Happy sunday ladies..i hope that everyone had a great weekend.....todays question is ........If you were close to a family member such as a cousin , uncle,aunt,etc and one of your parents werent friendly with this person would u still have them at ur wedding because of ur close relationship despite ur parents ??????
i have a family feud in my family which has been going on for years....im not really close with them but my father is and my mother is not(my parents r married) but for my father i will be having this relative at my wedding.....
It really depends on the situation. If my parents were truly uncomfortable with having them their I would have to discuss the situation with my relative but at the end of the day, my parents are my parents and this is an important day for them as well. I guess I would not invite the relative.
I think I would still have them, and give warning to both of them that they are not to start anything at the wedding, their both supposed to be there to support FH and I and its not a place for them to fight. I should hope (i guess depending on the situation) that they can both respect that. Besides there will be so many other people there to talk to there would be no need for them to interact!
it depends, but my parents would never put me in a situation like this at my wedding. if i was close to someone and they meant a lot to me, my parents would suck it up for the day and let them attend since it is my day, not theirs.
as of right now that is one of the main reasons why fh and i love the idea of a destination wedding. We have family that is complete trash and we know will start drama at the wedding. If we end up having a home based wedding, i would have to invite them but, i doubt that they will come.
I think I would. For me, it goes back to it being my day and not my parents. Luckily, no problems there!
It would really depend on the situiation but I am pretty sure that if they did something to my parents that would cause my parents to NOT WANT THEM AROUND... I would probably be in agreeance! (but then again that's my family.. every fam is different)
Well, FFIL doesn't speak to his mother or his brother or SIL but when I asked for FIL's list of people to invite, he included them. I guess he sees the wedding as his way to clear the air and start over... I don't know for sure.
that's a tough question. My parents love everyone so I can't imagine the situation. I on the other hand have people in my family that I don't really like but they will get an invite cuase they are family and my parents would want them there.... dunno if that helps you any
My older sister hates my grandparents due to a feud from a while ago. I can't have them at anything else but she knows i have to have them at the wedding. She is my maid of honor, so i respect her wishes to a point.
if i thought it was important to have the person there, than other people's personal problems would have no impact on the guest list. however, i don't think i'd make waves if i wasn't close to the person.
I'd invite whoever despite what my parents think. Afterall, it is MY wedding.
I would invite them too
that depends....my folks are a big part of the wedding so they'd have to feel as comfortable as possible. if they'd be willing to bend i'd have the person at the wedding. if there was no way around them feeling completely uncomfortable about the person being there, then i guess i'd have to pass on inviting him or her.
tough one.... the fact that my parents are paying for the wedding might tip me one way, but hopefully they wouldn't play that card, and luckily we don't have that problem.
