So my question for today is how involved is your FH in planning the wedding? Does he have lots of thoughts and ideas on how it should be or is he content to sit back and let you make all the decisions?
My FH is a pretty laid back guy, his answer to most things is 'Whatever you want, I know you will make good decisions'.
lizzyro
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My FH is pretty much the same way. The only thing he is vocal about is the food
haw4
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My FH is the same way. Every idea I have he's like 'book it.' There are little things he's very particular about which I find funny because he's so not traditional, but with certain wedding things he needs it to be traditional.
Karoline
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My FH is the same way. He says as long as I'm happy that's what matters. He does want to be part of the DJ music selection though lol.
MrsDtoBe
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FH is very involved. He's really laid back in terms of things that I've said I wanted but he also wants to be a part of everything. I did the photography on my own because he knew I already knew who I wanted so he said I could pick but we've done everything else together. Even the one aspect where I thought he'd want to go with his boys, the tuxes, he said he wanted to go with me so that I could be sure he didn't pick something I'd hate the day of the wedding
cets1290
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my FH isn't really involved, but will be if I ask him to be lol... He isn't doing the flower stuff with us, but the DJ and photographer and videographer he was pretty involved with. He doesn't really care about any of the decisions being made, but will definitely give me his opinion if I need help making a decision :) I love it this way, makes my life easier!
Vilardi82
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My FH isn't really involved at all lol he thinks I have been planning it in my head for years so I should just go for it. Sometimes I wish he would be a little more involved but I'm sure if he started throwing around too many opinions I would get annoyed.
YES he asked me
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My FH is only involved with the tuxes, limos and ensuring that he creates people to invite. Not my fault he doesn't like a lot of people........LOL!
annem13
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He's actually involved just as equally with everything which I am very grateful with because I'm very indecisive. He is the type of person that is opinionated and likes to be involved. Ultimately I have the last say because he wants me happy of course lol
ajunebride14
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Posted by annem13
He's actually involved just as equally with everything which I am very grateful with because I'm very indecisive. He is the type of person that is opinionated and likes to be involved. Ultimately I have the last say because he wants me happy of course lol
This is spot on!! It was frustrating in the beginning but now I am thankful and this process has brought us much closer!
ASemderWedding
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Posted by annem13
He's actually involved just as equally with everything which I am very grateful with because I'm very indecisive. He is the type of person that is opinionated and likes to be involved. Ultimately I have the last say because he wants me happy of course lol
Same here
coffeeisgreen
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He's very involved. I mean he's a guy so some things he just doesn't care about like what types of flowers to be used but on the flipside, he'll have an opinion on the color of it. It's fun having him involved in everything.
coffeeisgreen
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Posted by annem13
He's actually involved just as equally with everything which I am very grateful with because I'm very indecisive. He is the type of person that is opinionated and likes to be involved. Ultimately I have the last say because he wants me happy of course lol
This could have been my answer too!
Star625
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FW let me know which vendors she approved of and then I pretty much have taken it from there. All the little details she couldn't really care less.
