I'm not much of a morning person, so I'm going to post my question now so you all aren't waiting all day for it!!!
So, my 2nd question as BOTW is:
Think back to when you first met your FH. Did you ever imagine you would one day be marrying him? why or why not?
I met FH when I was in 11th grade...we both worked at the same place...we HATED HATED HATEDDD each other...NEVERR in my wildest dreams did i everrr imagine i would be be dating my FH let alone MARRYING him.
Then, when we started dating, I was still in shock about the whole thing, and figured it would just be a little fling, and we would go back to hating each other.
However, the years went on, i fell madly in love, and after almost 4 years of dating I am marrying him....it's unreal sometime...he feels the same way lol
its weird how things work out
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Nope, didn't think it at all. It took me a while to even figure out if I even liked him and wanted to have a relationship with him , I had issues at first with the 7 year age difference at the time.
I'm glad I went against my initial instincts and decided to continue to keep seeing him
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I met my FH in high school he was a grade older, we were hi/bye friends. I went to his senior prom with a mutual friend (as friends)- so my FH and I even slow danced at his senior prom - years later after college we kept running into each other, and one time we decided that we should go on a date. . . . Here we are 5 years later :) I can't wait to marry him.
To answer the question, If you asked me in high school (11 years ago) if I was going to marry my FH, I think I would have said no - because we were not that good of friends, but I think I would have said that I could have seen it happening - if that makes sense!
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To be honest, I didn't know how far it would go but I knew that he was going to be a special one! I could tell he was different from other guys. We both met at work almost 8 years ago and all of the female co-workers thought he was a cutie. I'm not competitive and especially not when it comes to guys, but for what ever reason we noticed each other and although our relationship moved extremely slow in the beginning we just clicked and it's worked!
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Before I actually knew him, I would see him in class and thought he was very cocky so I highly disliked him. The words had actually come out of my mouth, 'Ew I hate ___ ___ he's so cocky' lol. Then we actually met and starting talking and I realized I was very wrong and knew right away, so did he. I think it was Kristen who said above she wouldn't have bothered if she didn't feel that way and I agree I wouldn't have wasted my time either. He's exactly the type of guy who I always pictured and wanted to be with
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Posted by Jenna_and_John
Before I actually knew him, I would see him in class and thought he was very cocky so I highly disliked him. The words had actually come out of my mouth, 'Ew I hate ___ ___ he's so cocky' lol. Then we actually met and starting talking and I realized I was very wrong and knew right away, so did he. I think it was Kristen who said above she wouldn't have bothered if she didn't feel that way and I agree I wouldn't have wasted my time either. He's exactly the type of guy who I always pictured and wanted to be with
I cant even count the number of times the words 'I hate ____ ____' came out of my mouth before we started dating
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i think part of me knew pretty quickly that we would be together forever....fh always says how a month into our relationship he went looking for rings bc he was so in love and excited...but decided he should probably wait since we were both young, in college, and just started dating
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We started dating in H.S.; I never thought we would last so long. I just broke up with my ex and my friend decided to fix me up with FH. But after 1 month of dating, I knew he was going to be someone extra special. I know it's super cheesy.
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if u have asked me after our 1st date, I would have said YES!!! we had the most amazing time together and then he kissed me (best kiss of my life). But then the 2nd date wasn't that good (today he tells me that he was very nervous ). but we continued dating and I wasn't that into him and even broke up with him for half an hour. what made me take that back was that I had a mouse in my apartment. I freaked out (hateeeee them!!!), but FH kept his cool and totally took care of me. Then and there I knew he was THE ONE. Anybody that sees this insane girl screaming bloody murder and all he wants to do is to take care of her is someone u can always count on. The mouse was also a sign that I made a mistake by breaking up with him, he literally showed the moment I said those words
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I knew I was going to marry FH after our first date. Something clicked inside and I was willing to give up my party life for him and become more commited. I remember going to Easter Sunday mass and thinking to myself how freaking nuts I was....
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I think I knew it the moment he asked me to be his girlfriend. I just knew he was perfect.
Wow, thats corny lol
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Not when I first met him, no. We knew each other for about three years before we started dating. Once we started dating, though, it didn't take me very long to realize he was the one. And I'm glad I did!
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i knew FH for almost a year before we started dating but I was in a relationship when we met that's why. We worked at the same restaurant and I thought he was the cutest guy there, so i was surprised that on my last day working there he asked me to go out and celebrate my last day(me & ex were broken up for a week). i reallyy needed tog et out because i was so upset about the break up. At first I just thought we were both eachother's rebounds (he and his his ex were broken up maybe a couple of months). But we saw eachother practically every day since that first 'date'. A few months later it hit me that it was more than a fling and he was the 'one'.
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OMG definately not!
The first time i met him I thought he was gay! And I was h/u with his best friend! I will always remember he had on a yellow turtleneck sweater and complimented by 'cute puma sneakers.'
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I have to be honest, when I met FH, never in my wildest dreams did I think FH and I were going to be a couple let alone get married!!
You know I had been without a boyfriend for like forever, so I decided that I would not focus on it and whatever happens, happens....So with that attitude, I met FH on a Friday night in June of '06, when my co-worker and her husband took me out to dinner in the Bronx (Mama Maria's). He worked with my co-worker's husband and happened to be at the restaurant. So he came by my table and I thought he was nice, but definitely not my type at all. it definitely was not love at first sight for me..., but he got my phone number and we talked for about a month over the phone, so we got to know one another pretty well. A month later we went on our first date and it has been bliss ever since.
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We met a few months after he had turned 20 and a few months before I turned 20. We were like best friends for 6 months before we started dating. And it was just so weird, when we first met, we both liked other people and we were always trying to 'help' each other, and so many nights ended just me & him talking alone and being upset because we couldn't get the people that we wanted.
But I do remember saying to someone during that time frame that I knew I was going to marry someone that I already knew. But I didn't know it was going to be him until we started dating lol!
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since we met when we were 13..I'm going to say no lol. But 10 years later...I just had this gut feeling that there was something more to it then just a date. I wasn't even scared of him being the one, I just kinda was like yup..this is what I have been waiting for.......
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good question..
no i never imagined be marrying him. i had such bad relationships in the past,, that i just gave up on guys. when i met fh my friend was telling me go out with him and give him a chance. so i did, i just thought it would of been an other failure. but at the 3 month point, i was sitting there and saying to him that im happy i went through with dating him.
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I had just a bad break up with my ex-fiancee of 4 years when we all went out to dinner for my Best Friends Birthday. She had met a guy on Match.com and we were meeting him for the first time. When I met him he said he had a friend for me. I was kind of iffy about it but I went on a date with this guy. It was the best decision of my life!!! My best friend said she spent $30 dollars a month to meet a man and they broke up a week later and now I will have a fiance!
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no way!!!!!! i thought it was going to be a hit and run!!!!! considering i just got of a relationship when i met him
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I absolutely knew....
I had been with guys who gave me lots of attention, but it was the nagative type looking back now.
And this is going to sound weird, but it was because FH actually challenged me and didn't just do everything I wanted that I knew he was special....I wanted someone that would say no every now and then..
