If you could change one thing about your FH (or FW) what would it be and why...
Edited because I always forget to put in my answer..lol...
I would want to change FH's attutide towards housework. I do almost all of it and work full time, and go to school, and intern. He has a busy schedule too, but he does a little a humanly possbile around the house. I've tried to lay out what is his responsibility, but I'd like him to do more sometimes just for me
christine2010
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honestly i wouldn't change anything about my FH. everything that he is, is what makes me love him so much.
I agree with you jill, I even wrote out a list of each of our chores. He still can't do it. Everytime I do one of his chores I write it down so I can show him he's not doing anything...
rocketsummer17
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I think the housework stuff is just a guy thing...When we were in the apartment he HATED doing anything related to housework...The only time he would do it was when it got SO bad (bc i protested and stopped doing stuff) and he got sick of looking at it all!!
I wouldn't change much but i would change the way he handles stress...(but he would say the same thing about me too)
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Posted by StaceYums81
I agree with you jill, I even wrote out a list of each of our chores. He still can't do it. Everytime I do one of his chores I write it down so I can show him he's not doing anything...
lol, I tired that too and Joe said I was acting like his mother... except he did even less at home since hes the baby and a guy
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i would change her love for cats. i hate hair. human hair, cat hair, dog hair...etc. and with 2 cats... there is hair EVERYWHERE. the other day i came to work, and my jacket was covered in cat hair. people were making fun of me.
there is cat hair on the keyboards of the computer, there is cat hair in the bathroom, there is cat hair on my desk... there is cat hair EVERYWHERE. it drives me insane and skeeves me the eff out!!!!
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FH tends to get hotheaded over little things and it drives me crazy....but he's working on it and has gotten so much better, he is one of those people that stress over everything
lori7570
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He acts on 'principle' too much...
JillandJoe
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Posted by marrymybestfriend
i would change her love for cats. i hate hair. human hair, cat hair, dog hair...etc. and with 2 cats... there is hair EVERYWHERE. the other day i came to work, and my jacket was covered in cat hair. people were making fun of me.
there is cat hair on the keyboards of the computer, there is cat hair in the bathroom, there is cat hair on my desk... there is cat hair EVERYWHERE. it drives me insane and skeeves me the eff out!!!!
I hate cats and FH l loves them, he wants to me allergy shots so we can have one, one day. I am definitly not doing that.
T E R I
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he is too impatient, he can't wait for anything, i have more patience to make up for his lack of
Jenna_and_John
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To be a little more social :)
MrsC2010
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to not be so lazy!
soontobecruz
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FH is a bit of a procrastinator and I am a 'do it now and get it done' kinda person so I guess that.
Lsorrent
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To get FH to DANCE!
I've was a dancer all my life, so dancing (both on stage and socially) is a big part of my life. On our first date, FH mentioned something about how he doesn't dance. Apparently (and this I don't remember), he says that I looked him straight in the eye that night and said:
'I hope you dance, because I don't date anyone who doesn't dance.....'
Again, I don't remember this Anyhow, I've always pictured myself up dancing all night at my wedding with my FH. But that won't be happening, b/c he hates dancing. I'll get a few out of him, but not as many as I'd like. We're already arguing about me trying to get him to take lessons with me for the wedding.
grrulz
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nothing thats' why i love him soo much because he is perfect for me
JenBill61210
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maybe that he is always late.. and he has a temper. but thats it!
Kimmypie143
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I would make him POSITIVE!!!!! Everything that comes out of that boys mouth is Negative and Im so sick of it!
ex. last night comming home from dinner i pulled in the drive way and he said why didn't you park next to me? I was like bc i always park here whats the big deal. and he said your brother's going to come home drunk (??) and he's going to hit my car bc its a tight spot. (in which i could have fit a MACK truck in the spot) he's nuts. He was like well when he hits my car (again lol) your paying for it. I laughed and went inside. Ugh it drives me insane
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I'd make him more willing to live in different places. He loves to travel like me. But, I'm more into experiencing the cultures of different places by actually living there.
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Posted by soontobecruz
FH is a bit of a procrastinator and I am a 'do it now and get it done' kinda person so I guess that.
PROCRASTINATION is his #1 issue.....
i cant ever just get an answer from him about something, or for instance, he needed a shirt for our e-pics yesterday, for 2 weeks id been trying to go with him....he got it yesterday on the way to my house before we left for the pics!!!!!
Future Mrs H
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The only thing I would change is his refusale to try any new foods. It drive me crazy that he only east certain things and thats it
