QOTD 4/17/12

jojo07135 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 09:06 AM

QOTD 4/17/12

How do you deal with all the stress and anxiety with wedding planning, working, fh???

It has been driving me crazy. Lately I have been feeling so lost with everything going on. I find that my new outlet is working out.. Definately takes away the stress and allows me time to think without blowing up!!

chrissie0121 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 09:09 AM

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I honestly take one thing at a time and when I real overwhelmed I just stop what I am doing for a bit and take and break and go back to it a little later.

kitt6katt Posted: Apr 17, 2012 09:18 AM

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I am overworked and overtired at this point. I need to find a coping mechanism because I don't want to lash out at FH. He's super busy too but barely does anything for the wedding. It's not that I necessarily WANT him to be doing stuff, but it's a huge weight to bare on my shoulders alone...

Bride2012 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 09:25 AM

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I eat! I should be doing more of what you do and workout

pjt212301 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 09:48 AM

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I have 12 days until our wedding and I am beginning to have a really difficult time. I don't know what to do and I hate feeling this way.....we're married civilly and its a party, why am I stressing this much? I would love to have a food outlet but again, 12 days and no way am I going eat and gain weight.

tara5533 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 09:54 AM

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I have learned from the ladies on here to do things one thing at a time and not to stress over it things will get done and you day will be amazing!!!!!

Lilnessa Posted: Apr 17, 2012 10:24 AM

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I try to stick to my check list of things i need to get done! Im trying not to leave too much left to get done right before the wedding

JuneBug86 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 10:33 AM

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I think the fact that we gave ourselves a lot of time to plan this wedding helped alleviate feeling stressed. There are times though that I just want things done even though I know we have a lot of time and that's where FH and I clash a lot so I try to take a break from it by doing other things like eating LOL

net267 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 10:43 AM

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As soon as I get overwhelmed I stop planning and take a break. It helped that I had over 20 months to plan but even now with 6 months left I can't get myself to finish the little things. Taking it one task at a time and finally asking FH for help.

KDNY133 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 10:53 AM

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I drink wine

cdh2672 Posted: Apr 17, 2012 11:04 AM

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Posted by KDNY133

I drink wine

Ditto!! and lists help me...but honestly,, I'm in a major stress ball right now

TheLadyJ Posted: Apr 17, 2012 11:44 AM

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most of the time I'm OK. With work, I find looking online for wedding things to be a welcome relief from the stress of the job. I get ideas and find cute things to do that make me excited.

But with less than 5 months less to go (only 21 weekends!!!!), I find myself getting more and more stressed about the little things, and an FH who thinks everything is done.

Larkin2Longo Posted: Apr 17, 2012 11:58 AM

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I take a break, that is what I am doing right now. No vendors, no opinions no anything for a few days. before I explode! Although I am on wedding sites now... Next is a few days away then I will be fresh and restarted and can finish what I am doing before 100 days hits it two weeks.