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Nichole2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:15 AM

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Alright girls,

I'm not much of a morning person, so I'm going to post my question now so you all aren't waiting all day for it!!!

So, my 2nd question as BOTW is:

Think back to when you first met your FH. Did you ever imagine you would one day be marrying him? why or why not?

I met FH when I was in 11th grade...we both worked at the same place...we HATED HATED HATEDDD each other...NEVERR in my wildest dreams did i everrr imagine i would be be dating my FH let alone MARRYING him.

Then, when we started dating, I was still in shock about the whole thing, and figured it would just be a little fling, and we would go back to hating each other.

However, the years went on, i fell madly in love, and after almost 4 years of dating I am marrying him....it's unreal sometime...he feels the same way lol

its weird how things work out

grrulz Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:17 AM

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nope!! i never imagined!!! when I started dating him I never thought about the future!! I HATE THINKING ABOUT THE FUTURE! so I just live the present as if its the last one!! life is too short!! our relationship as bf/gf was so wonderful!! we never discussed marriage until actually months before we got engaged!! it took me by surprise and til this day I can't believe I am going to get married lol

MikesBride2B Posted: Apr 21, 2009 12:27 AM

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Completely and totally...I think from our first conversation even there was some sort of spark there...and by our first in person meeting I knew we had something really special...and the second time I knew he was THE ONE.

DnT2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 06:39 AM

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actually, we both sort of knew right away that we were 'the ones' we talked about the future and weddings like 2 months into out relationship. i actually told my mom after our first date that i was going to marry him one day.. and here we are

kimmaymb20 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 07:07 AM

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i didnt know when I first started to talk to FH but after our first date I just knew he was the one. We are like peas and carrots we just belong together. I told my mom a few months in that he was the one so get used to him being around

Lsorrent Posted: Apr 21, 2009 07:41 AM

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ABSOLUTELY NOT!

I've told the story many times, but FH and I were set up on a blind date by our mothers. I was going on this date just to make my mother happy. I NEVER expected anything to come out of it.

If you ask FH, he'll tell you he thought I was a total b!tch on our first date and wasn't ever going to call me again. He wanted to date my best friend (who is now married with a daughter, and is going to be one of my BM's).

Yea, um that was 9 1/2 years ago

Nichole2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 07:44 AM

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Posted by Lsorrent

ABSOLUTELY NOT!

I've told the story many times, but FH and I were set up on a blind date by our mothers. I was going on this date just to make my mother happy. I NEVER expected anything to come out of it.

If you ask FH, he'll tell you he thought I was a total b!tch on our first date and wasn't ever going to call me again. He wanted to date my best friend (who is now married with a daughter, and is going to be one of my BM's).

Yea, um that was 9 1/2 years ago

weird how things work out....if i wouldnt have sent FH a text message just to start annoying him after I quit the place we both worked at, we never would have started talking!!

what made FH call you again??

stinenandy2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 07:46 AM

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Definitely, I knew from our first kiss, it was everything I ever dreamed it would be....yes I am so corny.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 07:58 AM

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When I met Shawn, I honestly thought he was your typical jock stereotype so I figured we would date for a few months and that would be it...But boy, was I wrong...About 3 months into our relationship I had said something to him about thinking we were only going to be together for a little while and he said to me that he doesnt do short term relationships and that he only is with girls that he can be with for a long time (or something to that effect) Once he said that to me I had a feeling our relationship would get serious, but at the time I had no idea we would end up getting married!!

Jna2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:01 AM

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well when we first met i turned him down cuz i had just gotten out of a relationship like 6 months before lolollllll

but after i knew that i was going to spend the rest of my life with him, he is everything i ever wanted and soo sooooo soooo much more

Kiki1103 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:45 AM

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Definitely yes, I wouldn't have started dating him if I didn't feel this way. Didn't feel like wasting my time like in previous relationships. I knew from the minute I met him that I could picture myself marrying him. He is the type of person I always pictured myself with.

christine2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:48 AM

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i met FH on valentines day in 2000. i was almost 16 at the time & i knew that one day we would start dating. once we officially started dating it was within a couple of weeks when i knew i would marry him. no doubt in my mind.

SummerBride10 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:51 AM

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Not really. I had hoped it would work out, but I didnt think it would go this far. So glad it did!

Future Mrs H Posted: Apr 21, 2009 08:55 AM

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I had always swore i would never marry again. Until FH! About 1 month after we were dating, I knew he was the one.

MayBride2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:03 AM

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I did, about a week after we started hanging out. I had just gotten out of a crappy 5 year relationship and Dave (FH) was like a breathe of fresh air to me and we both knew we were the one for each other. He has since become my rock and I couldn't imagine my life without him. Cheesy, but true

depoc1011 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:10 AM

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i was hesitant bc i have been hurt before...i tried so hard to keep my gaurd up but he took it down! when i realized he took it down then i knew

MarjorieFrank Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:15 AM

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I HATED FH when I first met him. We worked together and I can still see in my head the dirty look he gave me when I walked through the door LOL (I'm sure it was just matching my evil glare.) After about a year, we started to date and even before our first date I knew he was the one!!

KatieG2010 Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:19 AM

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Initially, I met him because I was looking for a senior prom date. After dating the first month, I was shocked because we had such a connection- we never faught and he did anything and everything for me (once i told him to pick me up sour straws on the was to pick me up, he brought me 4 Costco size boxes in every flavor- he's crazy) By my birthday a few months later I knew that he was the one for me. The year later he told me that he was going to marry me- 6 years later here we are

Lsorrent Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:22 AM

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Posted by Nichole2010

Posted by Lsorrent

ABSOLUTELY NOT!

I've told the story many times, but FH and I were set up on a blind date by our mothers. I was going on this date just to make my mother happy. I NEVER expected anything to come out of it.

If you ask FH, he'll tell you he thought I was a total b!tch on our first date and wasn't ever going to call me again. He wanted to date my best friend (who is now married with a daughter, and is going to be one of my BM's).

Yea, um that was 9 1/2 years ago

weird how things work out....if i wouldnt have sent FH a text message just to start annoying him after I quit the place we both worked at, we never would have started talking!!

what made FH call you again??

I called him the next day to thank him for the wonderful time I had Guess it must've come out of the blue for him, because he thought I was miserable the whole time.

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Apr 21, 2009 09:23 AM

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I knew I was going to marry FH BEFORE I ever really met him, believe it or not!! I was always friends with his younger brother, and his brother was trying to set me up with one of FH's friends, but somehow, I knew I would end up withFH. WEIRD.