**QOTD 3/14/14 **

TGIF!!! Today I want to talk about the reason we are getting married... our hubbies!!!

When did you know that your FH was the 'one'? Was there a specific thing that he did that just really made you realize that 'this is the person I want to spend my life with'... did you know right away?

FH and I met when we were 13, starting dating when we were 14/15. I remember writing each other notes (bc that's what everyone did back in the day LOL) and both always said we just knew that each other were 'the one'. I couldn't describe it, I just had this feeling like it always felt right when I was with him. Everyone brushed it off bc we were each others first loves. After high school we broke up and 3 years went by - I got into another serious relationship and he also dated and went into the Army. When he got home from Afghanistan in 2009 we went to lunch to catch up as friends, and it literally felt like those 3 years apart never happened. We immediately got back together and we always said we knew from when we were 15 that we were both meant for each other.

Sometimes I think when you know, you know!!

I'm a sap today lol. Tell me your stories on how you knew FH was the one!!

**QOTD 3/14/14 ** - Long Island Weddings

Your story is almost the exact same as ours, with the exception of the army piece! Please thank your FH for his service! We started dating when I was 15, he was 17. Broke up for a couple years while in college and dated other people. I knew for sure he was the one when I was dating this other guy. The relationship with the other guy just didn't feel right. Great guy, but I knew he just wasn't the one for me. It took a while for FH and I to get back together only because we said if we were getting back together it was going to be for good. So we took our time before jumping back into a relationship together even though we talked often and even went on a vacation before officially getting back together. Funny how things work out.

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I knew he was the one when we first started dating and it was right around Thanksgiving and I called him up flipping out because of some stuff that my father had said. I rambled on about so many personal things that only a few people had known. He was very patient and understanding and just listened to me. I felt like an idiot when I got off the phone bc I thought some stuff I had said would scare him off. Later on that night I had gone to a wake and started talking to a lady that I am close with that has also known my FH since he was born. I told her about my conversation with him and about how stupid I felt (she knew everything I had told him bc I talk to her about my problems) and she reassured me that if any one were to understand how I felt about a lot of those things that it would be him bc he had been through A LOT of the same issues I had.

Later on that night him and I sat down and talked about everything and as he told me everything and I knew right then and there that I couldn't live me life without him.

Jott1015 please thank your FH for his service. My cousin is deployed right now and I know how hard it is.

**QOTD 3/14/14 ** - Long Island Weddings

My story is just like yours! FH and i met and started dating in middle school.. Freshman year of college we broke up to see what else was out there and I fell into another serious relationship which showed me exactly what I didn't want and I felt myself missing FH... I broke up with the new guy after almost. Year and FH actually contacted me... And the rest is history! We knew from the moment we met we'd end up together (him more than me lol) and I can't picture my life with anyone else!

**QOTD 3/14/14 ** - Long Island Weddings

I think we both kind of knew from the beginning. Neither of us was dating or seeing anyone else during the 2 months between the time we met and the time we became an official couple. I just always felt comfortable with him, like we knew each other for years. We had casually talked about marriage and kids early on and it didn't scare either of us to talk about it. Here we are 2 & 1/2 years later and I can't imagine my life without him and look forward to everything that our future holds!

**QOTD 3/14/14 ** - Long Island Weddings

He has been the first guy that I really felt comfortable with. Even my family noticed it right away. He's always been such a gentlemen and would truly give me the world if he could. There was just something that made me say yep he's the one

**QOTD 3/14/14 ** - Long Island Weddings

Ok, in a previous QOTD I told the story about how FH and I met. Long story short, we worked a restaurant together, we didnt like one another, walked into class the first day of fall semester discovered the other one there, became friends for years started dating a few years later.... But there is more to it.

In college FH and I were both in long distant relationships. We became very good friends, spent a lot of time together, would go out on weekends together, etc... I graduated that year and FH had another year to complete. My bf and I at the time broke up, I started dating someone else. FH and I would keep in touch, but not as much as we did when we were at school together. A few years later, we were at a beer festival on the island and ran into one another. I hung out with him that night instead of my BF at the time. Well, BF and I broke up that night (made sense). FH and I started dating a few months later. We dated for 2 years, we were very much in love, but we were both struggling with other things in our life. We broke up, or I should say FH broke up with me. I was devastated, worst feeling ever. I told him I never wanted to speak to him again when he pleaded with me that we had to stay in touch. He broke my heart :(. (btw that was 2 days before Valentine's Day) We didn't speak for 2 years, we both dated here and there, but nothing was like what we had with one another. So 2 years after he broke up with me, I get a message on FB for my birthday from him. We started to catch up and agreed to get a drink or two one night. Well, we met up that night we closed down the restaurant. We talked all night, when we left each other that night, I got into my car and just cried. I knew I was in love with him and will always be in love with him. I missed him very much. He obviously felt the same way because he called me the next day and we have been together ever since. That was three years ago. :)

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Posted by shellabella2

Your story is almost the exact same as ours, with the exception of the army piece! Please thank your FH for his service! We started dating when I was 15, he was 17. Broke up for a couple years while in college and dated other people. I knew for sure he was the one when I was dating this other guy. The relationship with the other guy just didn't feel right. Great guy, but I knew he just wasn't the one for me. It took a while for FH and I to get back together only because we said if we were getting back together it was going to be for good. So we took our time before jumping back into a relationship together even though we talked often and even went on a vacation before officially getting back together. Funny how things work out.

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This awesome! Very similar to us!! Its corny, but I always say, what's meant to be will always happen

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Posted by brnnglgn

I knew he was the one when we first started dating and it was right around Thanksgiving and I called him up flipping out because of some stuff that my father had said. I rambled on about so many personal things that only a few people had known. He was very patient and understanding and just listened to me. I felt like an idiot when I got off the phone bc I thought some stuff I had said would scare him off. Later on that night I had gone to a wake and started talking to a lady that I am close with that has also known my FH since he was born. I told her about my conversation with him and about how stupid I felt (she knew everything I had told him bc I talk to her about my problems) and she reassured me that if any one were to understand how I felt about a lot of those things that it would be him bc he had been through A LOT of the same issues I had.

Later on that night him and I sat down and talked about everything and as he told me everything and I knew right then and there that I couldn't live me life without him.

Jott1015 please thank your FH for his service. My cousin is deployed right now and I know how hard it is.

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I love this! I think that's great, and its true - that person you are going to be with for life should be the one you go to for everything! He was your rock :)

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Posted by DebOst

Ok, in a previous QOTD I told the story about how FH and I met. Long story short, we worked a restaurant together, we didnt like one another, walked into class the first day of fall semester discovered the other one there, became friends for years started dating a few years later.... But there is more to it.

In college FH and I were both in long distant relationships. We became very good friends, spent a lot of time together, would go out on weekends together, etc... I graduated that year and FH had another year to complete. My bf and I at the time broke up, I started dating someone else. FH and I would keep in touch, but not as much as we did when we were at school together. A few years later, we were at a beer festival on the island and ran into one another. I hung out with him that night instead of my BF at the time. Well, BF and I broke up that night (made sense). FH and I started dating a few months later. We dated for 2 years, we were very much in love, but we were both struggling with other things in our life. We broke up, or I should say FH broke up with me. I was devastated, worst feeling ever. I told him I never wanted to speak to him again when he pleaded with me that we had to stay in touch. He broke my heart :(. (btw that was 2 days before Valentine's Day) We didn't speak for 2 years, we both dated here and there, but nothing was like what we had with one another. So 2 years after he broke up with me, I get a message on FB for my birthday from him. We started to catch up and agreed to get a drink or two one night. Well, we met up that night we closed down the restaurant. We talked all night, when we left each other that night, I got into my car and just cried. I knew I was in love with him and will always be in love with him. I missed him very much. He obviously felt the same way because he called me the next day and we have been together ever since. That was three years ago. :)

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Wow what a story! I really think that when you are meant to be with someone, no matter what you always end up finding your back to one another (like you guys did, and like we did).