For the longest time we said we didn't want kids. We like our happy hours and coming and going as we please, but lately we have been talking about it and I think we will start trying this coming fall after the wedding. If we have a boy the first time arounds, we may stop at that. If not we will try for #2 and that will be it either way.
We want to start trying right away after the wedding however it really depends on our living situation..I'll be 37 by the time we get married and I'd like to have at least one baby in the next 2 years..
We have one together who is 21 months and we are in the middle of getting full custody of his 8 year old. We will probably have one more with in 2 years as FH wants to try for a boy and I just want another baby.
2014 crashing! FH can't wait to have kids but I need to finish school first and hopefully we will have a house by then :)
WE have talked about having kids. We are both kind of young 25 and dont want to have kids till we are atleast 31 32. I want to get my PHD and travel with FH before I bring children into the world. But we would like to have 4 kids and I would LOVE to have twins!!
I talk about it all the time, lol! I definately have baby fever!!! We want atleast two, I am hoping for twins, maybe within a year after the wedding.
We definitely want two maybe 3. I would love one of each! As much as I love the idea of twins..not sure I could handle it. Haha We want to try right away too money will always be an issue.
Zero! No kids, no pets, no plants. We have enough trouble keeping ourselves alive! LOL But we love our nieces and nephews
Posted by Karin
Zero! No kids, no pets, no plants. We have enough trouble keeping ourselves alive! LOL But we love our nieces and nephews
Posted by Karin
Zero! No kids, no pets, no plants. We have enough trouble keeping ourselves alive! LOL But we love our nieces and nephews
We are going to start trying about 6 months after the wedding. I'll be 28 & FH will be 31, so I really want to start trying ASAP. Hopefully we will have 3 (or 4) kids!
ZERO! Unless we change out minds soon. when we marry he will be 29 and I will be 27 and we are both not ready to have kids soon. I am totally fine with that. FSIL just had a little girl so we are totally ok with being the really cool aunt and uncle!
Posted by hedwards0524
We want 2-3. FH is an only child so he never got the chance for siblings. He wants more but I'm not having it. We are DEF waiting a while, prob 2-3 years when I am 28 or so. We dont have a house yet and as I said to another friend the other day, we are both not ready to give up our freedom or our weekends of going out and having one too many cocktails!![]()
ETA- FH's parents are BOTH twins and it has skipped a generation in his family for a while so I am totally SCREWED!!!! I DONT want twins because I can barley take care of myself, let alone 2 babies at the same time!![]()
Posted by lauren1802
Posted by hedwards0524
We want 2-3. FH is an only child so he never got the chance for siblings. He wants more but I'm not having it. We are DEF waiting a while, prob 2-3 years when I am 28 or so. We dont have a house yet and as I said to another friend the other day, we are both not ready to give up our freedom or our weekends of going out and having one too many cocktails!![]()
ETA- FH's parents are BOTH twins and it has skipped a generation in his family for a while so I am totally SCREWED!!!! I DONT want twins because I can barley take care of myself, let alone 2 babies at the same time!![]()
fraternal twin gene runs on the mother's side usually so you may be ok....
(however both my grandmas were twins, and my great uncles, and my moms sister and my mom had twins....)
