Have you and your FH decided wheter you want to have Children or not? If So, When? Right After the wedding? Or will you wait a while? Months? Years?
Or will you let 'Fate' decide for you so the baby came come at anytime! and he/she will be welcome?!
My FH and I want to have children after the wedding... {It is extremely important for Us that our Children are born 'inside' of a Sacred Marriage}...Not right after but I would say 1 year after the wedding... BUT if Fate decides to gives us one earlier, then she/he will be Welcome into our world!!!
Forgot to add: We would Like 2.... But if out finances get better, then we would like 3!!!
cMm2011
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we will definately be having kids probably 2-3. And we will most likely start trying right after the honeymoon! I want to have kids right away and so does FH
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hmm we are pretty young and we dong want kids right now, or right after the wedding, i think we want kids eventually but right now when i think about kids i just think about my body changing and i dont like that idea, so well see if that ever goes away? lol
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Children isn't in my future... personal preference... but it if happens... then I will accept it... but I'm not planning on it.
I'm in this camp. I was engaged at 24 and we broke it off because of the kids issue (he wanted it,I didn't). Now fast forward 10 years (I'm 33 now) and FH and I are in agreement on not having kids. We just like being DINKS right now (Double Income No Kids).
honestly I think that is the best thing- those who dont want children shouldn't have them - i know people who begrudging reproduced and were bad parents- no child should feel unwanted- i applaud you guys for knowing what you want and not falling under the pressure of peers and family
Moonmist09
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my FH and I definately wants kids. I'd like 2 but he really wants 3. We'll hve to see about that.
I have PCOS(polycystic ovarian syndrome) so hopefully i won't have too many problems getting pregnant.
We decided to go on our honeymoon and once we come back, i'll go off the pill and see what happens - but we would like them right away, god willing.
I'll be 30 and FH will be 34 by the time we get married.
Chanwich
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Posted by jwleewedding
Children isn't in my future... personal preference... but it if happens... then I will accept it... but I'm not planning on it.
Ditto
jackieee
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We want babies now!
FH has baby fever like crazy. I've always wanted children and wanted 5 before 30. hahaha I'm 25 now, so yeah, not happening.
We want a big family though and will start trying right away. Can't wait!!!!!!
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We probably will have one MAYBE two the most. Probably not til 3 years or so after the wedding...were an active couple so its hard to hold us down!!
HoopsnYoyo
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Posted by jwleewedding
Children isn't in my future... personal preference... but it if happens... then I will accept it... but I'm not planning on it.
I'm the same way and so is FH. If it happens, it happens. The child will be loved no matter what. But we dont plan on having any.
Jessc4985
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We do want kids, but we want to travel and have newlywed time together .. so maybe in like 3 yrs.
xoabxo
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FH said he wants one right after the wedding! we will most likely wait a little but we want one ... we will see how that goes then we will decide if we want more.
Mrsluv2be
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We want to have kids right away!!!!
GlitterBox24
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RIGHT AWAY... !!!!!! Been together 4.5 years the last 1.5 living together byt the time our wedding comes it will be 3 years living together, so its not like newly wed time is new for us... we are so ready for that next part of life!
Thats-What-She-Said
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I would love to have 3! But it's really up to the man upstairs. Assuming all the plumbing works I would like to start a few months after the wedding.
If it turns out that we have fertility issues then I am totally open to adoption of being a foster parent. FH and I have a lot of love to give to whomever will take it.
Ang9483
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I have two boys
We want more kids DEFF one and I am pushing for 2 lol. I reallly want to try to have a girl.
I need pink and barbies and dresses lol. I love being a mom to boys though. Everyday I get told how beautiful I am and now my 2 year old wakes up every morning kisses my nose and goes your cute lol. AHH being a MAMA is the best thing in the whole world and I can't wait till baby number 3 comes. I am trying after the wedding.
MrsVtoBe
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We definitely want 2 or 3 kids. I would like to wait about a year or two after the wedding for several reasons. The main one is we need to get our finances in better order, and move out of this apartment and into a house!
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We decided we want 2 children. and we are probably going to wait about 2 years before starting to try, but if it happens sooner then so be it!
That's pretty much our plan. I couldn't have said it better. We want to enjoy being newlyweds first, get a house, and take our time (plus I'll just be starting my career as a teacher when we get married so I need to settle into my job before even thinking about maternity leave. lol)
