QOTD 2/21

crazeee18 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:09 AM

QOTD 2/21

good morning ladies....todays QOTD is .......Would you prefer to have fh participate more in the wedding planning or do u think it would be easier to just make all of the decisions on your own this way it alleviated any extra stress w/arguments?

I personally would love to be able to make ALL decisions on our wedding....me and fh 's tastes r sooooo different ...when we were choosing our rh it caused sooo many needless fights ...if it were up to me i would bring fh in on the little decisions that need to get made like favors or something small ....i guess im alittle selfish when it comes to our wedding

ddnsp618 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:12 AM

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im happy with the amount he participates...he would get too annoying if he participated more.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:14 AM

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fh is very laid back and really lets me do what i want...i would like for him to be more involved, but its better that he isn't cause it would cause a lot of fights

he's only requested one thing...that i get my dress custom made so ' no one else will be able to wear your dress.'

Mrs B to Be Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:17 AM

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luckily FH and I have talked about our wedding for years, so lots of details have been hashed out in the past, our taste is pretty similar for the most part.....little things like traditions is where we seem to differ, like i dont want the bridal party announced into the room, for him its a must....but i think we compromised that they would just be announced as 'the bridal party' instead of individual couples.

flairforfashion Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:28 AM

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FH has been wonderful. His level of participation is perfect. And, he is laid back and goes along with whatever.

pumpkin744 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:30 AM

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I think it is good when FH participates. I think the wedding is about both of us, not just me so WE should do the planning.

InezandBrody Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:34 AM

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I have to say that I am very happy that FH is laid back and particpating in certain things, but leaving a bulk of the planning to me. We do have the same taste and have talked about our wedding a million times, so everything is really what we both want, I'm just in charge of booking and finding good vendors. He unfortunately is the type to wait till the last minute to get things done, and if I left thigns to him then we wouldn't have the dj, photographer and probably the hall booked till the weekend before!! His only 2 thigns were cost and an ice sculpture!! haha Cost I understand since we're paying for it and I made sure in the first meeting with the RH to get an ice sculpture thrown in!!

longislandlibrarian Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:36 AM

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I absolutely looove when FH participates.. and he has been pretty great about heping the whole way through so far... he's helping with e party stuff... he's helping with everything and I love it

PoppedInASnap Posted: Feb 21, 2008 09:54 AM

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i call fh 'vinnie the bride to be'
he is so involved in the whole process and i love it...

as different as our tastes are, he and i still come together to design something awesome...

pumpkin744 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 10:01 AM

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Posted by MrsFazz2B

i call fh 'vinnie the bride to be'
he is so involved in the whole process and i love it...

as different as our tastes are, he and i still come together to design something awesome...

Awww that's great!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 10:03 AM

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FH is laid back and when he does have an idea, it's usually a great one! I'm happy with how the planning is going now!

JKFris09 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 10:03 AM

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We've made every decision together and it's been great, we have very similar tastes and we really have similar visions of what we want our wedding to be like in mind. He's been really great and really involved, I wouldn't want it any other way.

Ivyqueenz Posted: Feb 21, 2008 10:04 AM

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FH is some what involved. I like involving him until he start telling me that I am spending too much money and he 'puts his foot down' and tells me what we should do... but I usually get my way... lol. He usually can't say no to me.

fiore76 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 10:04 AM

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I want him to be a part of all the decisions.

little34 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 11:16 AM

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FH pretty much is involved but not too involved....he is just the right amount of involved...

MRSin2009 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 11:21 AM

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Sometimes I wish he was more involved. So far I have booked everything without him. He says he trusts my taste and knows I will get a good deal. He is so busy with work and works weekends when I have my appointments.

The only thing he went with me to book was the RH.

aliska21 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 11:22 AM

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fh involved...but i make most of the decisions, he helps me as much as he can.... i love that sometimes when im mad at him or im just upset in general about smth, he tries to suck up to me..and says: You want to plan? i can help you plan... ..hahha

kimiequa Posted: Feb 21, 2008 11:23 AM

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Posted by crazeee18

good morning ladies....todays QOTD is .......Would you prefer to have fh participate more in the wedding planning or do u think it would be easier to just make all of the decisions on your own this way it alleviated any extra stress w/arguments?

I personally would love to be able to make ALL decisions on our wedding....me and fh 's tastes r sooooo different ...when we were choosing our rh it caused sooo many needless fights ...if it were up to me i would bring fh in on the little decisions that need to get made like favors or something small ....i guess im alittle selfish when it comes to our wedding

danielle.... i'm totally the same way! FH is sooo laid back, and when he had such a strong opinion about the RH.... i was shocked! thankfully we compromised (i got my way ) and now he's really cute with the smaller things.

WinterGrl09 Posted: Feb 21, 2008 11:24 AM

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I love it when FH is involved. I do the research so that we see vendors that i like and we both do the appointment together. Then we make the decision together. I of course make most of the decisions. But i like FH's input in everything.