QOTD 2/9/11

Original post by Cataverri

Feb 09, 2011 09:18 AM

Good morning ladies,

Since we are so close to tie the knot my question is:

HOW ARE YOU PLANNING TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE LOVING AND LONG LASTING???
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Personally the word 'marriage' scares the crap out of me. Because as a women I feel I need to maintain my marriage intresting. I been living with FH for 2 years already which it feels like we been married for that long. I def. want to keep our sex life very intresting, spicy and different. Also, have an open communication, be a team, be friends, be a loving wife, take great care of him etc.

(I can keep going on and on) but I want to know what you ladies are planning!!!!!!!!!!!

Lana and Johan Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:12 PM

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Posted by smilesjc81

this is gonna sound horrible ...but the truth is

I've had the most satisfying sex with the FH because of the love, respect, safety and over all relationship we share.

however i can't say that we've had the most mind '
blowing OMG sex ' i've ever had

My ex- was AMAZING in the sack-
he was kinky and crazy, and brought out a different side of my sexuality

that being said... emotionally I was the loneliest , saddest,and felt the most alone. Even the physically amazing sex didn't do anything to bring our relationship closer.

So I'll take great sex, over mind blowing, cause when i wake up in the morning I know my FH is gonna look me in the eyes and see his whole world

I'm not worried about the sex, cause to me personally, there are more important things than achieving the big O

Well Said...

BTW I don't know about you all...but I am still a virgin....saving myself for marriage....

Cataverri Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:20 PM

Re: QOTD 2/9/11

Posted by Lana and Johan

Posted by smilesjc81

this is gonna sound horrible ...but the truth is

I've had the most satisfying sex with the FH because of the love, respect, safety and over all relationship we share.

however i can't say that we've had the most mind '
blowing OMG sex ' i've ever had

My ex- was AMAZING in the sack-
he was kinky and crazy, and brought out a different side of my sexuality

that being said... emotionally I was the loneliest , saddest,and felt the most alone. Even the physically amazing sex didn't do anything to bring our relationship closer.

So I'll take great sex, over mind blowing, cause when i wake up in the morning I know my FH is gonna look me in the eyes and see his whole world

I'm not worried about the sex, cause to me personally, there are more important things than achieving the big O

Well Said...

BTW I don't know about you all...but I am still a virgin....saving myself for marriage....

Ohhhh yea me too.

smilesjc81 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:50 PM

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MrsKon1111 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 05:16 PM

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Posted by Cataverri

Am I the only one that think sex life is really important??????

i think its very important...i know a whole bunch of people who divorced because of it!

smilesjc81 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 05:17 PM

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MY PASTORS WIFE TOLD ME THE MAIN TWO CAUSES FOR ARGUMENTS

SEX

AND

MONEY

BUT THINK OF ALL THE MAKEUP SEX YOU CAN HAVE!!

MrsKon1111 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 05:17 PM

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This is a hard one....i think for us it is to countinue being our own person as well as a couple

we have separate things we like to do without each other which is good so you dont over see each other, also communication is key, we vowed to have a date night once a night to keep the romance alive and to have sex lol...sex is a key to a happy relationship

MrsKon1111 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 05:19 PM

Re: QOTD 2/9/11

Posted by Lana and Johan

Posted by smilesjc81

Posted by Cataverri

Am I the only one that think sex life is really important??????

sex is important, but I've made it a mission to talk to couples that have been married (happily) for over 30 years and they all say the same thing

sex takes a back seat at some point
but it doesn't mean the love isn't there

I guess im just not worried about it

I will be the first to say....that after kids, sex does take a back seat at times....sadly but true