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Morning Brides!

Last night me and my girlfriends were talking about my friends bachelorette party thats coming up in the summer which i can not wait for!! so it got me thinking about what i would like to do for mine...todays question is..

What do you want to do for your bachelorette party? what dont you want to do? also..what are you comfortable or not comfortable with FH doing for his bachelor party?

For mine i would love to do something relaxing, like a spa day, some wine and cheese then dinner and dancing at night! i am not comfortable with bar hopping, i dont really drink that much and wouldnt want people offering me shots all night because im the bride..

As far as FH, i would feel comfy with him doing just about anything so long as its not a strip club...i hate to say it but im the jealous type and wouldnt want anyone else's hands on my man. i know it might be silly but thats how i feel.

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My girlfriends already planned my bachelorette party! We really wanted to go to Miami or something, but in reality, we're all paying for wedding stuff so we're spending a wknd in AC. Yeah, it's not the classiest of places - but we've never gone! I can't wait to gamble!! Besides going to the clubs and restaurants, we definitely want to have a spa day. As far as strippers, shots, and all that jazz - I'm all for it. Just don't make me wear a stupid 'bride to be' tiara.

FH can do whatever he wants. I told him he should get stripper and he's totally against the idea! He HATES strippers. He wants more of a stag party. All the guys hang out, eat steak, and smoke cigars. Fine by me!

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I thought it would be awesome to do a luxury box at citifield but I know its expensive. I honestly don't care. My girls know me well enough to put something together that I'll love. There really isn't anything I don't wanna do.

As for Fh. I don't care what he does. I just want him to have a good time. He's not really a strip club person but if he wants to go to one I don't care.

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I actually have NO idea! I don't want my girls to spend a ton so that definitely needs to be factored. I'm thinking it may be in NYC since that's where I live already. The weather also won't be great then since my wedding is in early June. I would have loved to gone sailing or something!

I'm not sure what FH will be doing for his. His good friend is getting married in a few months and they are all going to Montreal for his bachelor party. I think the plan is to have strippers involved quite a bit... Definitely not what my FH is into but his friend is really into it!

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I would love to just spend time with my girls... its a rare occasion that we are in a quiet place together with nothing specific to do but hang out. I'd love to rent a house for the weekend, maybe on Fire Island? One night I'd love to just stay in and hang out... maybe do a beach afternoon and then I would love to go dancing. I don't want to drink my face off and be sick the next day, I have plenty of fun sober!

As for FH, I know what he WANTS to do, but we'll see if his brother plans that haha He just wants to have a good old house party with his boys. Beer pong, guitar playing, fart jokes... ya know... the good old college days hahaha I don't think he's interested in a strip club, but that doesn't mean that FBIL won't make him go lol

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I'm actually going next week to Miami for my gf's bachelorette, and I can't wait! Well for my bachelorette I have a few options..will be either Playa del Carmen for a few days, Miami or Vegas. I don't want to do a cheesy male review show LOL, I just want to have a good time with my girls..have a few drinks, some sun & a lot of dancing!!

I'm comfortable with whatever my FH wants to do..he plans to do Vegas, Mexico or Costa Rica with his boys (all his boys already know & are counting down for the day LOL). And I know a strip club will happen, but I trust he will behave LOL

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I too would love a spa day early in the day, then dinner in the evening and afterwards have a party bus pick us up and take us to a club for dancing (I LOVE to dance) and drinks.

I have no idea what FH would like to do for his. I think he mentioned a weekend trip to AC because he loves to gamble and I'm pretty sure the GM's plan on getting strippers and it doesn't really bother me. I mean a bachelor party and strippers kind of go hand in hand, no? Lol.

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I really want to do a wine tour out east and get a limo to take us all over. I love wine, and I don't really like having to worry about catching a train back from the city or anything so I think this will be the best thing for my particular group of girls.

FH wants to go to Vegas and I'm more jealous of the fact that I won't be able to go to Vegas he's not the stripper type but I can see his one cousin pushing him into it. I just don't wanna know about it lol I don't care if he is in a strip club, I just don't want him getting a lap dance. I'm not comfortable with that.

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I'm totally obsessed with Disney! I got engaged there six months ago and just got back from doing engagement photos there. So for my bachelorette party we are doing a long weekend there. At the time we go it will be EPCOT's Food and Wine Festival so there will be double amount of options for drinking and eating 'around the world'. I wouldn't mind having a fun night with strippers but I think it would be very hard to find them in Disney ( :

As for FH he wants to do Key West of New Orleans! I'm fine with him doing either and if we want strippers I say go for it! I completely trust him and want him to have an awesome bachelor party!!

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I would really like to go away like to vegas or something but I feel like it would cost to much and my girls wouldn't be able to come up with the money for that. I am down for whatever as long as it is not boring. One of my friends just had us come to her sister in laws for a sleep over, no stripper just junk food and chit chat. To me that is a little too boring for a last hurrah. If we went out in the city somewhere that would be cool with me.

FH can do whatever he wants I trust him. I am sure cause they are all older no one is in there 20's some of them are dad's now so I don't think any of them are down for crazy drinking anymore. If he goes to a strip club he goes to one it's not a big deal to me.

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I don;t want my girls to spend a lot of money so I do not plan on doing something overnight. I'd like to maybe start the day with mani/pedis maybe a pole dancing class, and go out in a limo and have some dinner & drinks & dancing. Or I'd like to go to the vineyards. I just want something where we can have fun, quality girl time.

As for FH I think he would like to go to a yankees game & then out to a nice steak house for a nice low key dinner & drinks. (and like Brads Girl I do not want him to have a stripper)

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I actually though about this already and what I'm thinking as of now has definitely changed from back in the days. Back in the days I always pictured definitely having strippers but as I'm getting older i'm like ok whatever.

Right now what I'm thinking of is to go to one of those Awesome 80 party's and then going to Lucky Cheng's after and just keeping it mellow and a fun night out.

As for FH the guys usually have a tradition of going to a METS game for the bachelor parties and then just drinking the night away. Not sure if that will work for FH since baseball season would be over byt the time the wedding comes around unless they really do an early bachelor party. I'm totally fine with FH going to a strip club or having strippers if he wants cause I know he is trustworthy and in the end I know he is all mine.

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I actually have NO idea! I don't want my girls to spend a ton so that definitely needs to be factored. I'm thinking it may be in NYC since that's where I live already. The weather also won't be great then since my wedding is in early June. I would have loved to gone sailing or something!

I'm not sure what FH will be doing for his. His good friend is getting married in a few months and they are all going to Montreal for his bachelor party. I think the plan is to have strippers involved quite a bit... Definitely not what my FH is into but his friend is really into it!

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Don't stress it, my FH went to Montreal for one and said every stripper he came across had horrible body odor lol

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I am thinking about heading to Nashville for a long weekend or Dollywood

I think FH will end up in AC for the weekend and I'm cool with whatever he plans to do there.

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Nikole ....Dollywood!



This is amazing.

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Posted by LadyReeRee


Nikole ....Dollywood!



This is amazing.

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Hahaha right??? How much fun would that be?

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What do you want to do for your bachelorette party?
I want to go somewhere for a weekend, like AC. I want there to be a beach, a night out dancing, and a night with good food! I'm going to have a lot of people come, both people in and not in the bridal party. My sister (whom is 1 of my MOHs) wants to go t Miami or Vegas which I think is just nuts

What dont you want to do?
I don't want anything involving strippers - just not my thing.

What are you comfortable or not comfortable with FH doing for his bachelor party?
FH is planning on going to Vegas for his. I told him to knock his socks off. As long as he doesn't sleep with anyone I'm good lol. I'm totally game for anything else.

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I want the simplest bachelorette party. MAYYYYYYBE dinner and a Broadway show, but I'd honestly rather even just do dinner and drinks. Something you'd barely even call a bachelorette party. I'm not into the whole stripper scene and getting trashed because 'OMG I'M GETTING MARRIED AND I GOTTA LIVE IT UP!' Plus, I hate 'girls night out' type of things. I'm just not really into being with 'the girls.' I blame my all-girls high school for this.

FH is thinking about going to Boston for his. I don't care what he does. He's not into the whole stripper thing either, but I wouldn't care at all if he went to a club.