QOTD 2/15... my last one as BOTW

JillandJoe Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:19 PM

QOTD 2/15... my last one as BOTW

Sorry it took so long to post today, I had a babyshower...its been a busy weekend.

Hope everyone had a good valentines day! Thanks for making me BOTW. I had a great time!!

Question is:

Have you and FH/FW discussed having kids? If so how many do you want?

Joe and really want children. We want to wait about a year and make sure we have a house first. We are both not willing to wait more then two years. We would love to have a girl and then a boy, but we have no choice in that matter. We want no more then three.

AdriandSteve Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:20 PM

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We've discussed it. I'm actually not the type of girl who dreams of having kids. I have no problem having them but i dont think i have a problem not having them either (at least at this point).

Fh def wants kids but i'm ok with that. I figured i'll have 2 naturally but i DEF want to adopt 1.

T E R I Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:22 PM

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We've talked about it. And we both say no kids, were not the type of people that are like we have to have kids. But if were to happen, then it happens.

kimmaymb20 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:24 PM

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we want kids cant decide on a reasonable number but i want at least 2 and Dave and I were just talking about this. I told him flat out I am going to be almost 30 when we get married and i can not wait forever to have kids.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:25 PM

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i want one, two at the most...He wants at least three...

grrulz Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:26 PM

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Fh is dying to have kids i want to have 2 he wants 3! as far as i am concern I am the one thats going thru the pain not him so i think we will only have 2 god willing of course

JenBill61210 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:43 PM

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yes, he only wants 2, both boys. i want at least 1 girl, would be open to 2-3

Kiki1103 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:45 PM

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I want to wait to have kids until I am 30. I want at most 2 and so does FH

Lsorrent Posted: Feb 15, 2009 04:45 PM

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We'd like to have 2-3. FH says we're only having boys.....we'll see how well his plan turns out

CloudNine Posted: Feb 15, 2009 05:03 PM

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we have discussed it. we will probably have 1-2. no more than 2 though since john already has 2 from a previous relationship

MC127 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 05:18 PM

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We have discussed having children. I want two healthy children. FH says it's not up to him, it's up to God.

MayBride2010 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 05:27 PM

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We both want 2 - no more no less.... He wants a boy then a girl - but thats not us to us!

Alexandra17 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 06:04 PM

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I want one maybe 2, I have to see how the first one goes, he wants the same amount..we aren't trying to be like the von trapp family

RitasEngaged Posted: Feb 15, 2009 06:04 PM

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I want one maybe 2 he says no to 2 only one

RedsBride Posted: Feb 15, 2009 08:04 PM

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we want to have kids a few years after the wedding. a boy and a girl of course. probably 2 or 3 kids total.

jayepyt Posted: Feb 15, 2009 08:04 PM

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we have two already

DnT2010 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 08:12 PM

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we both want kids soon! shortly after we get married and we would like to have anywhere from 2-4

we would have 10 kids if we could afford it.

MrsC2010 Posted: Feb 15, 2009 08:20 PM

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yup...we want to wait about 4 years after the wedding so we can enjoy being married and be settled in a house...we want 2 (poss 3)

bkbaby4life Posted: Feb 15, 2009 08:21 PM

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i can wait on kids. lol

FH says if we have a boy first we are only having one.
if we have a girl first then we'll have a second one and hope its a boy.
if we end up with two girls we're gonna stop there.

thats his logic

soontobecruz Posted: Feb 15, 2009 08:22 PM

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We have discussed it and FH would have a soccer team if he could..... I told him when men can start having kids we can have a soccer team...

realisically though we will have 2 probably... of course as long as my children are healthy that is most important but if I had my choice they would both be boys too!