation loan so he can contribute more to the savings and wedding fund. That was over a year ago. Still not done.... Drives me up a freakin wall I love him to death but omg just do it. Take the 30 mins out of your life go to the bank and get it done. I even gave him all the information to do it. I gave him a cut off date after that I told him I am canceling the wedding and he has to Pay me all the money we have both investited in. That lit a fire under his *** lol. He went to go do it this Friday but the blizzard messed up sooo much stuff for us. So he is trying again this Friday. No more snow please. The same thing happened with a deposit for a vendor. I kept telling him for weeks we have such and such due. He was like ok. The week its due I'm like put the money in our joint account if its not already there so I can write the check. He's like well I am waiting for my monthly miles check from work for that. Okay but you knew this was due really? Drives me nutz it's a good thing I love him. And that after this year I am taking over his finances as well so we will have none of this lol.
bridejackson22
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:04 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:04 PM
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I love this question.FH procrastinates majorly. He gets very deffensive when I just tell him we have a task that he already know we or he has to do but has not done it and running out of time to do it. Like he was supposed to do a consolidqation loan so he can contribute more to the savings and wedding fund. That was over a year ago. Still not done.... Drives me up a freakin wall I love him to death but omg just do it. Take the 30 mins out of your life go to the bank and get it done. I even gave him all the information to do it. I gave him a cut off date after that I told him I am canceling the wedding and he has to Pay me all the money we have both investited in. That lit a fire under his *** lol. He went to go do it this Friday but the blizzard messed up sooo much stuff for us. So he is trying again this Friday. No more snow please. The same thing happened with a deposit for a vendor. I kept telling him for weeks we have such and such due. He was like ok. The week its due I'm like put the money in our joint account if its not already there so I can write the check. He's like well I am waiting for my monthly miles check from work for that. Okay but you knew this was due really? Drives me nutz it's a good thing I love him. And that after this year I am taking over his finances as well so we will have none of this lol.
MissToMrs
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:08 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:08 PM
Re: *QOTD 2/12*
Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy
Hmmm... FH will crack his ankle and the sound of it makes me want to vomit. It immediately makes me super angry haha. It is SO weird I know because its just a crack but something about it just gives me chills. My biggest peeve is how he just falls asleep anywhere, anytime. I just look at him and go 'REALLY?!' I get he works hard and is up early but I swear he has narcolepsy. hahaha
hahahah OMG....the sleeping this is EXACTLY my FH too!!! i'm convinced he is narcoleptic!!!! the only time he's not falling asleep randomly is when he is eating!!!! ahahahah
Stine Bean
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:18 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:18 PM
Re: *QOTD 2/12*
Posted by Soon2BeMrsMango
Oh and he never uses the tooth paste from the bottom, like he squeezes it from the middle and it gets all crink-a-ly. Like why can you squeeze it from the bottom and neatly move the tooth paste up?! Lol
omg this!!! lol
and he's a leg jiggler.
also, whenever I ask him about something weeks in advance, he gives me an answer like 'we'll see.' but, when it's something HE wants to do (golf trip, Atlantic City, etc.- he has all of the answers in advance lol)
I often say this to FH: (I think it's from 'Scrubs')
'I love you. You annoy me more than I ever thought possible, but… I want to spend every irritating minute with you.'
jdellorso
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:29 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:29 PM
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OMG My FH does that too! It's to the point where I keep him out and plan activities just so I can see him awake when he comes home from work because the second he sits down I know he'll be asleep hahaIt's partially my fault tho- I work nights so my body is awake at night and I sleep all day even if I'm off so that doesn't help lol
ASemderWedding
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:40 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 01:40 PM
Re: *QOTD 2/12*
I love this question!!Although I have a few, my biggest annoyance with FH is that I will ask him a question and he will always answer it with 'maybe', even if he knows the answer!! The question can be soo simple like 'do you wanna rent a movie tonight' and he'll answer with 'maybe'. It drives me and he knows it :)
Soon2BeMrsPy
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 02:06 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 02:06 PM
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Ohh the joys of MEN! Haha
jenandivan
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 02:09 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 02:09 PM
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I hate when he's doing something around the house, ie making breakfast for his kids, painting, any chore, and he acts like it's a beat-the-clock, matter of life and death kind of thing. He's rushing around the house, very grumpy. Dude! Relax! But heaven forbid I'm studying or something and need peace and quiet to concentrate. Then it's no big deal to him to make noise. Um... $25k/yr tuition? Yeah, it's a big deal.
MrsDtoBe
Posted: Feb 12, 2013 05:05 PM+

Posted: Feb 12, 2013 05:05 PM
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The thing that bugs me the most is that he smokes! I can't even imagine how hard it is for him to quit, but he smokes in his house and it drives me insane! I've made it VERY clear that when we get a place there is no way that's happening. He said he is going to quit by that time, so we'll see.I'm sure that there are a few little things that I can't think of right now.
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