Have you and your FH decided wheter you want to have Children or not? If So, When? Right After the wedding? Or will you wait a while? Months? Years?
Or will you let 'Fate' decide for you so the baby came come at anytime! and he/she will be welcome?!
My FH and I want to have children after the wedding... {It is extremely important for Us that our Children are born 'inside' of a Sacred Marriage}...Not right after but I would say 1 year after the wedding... BUT if Fate decides to gives us one earlier, then she/he will be Welcome into our world!!!
Forgot to add: We would Like 2.... But if out finances get better, then we would like 3!!!
mrsq2be
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We decided we want 2 children. and we are probably going to wait about 2 years before starting to try, but if it happens sooner then so be it!
allornil
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we talk about it a lot bc I'm 40 and we'll need to have kids soon.
Prob is.....we were both BRATS so we're SCREWED with our kids! They'll be monsters! Well, tahts what our Moms say anyway! lol
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FH wanted kids like 2 years ago lol so he's so excited to try as SOON as we get married. I've started to get that excited feeling recently so I will be ready to try by the time we get married too...which is next year!!! Can't believe it!!!
I can't wait to see FH as a daddy, I think he'd be SOOO good! We want at least 2, maybe 3 if we are very stable financially! We bought a 3 bedroom house so we have room to grow!
jwleewedding
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Children isn't in my future... personal preference... but it if happens... then I will accept it... but I'm not planning on it.
justnicethings
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Definitely want kids. I want three, but we'll probably stop at 2. I'd like to wait a few years, but also want to start before I'm 30.
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We def want children and at first I wanted 4 just like my family but I think for $ reasons, 2 is the best. I told FH that I want to have kids before I turn 35 so that gives us a few years after we get married. we want to wait at least a year to enjoy one year of marriage of just the two of us
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FH and I are definitely having kids. We both agreed we would like to have 3 kids but if a 4th comes along than that's fine too. We both love kids a lot and love the idea of a big family. We would honestly love to have twins and that's not uncommon in my family to have multiples (my aunt has triplets!) but we'll see how that goes.
As far as when we would like to start, if FH had his way he would plant his seed on the wedding night . I told him no effing way! I told him since we are not taking our official honeymoon until Nov/Dec of 2011 (which is about 7-8 months after the wedding) I said let me be able to enjoy my honeymoon and frozen drinks on the sandy beaches of Jamaica and then maybe after that we can start trying.
We both agreed that we don't mind having our first child while still living in our apartment (we have a 2 bedroom so it wouldn't be a problem) but we won't think about having our second until after we buy a home. Maybe with luck the home will come even before the first child!
dianeb888
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We want kid, we will try a few months after the wedding
Kuklitsa143
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Being that I will be thirty when I get married and FH will be 28 ( ugh) I would say probably the first 2 years we will enjoy our marriage and then we will start trying to have kids. I am not going to say I want this many because I will be happy being blessed with one if that what in the cards for us.
MissingLI
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Yes FH and I would like children. We have agreed on 2. I will be 33 and FH will be 35 when we get married, so we plan on starting right away. I plan on going off the pill right after the wedding and seeing what happens.
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FH and I said we would try for 4, but only if we could afford it. My mom is one of six, and my aunt had six- so I came from a big family. We won't start trying until at least a year after being married- want to live in the Honeymoon stage for as long as possible.
Best Part- FH says he wants to stay at home with the kids, so I can have my career....lets see if he agrees to that after the 2nd one is born
WeezyGirl2354
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Kids are def on the horizon - but we are going to wait and actually be married for a while first. I'm an only child so I am still warming up to the idea of kids - since they aren't really my thing lol. But FH is a first grade teacher, so he's all about it LOL
harts2976
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Fh wants kids asap (after the wedding of course). he just got a promotion so that makes it more possible! Though he jokes that if we got preganant now that the baby would be born before the wedding and I wouldn't be pregnant! NO THANK YOU LOL
BellaBride27
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We are definitely planning on having children, we would like 2 or 3 children. We do plan to wait at least a year or two before we have children, but whatever happens we will be very happy and welcoming : )
The Cassie
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yesssssssss!!! most important thing to me was having kids.
I was engaged before and we called off the wedding 6 months before because he decided he didnt want kids all of a sudden so when FH and I first started dating that was the first thing i said to him, if you dont ever want kids tell me now lol
i def want a baby as soon as we're married!
jenn_eric
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There will be kid(s) in the future....but how many and exactly when remains to be seen. As far as I'm concerned it'll be several years after the wedding - I'd like to get our lives completely in order and stable, as well as enjoy being married for a while, before kids come into the picture. FH seems to be on the same page, so that's good.
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FH does hope to have a couple
I'm one of 8 kids!!- so I was hoping to have them.
Having Multiple Sclerosis complicates the issue ...
I always thought I'd have 3, now I'm leaning towards only one.
We have a 1 bedroom, and plan on staying put for at least 2-3 years, sooooo idk
I'm 28- I will be 29 when we get hitched.
That gives me 6 years, after 35 I will not consider kids.
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We're probably going to wait 2-3 years. With this economy, my job is in jeopardy right now (which means I might have to restart my tenure process... ) and I was going to wait until I had tenure before thinking of kids. I want 2 and he mentioned 3... But we'll see what happens after the wedding...
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Posted by jwleewedding
Children isn't in my future... personal preference... but it if happens... then I will accept it... but I'm not planning on it.
I'm in this camp. I was engaged at 24 and we broke it off because of the kids issue (he wanted it,I didn't). Now fast forward 10 years (I'm 33 now) and FH and I are in agreement on not having kids. We just like being DINKS right now (Double Income No Kids).
