my FH wants 3.. i'm happy with whatever!! lol I think i want more than one just so the poor kid isn't spoiled to death!
we're gonna wait a few years before having kids.. we don't know if we're gonna stay on LI or not.. so after we're settled (and have traveled the world lolol) we'll think about having kids
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we're definitely gonna wait a couple years but we'd like 2, maybe 3 kids...
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We definitely want children!! I want to wait at least 3-4 years after we get married though. I want FOUR, two girls and two boys ! I will probably have them close together so I'm not popping out babies for the entirety of my middle-aged life lol.
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We both agree that we want 2. For a long time, I always thought I would want to wait 2 or 3 years before having kids but just recently Ive been wanting a baby a lottt more...fh knows and jokes to me about it cuz I keep mentioning it, lol. So, I think I will probally be pregnant like a year or a little less after getting married. FH is in his mid thirties already so hes ready too. Im thinking though the first will come and then well wait a couple of years before the second.
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Yes we plan to have kids. I think 2 or 3. Probably 2.
We plan on waiting about a year before we start trying.
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We want kids...probably two. We are going to wait a while until we are more settled before trying, but once we do we will have them very close together...
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we already have 1 and he will be 2 when we get married. we always said we want 4 because i was an only child and want lots of kids and he was the middle child and hated it so he doesn't want an odd number. he wanted to have more right away but we are def' waiting a few months after we get married so our son will be 3 and maybe we can give him a little sister since there are only like 3 girls on both sides of our families and the rest are allll boyss. drives me nutss sometimess but i love them alll
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I want 2 girls and he keeps saying he wants like 5 (not gonna happen.) He doesn't care of the sex of the baby. I am a planner and want one before I turn 30 (which will be in 4 years). So If I can get one in 2 years, I will be fine with that. He on the other hand is like when God blesses us then we will have them.
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My FH and I may have children. If we TTC it won't be for at least a year. But we're older...lol so that could change.
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FH and I totally want 3 kids, but we'll probably wait 2 years b/c I'm selfish! We want to travel and do things for ourselves b4 we devote our lives to kids.
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We want kids...He wants two of our own, I want two kids, one ours and one adopted...He doesnt mind adopting children, he knows how important it is for me to come full circle like that, so he is very supportive of me wanting to adopt
exact same thing here.
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yes we do plan on having kids. i would like 2, 1 boy, 1 girl. however, FH says we can't stop until we have a boy. lol.
we would ideally like to wait until we are financially stable & have room to put a baby before starting but i will probably stop using bcp a couple of months after the wedding
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We used to say we didn't want any.
Now we're both wavering towards the 'yeah, someday...' side of things.
We don't live together and won't be living together until we're married, so we do want to have 2 to 3 years living together before we try to have a baby.
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i want 2 fh wants 3 ouch
italgal
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NO WAY! NO HOW! NEVER! NO KIDS FOR US! God bless all of you ladies out there that want them. Good luck may you have as many as you want & may they all be healthy & successful. As for me & my FH NO THANKS!
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Yes, we want kids but I want to wait a couple of years after the wedding. We want to travel and be able to buy a home closer to our families before we start a family. I want 3 but if you ask FH, he says 5! I say he is out of his mind!
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We're going to wait a year then start trying. We're looking to have 2 -3 kids
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Well if I take the advice one of my students parents gave me, then we should be trying RIGHT NOW!!! Cross the line, uhhh maybe. LOL
I'll be 38 when we get married, FH 39. We're planning one heck of a honeymoon!!! I'd love to make a honeymoon baby and FH is right on board. That's why we want to do such a 'big' honeymoon. We're looking to do either a Med. Cruise with a side trip to Luxembourg or a 3 week tour of Italy with a side trip to Lux. That of course, will have to wait until end of June/July which will make me 39 at that point. There are a lot of issues that may make it an ordeal TTC. I guess we'll try the night of, or weekend of and then try to hold out for the summer. IDK, just an idea.
How many? Well, I'd love twins, a and a and be done!! Bottom line is that I pray with all my heart that how ever many we are blessed with are healthy and happy. FH is one of 3, I'm 1 of 2. Since the Becvar gals are always getting on television, if We or anyone else wants to give FH and I a reality show TTC and beyond, I'd go for it. LOL
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Posted by Kimbiz1
Well if I take the advice one of my students parents gave me, then we should be trying RIGHT NOW!!! Cross the line, uhhh maybe. LOL
I'll be 38 when we get married, FH 39. We're planning one heck of a honeymoon!!! I'd love to make a honeymoon baby and FH is right on board. That's why we want to do such a 'big' honeymoon. We're looking to do either a Med. Cruise with a side trip to Luxembourg or a 3 week tour of Italy with a side trip to Lux. That of course, will have to wait until end of June/July which will make me 39 at that point. There are a lot of issues that may make it an ordeal TTC. I guess we'll try the night of, or weekend of and then try to hold out for the summer. IDK, just an idea.
How many? Well, I'd love twins, a and a and be done!! Bottom line is that I pray with all my heart that how ever many we are blessed with are healthy and happy. FH is one of 3, I'm 1 of 2. Since the Becvar gals are always getting on television, if We or anyone else wants to give FH and I a reality show TTC and beyond, I'd go for it. LOL
Hahahaha thats really cute lol
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Boy do we plan on kids!!! I can't wait! However, we are thinking logically and will begin when the economy is slightly better. That way, we won't be stressed cutting corners. The ultimate plan is a year into the marriage to begin the whole family thing. I personally think that I want them while we are young so that way I lose the weight faster and we won't be 70 when our kids graduate from college...
